Boyfriend never go down on me but he loves when I give him blowjobs?

Question

I been with my boyfriend for 10 years we are in our 20’s Im 26 and he is 29. Our sex was great when we first started going out I would say that he did sometimes go down on me and I would suck his dick but not as much like I do now. I’m an expert now 😉 and he was my first 🍆 I ever sucked lol I truly enjoy giving him pleasure and I like to see him enjoying himself. Our sex is okay could be better. We been through some difficult situations. I gave him another chance after he was caught cheating on me for over a year. So my self esteem went down for a few years. Besides that he rarely ever go down on me. Like he does give it a lick or so before he puts it in.. or when I’m in doggy he would go down and lick my asshole but not my pussy hmmm …. Does he not like how my pussy looks? I don’t get it? I asked him that he always asking me to suck his dick but he never goes down and pleasures me. He said he just don’t do it. That was his only answer. I said how would you feel if I didn’t suck your dick at all and he just stayed quiet and said whatever I just don’t go down. I don’t consider my pussy to look bad looking and I keep it super clean I but I notice that even if I come out the shower he won’t go down on me. So what is the issue here? Should I just go with someone else 😂

Red_Arrow · Accepted Answer

It sounds like he never did like it and does not like it now. That is nothing against you personally. However, he cheated on you, and he had not treated you with respect and love. He is not likely to change. The longer you stay with him, the harder it will be to move on. Listen to the advice of @loves2learn and do as she suggests. If you don't get out of that situation, you will never be happy. Find a guy who loves you and treats you well. And who will give you oral. Sound like you are great at it now, so the two of you could have great times!

summiter · Accepted Answer

I'm sure your pussy looks just fine. He is just making excuses. I would give him no more blowjobs if I were you. Let him get use to jerking off again! Look you deserve some good orgasms also! The sex will not get better unless he does something to improve it. How often are you two having sex?

If he does not change then dump him!

loves2learn · Accepted Answer

He sounds quite selfish. Both for the not going down and the cheating. I hate to say it but you can do better.

DonkeyDan · Answer

Well there are guys that don't like it, don't understand that myself, but each to their own. But to be receiving and not giving is selfish in my opinion. I'd just stop giving him blowjobs. Also the fact that he cheated must be hard on your self confidence and coupled with the fact that her won't go down in you is total crap, honestly the guy sounds like an ass. Your still young I think you could find someone better for you.

Jjcatt · Answer

He’s selfish, any relationship where the lady gives a blowjob, and she likes getting her pussy eaten, then the man has to also return the favour,, I eat my Sweetie’s pussy at least 5 times a week, and she gives me a blowjob almost every night, it’s called love, your boyfriend needs to quit being a jerk, if not tell him to get lost

Yourfriend2021 · Answer

If he cheated on you, it's never going to work anyways, but it doesn't make sense, if your pussy is clean, any normal guy would love to lick it all night :)

Wise4myage · Answer

He's selfish, so stop giving him head and tell him why when he asks.

Sameer1999 · Answer

I would love to taste that pussy babe even your ass too

CubaPirate · Answer

The issue is clear. He's a selfish asshole who's only interested in his own sexual gratification. Thus you are sexually incompatible, so it's time for you to move on.