How would you feel if a friend told you they've masturbated to you before?

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DeeDeeDeVour · Accepted Answer

Since I'm such a huge tease, it's partly my fault I got a few friends horny for me. One of the guys actually made a run for the bathroom to blow off some steam and get a load off. The girls that did told me years (if not months) later that they fingered themselves while fantasizing about me. I don't recall every getting grossed out or upset by any of that. In fact, they still remain my friends.

SLRK3 · Accepted Answer

I have had that happen. At first I was a but uneasy and freaked but then I was like honored about it. It was in high school when he told me. Now I'm 34 and we are still friends and he gets more than his thoughts now that we are still fuck buddies. It's great to know that I can still help him complete his fantasies, to Mr. J. R.. 😆🤣😂

charlean · Answer

Ngl, flattered LOL

DumBear · Answer

Depends on the friend. If it was a girl id ask her what she thought about during and why. Maybe ask if it was once or often.

Jake99999 · Answer

Flattering for sure. But then I would wonder why they are telling me that.

Jooying · Answer

I know some would do that and I don’t really mind since it’s part of the men, but I would tell that friend that he doesn’t need to tell that to me lol Keep it to himself and do whatever he likes as long as it keeps in his room.

TheorionMage · Answer

Flattered if it was a 'she'... I'm hetero.
If it were a 'he', 'conflicted' because although I DO have gay acquaintances
they would HAVE TO KNOW... and understand I could never reciprocate their affections.
The moments of One's life are irreplaceable, why 'waste' them pining for someone's
attentions who could... and would... NEVER care for you, as you feel toward them?

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

We chat about this when at the pub a fair bit lol. it’s a fair bit of teasing and taking the piss, how much is true know one admits to lol.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

I wouldn’t be friends with people who are so open about sex talk with me that way. I am okay talking about sex. I also don’t keep guy friends around.

CordetteMonet · Answer

I’d feel somewhat flattered, but awkward at the same time. I’d feel second hand embarrassment.

dustybiker · Answer

How would that even come up? It’s not really something you’ll admit to as someone wanting to stay a friend. Uh, guessing we’d be that drunk…. I assume I would be flattered. I’m sure he would be embarrassed too, the next day, when sobering up.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

When she told me, I was both flattered and creeped out in equal measure.

Dinklex3 · Answer

Uncomfortable.

ThisDudeHere · Answer

I'd invite her to my place

Mofunfour20 · Answer

Thats a potential lover if they tell you that, not a friend. Friends dont have sexual energy for another friend, thats why platonic friends is usually a guy waiting for his opportunity. Too bad he is content with staying in the friendzone, such a waste of time. He could just get a girl that appreciates him

Paige90 · Answer

That's a compliment!

DarkLillysub · Answer

I’ve had friends tell me before. Doesn’t really phase me either way. I just tell them “glad you enjoyed”

Ice_Bear_Milkshake · Answer

That entirely depends on you as the individual, what your moral principals dictate and how you feel about the person in general. Me personally, I would take it as a compliment but also maybe as a message that the person finds you attractive enough to think about you in such an exposed situation.

All in all, it depends on how you feel about that person. Hope this helps

boggboss · Answer

Would feel a little weirded out dont see why they are telling me

BlondeGoneWild · Answer

I’d be really turned on and pretty flattered tbh

ADFSDF1996 · Answer

I wouldn’t believe her.

Bricealan · Answer

I would be flattered !!!

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