How important are your orgasms during sex?

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ohshee · Accepted Answer

This is kind of weird when growing up we are taught are shown to our parents what levels are how love should be. Probably from 5 years old till 10 years old ladies get beat with a belt but I did something wrong. He was my step dad and when I was 10. They got a divorce when I was 13 or 14 my mom remarried when I was 16 I moved out of my house because the guy she married wanted to put his hands on me and I wasn't going to have that so. So in fighting my way through life I had to teach myself a lot of things making love fucking having sex was one way for me to show my affection and how much I love somebody. So having sex is very very important to me it is a bond like no other it is my way of saying thank you for putting up with all my shit I'm sorry for whatever I've done and this is how much I love you and I make sure I make it all about her every single time we would have sex I'm single but it doesn't matter who I had sex with that's how I have sex I make sure that they orgasm at least two to three times before I even think about it. So I don't care if it's in real life I don't care if it's on roleplay I don't care if it's on phone sex I'm going to do everything in my power to get her off the best way possible as many times as possible so yes it's very important to me

ChrisMaster69 · Accepted Answer

The most important orgasms are the other persons.

So for me it’s ensuring the girl is orgasming during foreplay or other stuff before you have sex.

thats she's simmering and been to boil a few times before that final hard boil

kaylaS91 · Accepted Answer

Not that important tbh.
I'm far more of a giver so while I'm a super sexual person and initiate sex quite a bit, reaching climax is probably my lowest priority when hooking up with my boyfriend. I almost enjoy teasing/getting him to cum more than focusing on myself.

PrettyPriya · Accepted Answer

It is a must for me. Why else would I put in the work lol

GoldenAxer · Answer

Maybe B. Ideally I would climax every time (and usually do) but I'm not so upset if I don't. There were a few times I didn't because the girl became too sore in the middle and I didn't want to hurt her.

I don't really see the climax as the highlight of sex though. Sometimes I think the best part is the beginning when you're so into each other and removing each other's clothes. If the orgasm was the ultimate highlight, I don't see why I should even favor sex over masturbation.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

It's important to me because orgasms feel incredibly good. I wish I could orgasm each & every time we have sex but it so happens that I can't every now & then because there isn't enough time or I/we got distracted.

summiter · Answer

They are wonderful and extremely important. Besides, they feel great!

Dnc873 · Answer

I'm more concerned with making the girl cum as much as I can and then I'll try to let it go in the middle of one of her orgasms, timing is everything my friend

normalice · Answer

I don't like to orgasm because I love to fuck and an orgasm usually means the end of it.

MotorcycleMan · Answer

Not as important to me as yours is. lol

ronw235 · Answer

I prefer to come in second and go for the silver medal. I think my partner should cum first

Bricealan · Answer

Just getting my penis in her is good, but if I can ejaculate in her that is a lot better

Inexpensivefurniture · Answer

I rarely orgasm during sex, so I've learned not to care much if I do or not. If it happens it's a pleasant addition

exitseven · Answer

Sometimes I do not cum and it is just awesome to please her in bed.

Browneye57 · Answer

They are the REASON for sex. You don't know how to orgasm?

Femdom_Society · Answer

My orgasm is much less important than making sure She cums every time.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Lol. I will have an orgasm regardless. Don't worry about me. Just let me take care of you.

Tunasub · Answer

How important is blood to the body?

Caliguy88 · Answer

Not stoping till I’m done even if I gotta finish by myself,

Made4sex · Answer

Orgasums are very important! But the point of having sex is to enjoy And to please your partner. So I only care that she has them.

orangecherry · Answer

I like to have an orgasm but it can be fun without it, as long as he is going to take care of me later or the next day. sometimes he will cum fast before I get one. It's ok he just owes me. But if I don't get one soon I start to feel very frustrated and I can get irritable and in a bad mood.