Spanking during sex? Yay or nay?

Question

Guys do you ever spank your ladies during sex? Girls do you enjoy being spank? I'm interested cause I seen another question and quite a few girls said they didn't enjoy it. That was a little surprising to me cause I thought more people were into it.

TheorionMage · Accepted Answer

I had the opportunity to 'talk shop' with a professional Dominatrix from Toronto, her 'take' was...

The primary 'allure' of being spanked, or disciplined in ANY form, harkens back to she (or He) who's being spanked being physically being given corrective pain for "being naughty" or "rebellious". Its a deep seated desire to be 'MADE to be compliant or submissive to avoid FURTHER physical pain & humiliation'.
(In its MOST extreme, it provides a kind of 'absolution'' "I didn't WANT to do it! (rationalization) but I DID IT to avoid the Spanker's wrath and greater pain" )

That they were... or are... doing something 'exotic' and socially... or religiously 'verboden'. and must be humiliated & made to atone for their 'naughty' circumstances~ ;)

ohshee · Accepted Answer

LOL it really depends on a lot of different things it's not something that I consciously do but if there's a moment that calls for it then yes I would probably do it but it also depends on like I said so many different factors if it's going to enhance the experience and she likes it yes I'll do it but just out of my own pleasure no I don't really care about it

Smoke-n-Growls · Accepted Answer

It really depends on you. I'm a big pain slut. I love impact play, heat play, biting, choking, etc. For me, spanking increases my pleasure when done right (not too hard, not at all soft).

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

Nah. Im not a kid. I dont need a butt whipping. Now as for ass grabbing/squeezing/occasional smacking, yes.

Annekoko · Answer

Yay. But i prefer grabbing to spanking

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

I'm definitely not into it. It's a big no-go for me.

MissStrawberry912 · Answer

I always say “yes please” to spanking, yayyy

Satyromaniac · Answer

Everyone has different reasons for deriving pleasure from spanking, I'll just share mine

I m not into bdsm or hardcore spanks, I do like roughing her up if she likes it too and asks for it

I am not a heavy hard spanker, I just like to lightly tap or smack her nipples, clit and butt enough to help her get more excited and reach orgasm quickly

The tiny yelps and ouch and moans escaping her lips on each light smack she gets, make my erection bulge more and more to point I feel it gona burst...

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Does not tend to be during as such.

it’s usually as part of the session ‘foreplay’ for want of a better word.

she might get put over my knee or over table and spanked, hand, paddle, crop.

or may be during sex as well but normally separate thing.