Do FLR (Female Led Relationships) require that the Male become Feminized?

My girlfriend suggested that we try a FLR, and I agreed to give it a try. What started with Her leaving me a note of things to do around our apartment, has turned into my "My Required to Do List" in only two weeks time! Yesterday, in addition to my To Do List, She laid out some Lingerie for me to be wearing when She came home... I participated, thinking it would lead to "Sexual Activity", but something quite the opposite happened. She put a Pink Plastic Chastity device on me, and then put the key on a chain around her neck! She now requires that I wear Panties, Stockings & Garter, Training Bra, and a Camisole under my male clothes... She does allow me "Play Time" twice a week, but only if I'm good! I now have a Lingerie drawer, and no Male underwear. She has given me a Fem name, and tells me what a Good Girl I am becoming. She is threatening to purchase a "Pegging Kit", and to bring home one of Her office friends, to show them what she has done with me. She won't tell me if the Friend is Male or Female...
If anyone can give me some advice as to where they think this is going, or if you have experience in FLR, please respond with your suggestions as to what you think I should do...
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  • Your case definitely seems like she wants to feminize you. If you're not into it, leave cause she's definitely going too far too fast and you don't seem ready for it.

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  • You need to grow some balls and kick that bitch to the curb!

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  • No not really, you can have FLR without being feminized

  • The only person who can help you in your situation is yourself but I definitely recommend you breaking up with her if she is making you uncomfortable and embarrassed

  • If you both like it, so what. Most couples do not go this far. They both work out what you both like. For us, my wife is the boss & I obey her. She has the final say & control. I have to earn to play my games and watch sports. She has the remote for the TV now. I self-control my cums, so we do not need a cage, But I would wear one if she decided.
    We do have a safe word.
    We have been married for 50 years. My wife is an old-school church lady. She was taught men are the ones in charge. She LOVES being the boss. If we had done this 50 years ago it would have avoided a lot of fights.

  • Girl up and beg her to peg you

  • Not at all but in line the exchanging of the power rule has a feel more of the feminine that is part of me and every other person out there stuff you get all weird out and as a male who was trapped in a male or where feelings aren't really allowed Etc is very nice to express love and kindness it the flr is truly saved my marriage

  • NO! ONLY BY CHOICE. I am embarking on a Female Led Relationship. This is after my moment of Ego Destruction. I lived a lie to my own self many years. I thought of myself as an overly masculine alpha (nothing wrong with being masculine - but when you have over inflation of that you are living a lie). In tears, lots of tears I forgave myself. I am a Submissive. I need a woman to keep me in line. I need to know what obedience is and to obey women. I want to show my love through submission. That right there is humility and it will keep your Ego in check or forever destroyed. I wan to keep my Ego destroyed. So, I am forever a Submissive.

  • Many do, FLR is a custom made arrangement. It is up to the female. You are very lucky, and you need to be happy. Be prepared to be pegged and feminized.

  • Nope, she clearly is into feminizing you. Be careful the last time I heard about a girl doing this; she had him go through a sex change against his will.

  • Prepare to get pegged