How under the sheets do you get when having sex?

how naked are you?
lights on or off?
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  • Thanks for the great question. Thumbs up voted to you, Asker Lady. 😃

    Hmm... I'm not sexually active... but I've always known in my mind my wants and how I want it and not to sound so full-on about it either. Whoops.

    Quick answer: lights on, on top of sheets, blissfully naked. Totally nude. Even socks off. Or maybe socks on. Depends on the sensory.

    I just like to be completely naked and completely naked with my woman (unless special moments like costume fun or work uniform fun or something). Or kinky rare sass.

    On top of the sheets. Or on a mat on the floor/on cushions on the floor/padded carpet.

    I'd never like sex under the sheets. Too hot and too messy. And hard to enjoy the moment.

    I'd live in a hot warm tropical climate to enjoy lights on, top of sheets, and only under the sheets for recovery/to rest before toilet break for both and then nap naked under the sheets. Nap not sex. Lol.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Unless it's winter, there are no sheets involved. Hell, even in winter there are often no sheets involved, but to be fair, I'm in California, so most winters aren't very severe.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It depends.. if I'm cold I may want blankets at first. Lighting varies, but I'm not a fan of bright lights... they feel too clinical. a Sarong over a table light shade seems easy to do, and about right for reducing the brightness. Color choice can add something to ambiance as well.

  • I get so cold so I try to in the beginning get under the sheets but by the time me and my boyfriend are done it’s hot as hell. And lights on I like to see his face in pleasure 😉

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  • I'm usually fully naked before even reaching the bed so... sheets are a non-factor

  • Normally completely and lights off.

  • I wear nothing and I want her completely bare for sex.
    On top of the sheets. I don't like to get tangled up.
    Never in the dark. There has to be some lighting, even if it's just candles, because I want to see her.

  • No sheets. Out in the open. Completely naked. Closet light on. You?

  • As naked as my partner wants me to be or wherever we end up I guess. As for lights, on , off, who cares? These are not "in the moment" concerns for me.

  • Usually completely naked.

    Lights on, off or dimmed... As long as I get to enjoy my guy's body.

  • My last few sex sessions have been downstairs, living room, kitchen and dining room.

    we did eventually get to bed, it was quilt on floor, towel on bed, Then it was ‘Alexa Romance’ which changes lights to different softer colours and dims them.

  • Lights on, no clothes and everything on show!

    • Always the best way to be. Seeing it all is a very big part of enjoying the sex!

  • We're completely nude.

    If it's cold we'll be under the sheets. In hot weather we pull them back. We leave the lights whatever they are.

  • I really have no choice in the matter as I'm in a pretty submissive in the bedroom (by choice). He prefers completely naked, lights on. No sheets are ever used as i'm pretty much on display for his enjoyment.

  • If it's a plan thing lights you're probably off but many times it's not plans the lights are on doesn't matter how deep under the covers you get because they're all coming up to bed by the time you're finished anyway

  • No sheets unless morning spooning or so, fully naked, lights dimmed or on

    • Don't forget natural light. I wish the Asker had included weather too. Cold winter chills versus summer sweats. Lol. To all the answerers 🤗

  • Sheets? We don't get under the sheets (or anything) unless it's chilly.

  • Always lights on, on top of sheets and naked unless we are having a quickie

  • Under the sheets? The sheets wind up on the floor.

  • We didn’t even make it to the bed last time. I have a simple bed frame and there aren’t a lot of points to tie him too unless reaching under the box spring.

    • Points to tie him to? 😳

  • Lights on, fully naked, on top of sheets

  • I like to get totally naked.
    I also like some light, not a lot.
    Sheets off.

    However, nothing wrong with just sliding over and moving her jammies aside and going for it, both in our jammies and under the sheets.

  • I’m usually naked and lights on. I might start under the sheets but eventually I get rid of them

  • Everything out in the open and lights on.

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