Do you think it'll spoil my new boyfriend if I gave him blowjobs too frequently? Or will he get bored of me and leave me?

Question

I'm seeing this new guy since this Feb, and we have been officially dating since August and just as any new relationship things are very spicy and we can barely keep our hands off each other. And one his favorite thing is blowjob and I do love giving them as he's always nice to me and takes care of me.

So I wanted to know if it'll make him bored of me easily or he'll just get too demanding as I am also the one who enjoys going down on him.

What should I do? Should I turn him down occasionally?

chrissykerdock · Accepted Answer

that would be why he likes you is that when he wants a blowjob give him one... i had a relationship with a guy who loved my blowjobs... he did the same too really good care of me... of course i had to wear mini dresses all the time even in winter... yes he liked to be served dinner drinks... and blowjobs... often he'd like 2-3 blowjobs a nigh... on weekends even more than that... and we had a 10 year run like that he was very happy with the arrangement... and i didn't mind doing that... infact i liked it and the fact that he wanted that often from me

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I’ve rarely heard of a man getting tired of them. Ask him. Don’t be afraid to talk about it. Have fun. Enjoy all of that passion.

abc3643 · Accepted Answer

I think everything is going perfectly.
You don't worry about it.

There's an old adage about keeping men:

"Keep his belly full and his balls empty."

As long as you are BJing and he loves it, you are at least "keeping his balls empty".

PositiveNote · Accepted Answer

If blow jobs are in addition to lots of other fun things, it's just "one" of the great things you'll do for him. If it's "just" blow job and little else, it's not going to be much for keeping him around.

summiter · Answer

As you know he obviously likes your bjs. Maybe mix it up wit a few handjobs... guys love them also!!! How often are you having sex or is it just a lot of oral?

DonkeyDan · Answer

He's not going to get bored but it's good to make him wait once in a while, not too much though.

Almost10inch4funlol · Answer

men never get tired of getting our dick sucked 😂😩🍆 as long as you are a real dick sucker lol like i am a pussy sucker lol i do it because i enjoy it not as a chore or path to penetration

Ephemera1 · Answer

Spoil? Pleasing your man with something he likes? How is that spoiling? That's being a good partner. If you're getting nothing in return then maybe you should reconsider yeah

bubbakong2006 · Answer

Make him eat you if you give him a bj

Browneye57 · Answer

It's not the blow-jobs he'll tire of... it's the incessant chatter and whining that you do.

Friendlybro79 · Answer

If you both like it just keep having fun. Talk to him if you're concerned about him getting bored. Open communication can help both of you from being bored. Good luck and have fun

NYlatefun · Answer

Trust me, hell never get bored of that!

Deserter · Answer

Nah, have fun

Yourman84 · Answer

Lucky guy 😅

Anonymous · Answer

He’ll never get bored of them but you should make it special or part of foreplay

Anonymous · Answer

It's doubtful he will get bored with BJs. If you're okay with it keep doing them as long as he's also pleasuring you to your satisfaction, whether it be going down on you, or whatever you're into that makes you cum.