He tells me he enjoys sex with a "connection" a lot more than sex without. Does he mean love or not?

[Anonymous]

I told him "A dick won't be hot unless the person behind it is. Whilst guys will find tits and asses hot no matter what, even without context."

And he goes like "you can't speak for all girls like I can't speak for all guys, but I can share a few experiences I've had and those of other guys I know. I think yes, on average, men can get aroused easier than women, but I also think we enjoy sex a lot more with someone we have a connection with. Not only for the lovey-dovey bullshit, but also because you can do so much more with someone you know and trust. There is no comparison."

[Rob70]

Sex with a connection is much better and more exciting. You tend to be more in tune with your partner and what they like. When you are with someone you connect with you try harder to make sure they enjot it as much as you. When both partners get what they need it's a much more enjoyable experiance.

[boggboss]

No it dont mean love it means someone you know to some degree where its not just just to fuck you to get off but enjoying it seeing her enjoy it and getting off to that also kind off like having sex when there is passion over none

[DonkeyDan]

Not necessarily love but if I am going to have sex with someone I have to feel some type of connection with then like I we are on the same page with things and are on the same level.

[Wise4myage]

I agree with you 100%.

[Asker]

I'm crushing on him, but I'm having a hard time reading him. I'm trying to see if he's just into something short-termn with a "connection" or he's open to falling in love. I've never had sex so I'm sooooo nervous when trying to read him.

[Wise4myage]

I see. Try flirting with him and see where it leads.

[Asker]

I try dropping hints like the above, but it's all very cryptic...

[Wise4myage]

Then try being more direct. Maybe ask him out to lunch.

[Asker]

I asked him for his social media and he said he deleted it all. I don't know what to make of that. I feel like I'm completely infatuated, I've never felt this way before even if it's only been a couple weeks we're talking. Do you think I'm coming on too strong? I want him to make the first moves because he's 6 years older and im v socially awkward.

[Wise4myage]

Hmm, maybe you should back off for a bit.

[Asker]

I think he feels my nervousness and awkwardness and it's making him uncomfortable 😂. Maybe im not mature enough for him.

[Wise4myage]

That could be, but don't give up so quickly.

[xXstrangermae]

I think with love or maybe without protection

[Anonymous]

Well I think most people enjoy it more with a connection

[Anonymous]

I agree with you.