Aww, yeah, as a man with good intentions and doesn't take advantage of females girl, I would listen to your friends okay honey. Straight up, you seem to appear as a very innocent, sweet good and well intended heart. That is a form of being controlling. Self-serving. All about self, not about your interests. You don't mind it because you're a female trying to please. But these are red flags girl for an abusive relationship. He will one day take full advantage of you sexually demanding sex from you and forcing himself upon you and taking it from you no matter how much you fight, cry, scream.. That's called rape sweet heart, you don't want to fall victim of that. Okay, please, I love females. I care about them so much, I am a very sexual person but I look at sex in a different way and approach it in a different manner that is still dominant for that female that needs to be dominated, but is not so self-serving. It is passionate and expresses a love and appreciation for the female body and shows its need I have for wanting to please the female body, I never force my sexual partners head down to suck me off, because I feel I am making her do something she quite doesn't want to do, which is a big no no. You never make a woman do something she doesn't want to do or feels uncomfortable with. You don't mind it. Not thinking of the seriousness this could possibly have for the future. But then again, if you're bout that, no judgement here, just saying, there's better way to be made to feel.
If you are okay with it, then its okay. Its as simple as that. Let your friends live their own life, you live yours.
I don't think its abnormal. Unless he is being super aggressive and it does not feel right for you. If you don't want him to do that, be so aggressive about it, then talk to him about it.
It does not matter what anyone else thinks - if you are not sure about it, talk to him - not your friends.
Often people who are in a new relationship, have a period of time where they get to know each other sexually, what they like and don't like, and how to please each other. The benefit of being in a relationship is you have the commitment, you care about each other, and the sex just gets better and better because you learn. This may just be part of the learning. If you truly care about each other its going to be fine.
Idiots and assholes are being influenced by copious amounts of porn watching where things like this are becoming common and therefore to some extent normalized.
It's aggressive, domineering, controlling, and it's up to you to decide if it's ok or not.
He may want more suction or pressure from your mouth to increase the sensations, but if it's neither of those, then he needs to back the fuck off. Blowjobs, handjobs, etc. are not a given. They're a gift.
Do not be passive. Set boundaries. With some young guys, if you don't demand respect, they won't give it.
If you tell him no, he needs to listen. End of story.
Well it is an aggressive gesture but context matters to be able to tell. In a healthy environment where both of you are OK with this and you can at any point refuse to do it if you don't want to give him head and he doesn't push you after that then no, it's not bad. It's can be a way to spice things up by him showing more dominant gestures.
But if he's persistent and doesn't let you say no then yea that's a red flag for possible possesive and abusive behaviours
As I said context matters here.
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I think it's disrespectful
If it doesn't bother you, and it doesn't bother him, then it's fine. Now, it DOES suggest a level of sexual aggression- that's not bad in itself, but it IS a danger sign. If you tell him to stop, does he? Does he respect your sexual boundaries and treat you well? If so, you're good.
No it does not bother me. My friends said it just like he is being kinda mean to me to push my head down when he wants head and to cum. I like doing it but I never said no yet and don't know what he would do. He is good to me.
Then you've got no problem, other than perhaps some friends who are a little too concerned about you.
Ya the only thing is what happens if I dont feel like doing it. I think he will be ok with it. I don't know my friends say he still might force me I don't know
If you are ok with it then... go ahead, but if u don't then leave it... don't go for friends advice.
He obviously watches too much porn.
the idea of a relationship is to have Trust, Respect, Honesty and communication.
unless he’s lost all ability to speak, it’s actually better to ask and flirt as you do it, it maintains a better flow.
just pushing a girls head down is like meh, lack of respect, lack of knowledge, immature, etc.
at some point he will try that in a girl and she will either walk or punch him.
This has bugger all to do with your friends, it’s you and what you are comfortable with.
the fact you asked a question on GaG means that in part or whole, you are not happy with it, just tell him he needs to change what he does.
this type of stuff is a slippery slope.
Matter of opinion but I see it as kinda rude myself. If he ever goes down on you, latch your hands around his head & pull him tight & lock your thighs so he can't come up for air... make him tapout lol, I bet he wouldn't like it.
How does it make you feel? That's all that matters.
It doesn't really matter what your friends think it matters what you think if you enjoy it there's nothing wrong with it then as long as you're enjoying it. But I mean there are different ways and he can go about it but if that turns you on that turns you on and there's nothing wrong with that because that's what it's all about
He should not treat you like a slut. Guys see that crap in the porn videos they watch and think it is cool to try. Does he return the favor every time? You deserve some great orgasms also!!!
You do what makes your feel comfortable. There are two people in a relationship, they both meet in the middle. Communicate.
No one gets to vote on your sex life besides you and your partner. Your friends opinion doesn’t matter. If you are ok with it, that’s good enough.
That is normal and his way of showing you what he wants. You should do the same when you want eaten
As long as u stick with ur boundaries, if does think he owns u or disrespectful. If he does drop him so many others guys
It’s a little rude my ex did that to me it got on my nerves lol
If you are okay with it, then don’t worry about what other people think. If he ever does anything that makes you uncomfortable, ask him to stop. If he’s well endowed you might want to wrap your hand around the base of his cock while you give head to avoid hurting your throat.
You have to become a woman who does what she wants because she herself believes it to be in her best interest. Not a fan of premarital sex but if you are not comfortable with anything at all, let your so know.
The bigger question is how do you feel about it?
It really doesn't matter what we think as everyone is different.
It is how you feel about it is the important thing.
If it bothers you talk to him about it.
It's not like you can't find it without his help.
I think some people can find it a bit degrading.
Sex should be a turn off, or it can possibly cause issues later.
I wouldn't like it if I was you.
Fuck what your friends think, they aren't fucking him and i bet they would live for him to push their head down given the chance
Get married first whore
If it doesn't bother you, then it's not bad.
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