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At what point do you call a girl lesbian or bisexual?

At what point do you call a girl lesbian or bisexual?
No, all women are not lesbian or bisexual. Not in a million years. But there are SOME girls who want to "experiment" with another girl (I don't know why it's called "experimenting," since they probably aren't wearing lab coats and recording their observations.) At what point would you call a girl a lesbian or bisexual?

I am NOT asking you for a dictionary definition of lesbian or bisexual, and I am NOT asking you what you think other people mean when they use those labels. What do YOU mean when you refer to someone as lesbian or bisexual?
If she feels any sexual attraction to another girl, she is lesbian or bisexual
Vote A
If she consistently holds hands (in a romantic way) with another girl, she is lesbian or bisexual
Vote B
If she touches, feels, or kisses another girl's boobs (in a sexual way,) or lets another girl do that to her, she is lesbian or bisexual
Vote C
If she fingers another girl or gets the girl off with a vibrator, or lets another girl do that to her, she is lesbian or bisexual
Vote D
If she goes down on another girl, or lets another girl do that to her, she is a lesbian or bisexual
Vote E
She is a lesbian or bisexual ONLY if she starts dating another girl on a regular basis
Vote F
She is a lesbian or bisexual ONLY if she has sexual activity with another girl more than once
Vote G
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  • If she has ever or in any way would ever be willing to have normal sex with a man.

    I am hetero. It is impossible for me to be with a man. I literally find it too gross to touch a man like that. There isn't any "well I experimented and didn't like it" or "I many try it and just see"... no. The thought of touching a man that way is repulsive to me. I literally couldn't do it.

    I only go one way. If a woman is a true lesbian then she would be like that. She could only be with a women and being with a man would be too off putting for her to even try. If she has done it with men or could do it with men but just prefers women that is bisexual. It doesn't have to be a 50/50 equal interest if both sexes. Even if it is 80/20... the mere ability to be willing and ok with having sex with a guy would make her bi.

    Heteor... gay... lebian means 100% one way... only one sex EVER.

    If you can "experiment" or try both or you prefer one over the other but it is 90/10 or 70/30 or 60/40... you are bisexual.

  • It's ok for someone to be bisexual but why can't they just admit it? If a girl does anything sexual or romantic with another girl, she is at least bisexual.

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  • I don't know. When DO you call a girl, lesbian, or bisexual? You into threesomes or something?

    straight, bi, and gay
    straight, bi, and gay

    • No. Someone else posted something earlier that said you aren't a lesbian or bi sexual unless you start dating a girl and I thought that was odd, so I asked this question.

  • I think I turned from bi-curious to bisexual the day I licked a pussy...

    • Yep, . that would certainly do it.. It is one of my favourite pastimes.

    • I thought your cat was good at licking itself with no help.

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  • Any sexual attraction would be where I would consider it to be in the bisexual range, assuming she also has sexual attraction to guys.

    Activity is not required. Just like we would never question a virgin claiming to be heterosexual.

    by the way, I'm a bisexual male. I have known I was since I was 10. I didn't have any sexual contact with another male until I was 48. My sexual attractions didn't change, I was still sexually attracted to men and women, cis and trans, non-binary, fluid. Yeah all of them.

    Now, if a woman is sexually attracted to other women but doesn't want to pursue that or be referred to as bisexual, I'm not going to insist upon it.

  • I don't refer to them as anything. If I want to know I will simply ask them what they wish to be referred as!

  • Bisexual when she enjoys sexual activity with both girls and guys. Lesbian when she has has sexual activity only with other girls and rejects having it with guys.

    • Not helpful at all. Did you read the options? The question is WHAT constitutes sexual activity between girls.

    • I guess your actual question was not clear.

    • Right. It was a poll and there were seven options presented. It would be clear if you read the entire post. But that's okay. Not everyone reads everything.

  • This is only in my opinion. Others will have their own opinion

    My opinion of a lesbian girl is when a woman never wants or has sex with a man.

    In my opinion, a bisexual girl is a girl that does not care if she has sex with a guy or a girl at any time. Also, I have been told that being bisexual gives you twice as much of a chance at finding a date.

    Say you have two young couples that maybe drink too much all of the sudden, the two guys want to watch the two girls make out and maybe go all the way, other than that he girls on dating the guys. This type of dating is experimenting to see or watch girls have sex. In my opinion, the girls are not bisexual.

  • If she is female than she is bisexual.

  • Gtfo troll

  • When she says she is.

    • Exactly.

  • More than half of them are which leaves very few good women. The rest are worthless as partners for men because they are not reliable

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