I can’t read (figure out) this guy and I NEED a answer (Sorry if it’s super long I tried to be very DETAILED)! ?

[Anonymous]

So I met this guy via app, I was originally on the app to meet new female friends blah blah. So I see his page we match! Didn’t think much of it, he was cute though. So he messages me and right off bat it was sexual I’m not gonna lie, but I kind of “shyed” it off acted kinda of clueless you can say lmao. Anyway fast forward we end up hanging out (house) ! (< this was very bold of me I’ve never gone through or met anyone using this app.) I was nervous but very calm like even when we met I felt calm I’m very anxious butterfly in stomach feeling for literally anything and everything type of gal anxiety always through the roof , so this was a different feeling it was refreshing for me. Obviously still shy/nervous (not for long lmao) we vibed and then we had sex, and this is the first time of us hanging out don’t really know one another, which would be the first “one night” type situation. Ughhh I know I’m feeling this guy we just clicked naturally and now I feel like I blew it because guys I believe think differently with females when it comes to being down for sex then-and there basically frowned upon in all honesty I was horny too, like what the hell ( I’ve been without sex and could go WITHOUT it). Anyway after that night we haven’t went a day without talking (phone/text) it’s about to be a month we’ve been talking. Anyway we’ve been intimate now multiple times. This one time we finished and he’s coming back and he tells me “your mine” and laid on me, I said it back? But I was off guard because I don’t know his view on things? I’ve met friends already, he invited me out to a friend outing and me being the only gal there (food/bar/rooftop) setting. Anyway I feel like there’s way more too it then what I could type and not draw you guys away with how long this is but what do you think? Like and I’m scared to say anything lol because after that “your mine” night nothing else was like mentioned, so I’m confused.

[Siren777]

DON'T SAY ANYTHING YET. Don't assume or have expectations. Your "relationship" started from a sexual nature so this is sexual attraction. If that's up your alley then why not, you only want something sexual. I am not saying nothing can come from it, things can change - bright flames can burn out faster so turn it down a notch and see how it goes. This seems like a friends with benefits situation. Just be cautious as a guy that usually does this can be doing it with various people. Meet online, have sex and enjoy the moment before moving on to the next person. You've met his friends - you still have to get to know him. A guy will tell you anything you want to hear and do to keep you around for sex only. Just letting you know, a guy declaring that "YOU'RE MINE" is a way of dominance or control and it was in the heat of the moment. He may be craving dominance over you, becareful as you don't know his intentions yet. As this can be out of a feeling of horniness or actual control.

[Asker]

Thank you so much!!

[DonkeyDan]

Honestly it sounds like the relationship is going well and it doesn't sound like he's going anywhere soon. If you want to bring up the subject of how he feels long term, (bear in mind he might not know yet), start a conversation about where he sees himself in a year's time and what his life goals are. Should give an opportunity to find out if he sees you in that future.

[Asker]

Right I’m thinking it’s going good. We just started off a little backwards lol, but with our generation that’s “normal” (I know I knowww) but yes thank you so much for the questions to ask!! That’s a great way to slide and see.

[Sam_The_Savage]

Well be honest first of all there is nothing like you're mine. It's his hornyness said not he. You wanna taste him. Asked him to stay without sex for few weeks and than the see the results of "YOU'RE MINE" 😂

[Asker]

Hornyness after we just finished? I would get if it was in the exact moment with sex but it was after sex

[Sam_The_Savage]

Bkoz you both had awesome sex. So it's hornyness n sex speak not his heart.

[Iron_Man]

I don’t understand why you’re meeting females as friends on the Internet some strangers that raises the red flags. Second of all it’s time for you to move on from this guy

[Asker]

Your 42 I don’t think you would understand. You can meet friends that way.

[Iron_Man]

Age has nothing to do with common sense I think there’s more to it than meets the eye here and you just won admit it

[Asker]

Your not making sense. Goodbye.

[Iron_Man]

Friends of the same sex are something that just happens to fall into your lap like in high school or college. Planned out searches and looked for on the Internet that sounds more like a rendezvous looking for something more than friendship

[In_Trance]

way too long. just move on

[Asker]

Boy then you move around I’m looking for a answer.