Im 15 and a gay male is this an issue?

So i only find other teen boys attractive, I dont find men attractive, I only find youthful dominate muscular boys 16-18 hot. Im worried when i get older and turn into an adult, I will still only find buff teen jocks hot, Will my taste in men change with age? Because when im 30 in 15 years, I dont want to be simping for a bunch of teenage football players, Im terrified of being a pedo, When i turn 18, Will i start to like older men?
This man is my daddy!
This man is my daddy!
he is 16 but d@Mn he is so hot
he is 16 but d@Mn he is so hot
Im 15 and a gay male is this an issue?
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  • I'm straight but if it works similarly, I liked the most superficial hot girls when I was I was a teen, like hourglass figures, Bay Watch, Pamela Anderson, that sort of thing... what was popular in my high school.

    But later I started dating and it's like people don't look that much different naked in the bedroom. I even dated a swimsuit model and one time and she was eye-candy but clothes come off and she becomes very human, you know. She has bad breath here and there. Her body feels kind of the same as other girls with just a few variations that make her look especially eye-catching in a dress.

    So I started to favor less superficial qualities later on after some experience like how well we clicked and connected and could talk to each other about things. I still wanted to be attracted to the girl, of course, but it's like I didn't need them to look like the posters we had in high school.

    • I think especially if you are a teen and even more especially if you are a virgin, it's easy to find our sense of attractiveness through the media images... because they're just images. You can't hold them. You can't smell them, taste them, talk to them. So the visual aspect becomes the number one thing for a while... until you date around and you realize there's a lot more to it. And I'm not talking about something as deep and abstract as personality. I mean even still sensory things like smells, sense of touch. Even at that shallow level, you'll become less visual in nature after you find what you like in person. Then you might work towards personality and things like that, or remain at someting in between. But I think you'll get less of a visual dominance with experience.

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  • First thing: pedophilia is sexual attraction to children. Not minors. CHILDREN. Prepubescents. If he's old enough to father children, he's not one himself.

    Semantics aside, you probably have nothing to worry about- tastes change, and while you'll probably find the images of those you're attracted to now still attractive twenty or thirty years down the line, there comes a point where it stops applying. I remember watching some then-current movie just a few years ago, and the female lead was 18 or 19, and supposedly incredibly attractive, but all I could think was "she looks like she's twelve!". You should be just fine.

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  • Gay girl here!

    My taste in partners has changed as I've gotten older. In high school, I was attracted to girls my age. The older I've gotten, I've still been attracted to people my age (or close).

    I wouldn't worry at all if I were you.

  • You are who you are and you like who you like.

    Not a thing wrong with it!

    • Thank you for mhg! 🙏❤️ And! With @secretsofkb !! A great person to talk to when needed. You take care @asker.

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  • Why would it be an issue? It’s your life and you should be able to live it.

  • Regardless of your sexual preference, people always tend to find people of their own age group the most attractive. As you grow older your tastes will most likely change with you.

    • ok thats good

    • You're going to have a lot of questions and uncertainties at your age, don't sweat it, everyone does.

  • No guarantee. Guessing you're having these thoughts because you're looking at pictures of teenagers on sites made/photographed by adult men. It sounds like you're only attracted to a very specific thing, so I can see why you're worried.

  • This is kind of funny because I worried about this as well when I was younger. As many others have stated, your tastes will mature as you get older.


    And side note- may or may not be an unpopular opinion, but I don’t think pedophilia is something people are born with.

  • Probably. I used to find Lindsay Lohan in Parent Trap hot. For about 15 or so years I haven't. She was 9 in that movie

  • Yeah don't worry. You'll probably age with the attraction and it will change

  • I don't know but I've heard this happens quite a lot. Probably nothing to worry about though.