Do you think there’s any reason my friends with benefits treats me like this, wtf?

[Anonymous]

I know I shouldn’t care but I’ve had a friends with benefits for a year now.

anyway sometimes randomly he deletes me of social media, this has happened 6 times now it’s like a habit. And then I always give him a reaction and attention then he adds me back straight away? I don’t get it. We have great sex and then 2 weeks later I get deleted, I ask why and he will say something like ‘how much do you want me’ like wtf? It’s just annoying now because I feel like he’s playing games? Does anyone know why he’s like this?

then we will have sex again and it’s great and then he will delete me and then sometimes I’ll message him asking why and he will say something like ‘send me nudes’ ?

he's 19 by the way and I’m also 19.

[Emii_Urashima]

He is a jerk and you can do much better than that.
Having friends-with-benefits is still not all that common in the west like it is in asia, and usually people do this the wrong way.
First, this arrangement should be on your terms, not his. If it is on his terms, he loses all respect for you and treats you like a blow up doll, or some personal object. Boys and men have egos that can get out of control really easily. Before you get in an arrangement like this, you should sit down with him and make the rules, which are fair for you both. For it to really work, he needs to be a friend who cares about you, but just does not want a relationship with anyone.

[Bronni2134]

Basically he just wants to see you when he wants to Fuck you. Other days he doesn't want even see your face on social media. So if he's horney and got nobody available, he knows You gonna be available and you gonna fuck him. Next time you suck his dick just know that dick is going into someone els also

[loveslongnails]

He's 19. He's an immature little kid, but I'm guessing there's other motives. Perhaps when he's hitting on another girl, or one is interested in him, he doesn't want you to be seen as a friend. But odds are, he just wants your attention and he knows if he deletes you, that will get a reaction from you.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like crossed signals. I'm guessing he's strictly friends with benefits and suspects that you want something more. The off / on thing could also mean that he's fonder of you than he wants to be. I hope this helps, but I'm quite sure you could do better.

[spartan55]

Fwbs are so classy, aren't you glad you chose to be in one?

[DonkeyDan]

Sounds like he's an attention seeking little pussy boy, get yourself a real man!!

[Woke51]

If he wants to play games, you can decide not to play.

[Open2It]

He's immature and playing games. He'll keep doing this as long as you keep giving him attention. Next time he does it, go silent on him and put the upper hand back on your side.