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I think there's a sort of sense that I find hard to describe which wants to find more "poetry" to sex, if you will, over just getting our dicks wait. That's the way I'm motivated more these days. It might be a symptom of my libido not being as strong but I still get a caveman thing going on if a hot girl bends over in front of me.But it's like I put more value in sex for the "ritual", of being together with the girl, and removing her clothes while she trusts you, and working around her body and through and between and underneath her clothes. I like the ritual more now, and I might even like foreplay and ritual more than the climax these days.It's really hard to explain but I've found a way to continue valuing and getting into sex with my wife, even though she's always the same woman and I know every part of her body and can even predict the way she thinks and reacts. But it's different from when I was a bachelor just wanting to get my dick wet.