1. Nearly every guy likes getting head - just like nearly every girl does. Nearly every guy also wants sex - even the greatest relationship guys. Guys wanting sex and sexual things should be assumed to be true, because 99.9% of the time, it IS true. The important question for you is: do they want something MORE than just sex? And the only way to answer that is to spend time with the person and talk with them a lot - and I do NOT mean "via text" - I'm talking about IN PERSON.
2. Tinder is NOT a dating app - it's a "casual sex hookup" app. Do not deceive yourself. If you are looking for love, Tinder is the WRONG PLACE. Yes, yes, we know you have that one friend who met her boyfriend that way, but one exception does not invalidate the rule. You also have 50 girls you know who use Tinder to hook up, or just to tease guys to get attention and validation from them. None of THOSE girls found boyfriends from Tinder, and it's very unlikely that you will either, not because of you personally, but because Tinder is NOT a dating app.
3. Per #2, guys are looking for head on the first date, because they're not looking for a relationship, or at least not a serious, romantic, committed one. At best, they're looking for a Friends With Benefits, but many are just looking for a one-night-stand.
A guy who asks for a BJ on a first date thinks of you as a sex toy; a pleasure unit; a cum dump, nothing more. He doesn't care to think of you as a human being. He will use you and throw you away. That's fine if it's also what you're after.
Do guys enjoy BJs? Absolutely, especially if the woman is skilled. A woman can do things with her mouth, lips and tongue that feel incredible. She doesn't have to deep throat to be amazing.
It's also erotic to be serviced by an eager woman and to watch her lovely face as she works.
As far as it being one sided, women also love receiving oral. Most women can cum like crazy from being skillfully licked. Most guys enjoy doing that, just as a lot of women love sucking cock.
It's all part of normal sex.
guys really love getting their cocks sucked... depends on how your dressing too... if your going to wear a short dress odds are your going to be asked to give head... i assume anyway... i'm only me and don't know what other girls are asked... most will ask before hand some will ask during the date... regardless i don't mind giving a blowjob i enjoy sucking a cock and the intimacy while giving one... and i'd say almost every guy ultimately love a blowjob on a date or the 1st date not really a shocker
"if your going to wear a short dress odds are your going to be asked to give head" This might be the case, all my pics on tinder are either in tube top or a tiny skirt. I'll change my pics and see if guys will stop asking me to go down on first date.
it'll help if that's what you want to avoid... a lot of guys associate wearing short dresses to cocksucking even when i was 14 they did.
it could be porn influenced i don't know how many guys watch blowjob sex online... it would make sense if you wear short dresses that's why they ask so often... interesting question when you add is it a porn thing... only guys can answer that part.
Because they can't help their lame selves!
SMH. Why does this statue exist? 🤦
@Jamie05rhs Because guys were concerned about their dicks for centuries apparently.
I think Freud had that right. Women wish they had one to play with of their own.
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Do guys really like to get their d*ck sucked or is it just a porn thing? In my experience, yes Hubby loves a good BJ.
If yes, what's the reason for that? Can't say from personal experience, but it seems to feel good to him.
Do girls like receiving oral, or is it fair to call them weirdos as well?
at your age, have you been living in a convent or are you trolling?
Getting a bj is great and all guys love it, but on the first date? I'd be happy with just a handjob on the first date. Do they ever say that they will return the favor?
Everyone likes getting oral sex. This definitely isn't a porn thing 😂
It's hard to imagine a guy not liking it. As long as the girl knows what she is doing, or is eager to learn, it feels amazing.
Yes we really do like it, it feels really gooooood!
Wouldn't expect anything on the first date though.
We'll I don't know a guy who would say no to it. Actually I don't mind going down
We do, because it feels really good. Don't you enjoy getting head? Have you tried it?
Your bio probably gave you away as meat. It attracted the fuckboy flys as expected.
They actually like it. They also like inserting the peen inside the sniz and the butt. :)
Calling guys who enjoys B. J. s weirdos, isn't likely to encourage honest responses from ♂️ readers.
Oral sex is fun and exciting, and it feels very good. I have to say the sword cuts both ways. Depending on the situation, and the woman, I want to eat her out too, and have on many occasions, and they, like to be eaten too.
I may be wrong, but the oral sex attraction is equal on both sided. When I was in my 20's met a girl in her late teens and wanted me to just eat her pussy, and we arranged we meet at her friends condo, and I did eat her pussy but when I got up on my knees to fuck her she reneged, and refused to let me fuck her, and you can imagine how pissed I was. So, some women/girls do favor being eaten out over fucking, and that gives you an idea of why men like being sucked off. SIMPLY PUT, IT FEELS GOOD
In my limited experience with getting head, it is pretty nice.
Yes I have talked to a lot of guys they love it
@rcase321 do you like doing it for a guy?
I like to eat out a hairy pussy and I don't mind smell, taste
but as far as a girl sucking my cock that is up to her but
it's not necessary with me.
I love getting blowjobs but I wouldn't bring up the subject in the first conversation!
Hell yeah we like it. It CAN feel incredible.
Yes, they do.
That said, I certainly do NOT condone hanky-panky on the first date- or second- or
Oh yes. We love it. It feels fantastic.
It may very well be a porn thing but it just so happens to be incredibly pleasurable.
If guys on tinder ask for head on a first date that seems a little trashy to me. But if thats what people are into then thats cool
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