Is he trying for another baby?

So here’s the thing, my baby daddy and I have a 1 year old son. But recently I’ve been telling him that I want another baby. We spoke about it and he said right now isn’t a good time, so we can have that baby later down. However, I didn’t let the thought go just yet. We’ve been having sex a lot more than usual recently, both our choices (unprotected, pull out method), and if I feel a little nauseous or have a headache for whatever reason, he keeps asking many times if I’m pregnant. At first it felt like he was just joking, but he’s been asking more frequently. I did ask him again if he wants another baby and again, he said not right now. But last month my period came 5 days late, and when I told him he wasn’t shocked or acted weird or anything like what he would have acted like if I told him I was late months ago. Fast forward to our last two sexual encounters, while we were having sex, I asked him to not pull out because I want another baby, and he ejaculated deep in me. Afterwards he tried to tell me to get it out (lol, yeah, I don't know either), but he didn’t hint for me to get a morning after pill like he did in the past. The last time again, I asked him to not pull out, again, I was very clear about wanting a baby that’s why I wanted him to cum in me. And, you guessed it, he came in me and this time again, he didn’t hint a morning after pill. A while after we were out on a drive and he asked when I’ll be ovulating (the first time he’s ever asked me that), I told him next week I’ll be at the peak of my ovulation and he just said okay. I guess I’ll have to see if he pulls out on his own or not while I’m ovulating. My gut is telling me he wants another baby, because his words say one thing, but his actions another. My question is, what do you all think? Is he trying to get me pregnant because he might want another baby right now despite him saying not right now? Or am I overthinking it? (Also, I wasn’t trying to pressure him into it)
Updates:
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Almost forgot this as well, yesterday I told him I’m pregnant just to hear what he’ll say, but he just said okay (he probably figured I was joking). Later in the afternoon we were going out for a drive and he stopped for a beer and I said I want a beer too, and he asked how can I drink a beer if I’m pregnant…. Like he sounded genuinely worried about me having a beer. Till I told him I was joking, and then he asked like 3 times if I’m pregnant before he finally got the beers.
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I feel like there was some miscommunication to those relying. So to be very clear, I did tell him like a minute after that I’m not pregnant.
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Superb Opinion

  • I think on some level even if a guy says he doesn't want a baby the though of being capable of impregnating a woman is an accomplishment. Maybe he thinks it's not a good time but if it happens it happens. Or maybe he is just trying to make you happy.
    Either way it does sound like he is prepared to make you pregnant he's just unsure if that is what he really wants.
    Oh and please stop using the term baby daddy lol

Most Helpful Guy

  • Having (another) baby together is a big decision, it would deserve a bit more steadfast planning and coordination, not this half yes half no…

    • Thanks for your view and advice.

Most Helpful Girl

  • One, you call him 'baby daddy" so fucking major red flag.
    And then you're lying about a big idea.
    He's a fucking idiot to keep dipping his penis into your crazy. So probably not a smart dude

    • Wow now. I didn’t lie about anything. But way to go with calling me crazy for no reason. Thanks?

    • You literally said you were pregnant when you were not. That's a lie. So well done for verifying crazy.

    • It was literally said in a jokingly way, and I admitted to him like a minute after that I was lying and that I’m not pregnant. But yes, it was still a lie.

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  • Nope. He's just resigned to your shitty manipulation and realises he's made the mistake of attaching to you.

    Hence might as well enjoy a couple of more years of pussy, before bailing.

    • Sigh, I really wasn’t trying to manipulate him :( Please don’t misread me.

  • That is cold duck

    • I’m not familiar with that saying, but it definitely doesn’t sound good…. Lol

  • Shouldn't lie

    • I didn’t lie about anything. If it’s about me joining about being pregnant to hear what he’ll say, I told him like a minute after that I’m not pregnant.

    • Lies

  • I would say subconsciously, he does want one.

  • He's probably excited by the idea of knocking you up

  • The way you describe this guy not as a husband, fiancé, boyfriend, or even a guy you're dating, but rather as just your baby daddy really tells us all we need to know