Marriage and sexual life?

Married, can you tell your friends about your sex life and how do you get excited when your sex life becomes simpler?
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  • I don't talk about my sex life even to my closest friends in contexts where the anonymity and confidentiality of the girl I'm talking about might be violated. I consider that in poor taste and a violation of privacy. I do talk about it more on here but I'm anonymous and I'm pretty sure nothing I say or do can trace back to my wife or ex-girlfriends.

    As for sex becoming simpler and less varied, a lot of what turns me on these days is far less like hard dick pounding wet pussy and more like feeling really connected. I've become kind of cheesy and sentimental and romantic that way, but it works to get me turned on with my wife.

    That said, I'm not one of those types who want to just have eye-to-eye missionary all the time. Actually, my favorite position is doggystyle but I find a way to find that romantic and mentally/emotionally connected.

    And I'm pretty easily excited still. If my wife lies next to me naked, I find my hands wandering on her body, and feel her butt against my crotch, and I get excited. I'm pretty easy to put in the mood that way.

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    • I think there's a sort of sense that I find hard to describe which wants to find more "poetry" to sex, if you will, over just getting our dicks wait. That's the way I'm motivated more these days. It might be a symptom of my libido not being as strong but I still get a caveman thing going on if a hot girl bends over in front of me. But it's like I put more value in sex for the "ritual", of being together with the girl, and removing her clothes while she trusts you, and working around her body and through and between and underneath her clothes. I like the ritual more now, and I might even like foreplay and ritual more than the climax these days. It's really hard to explain but I've found a way to continue valuing and getting into sex with my wife, even though she's always the same woman and I know every part of her body and can even predict the way she thinks and reacts. But it's different from when I was a bachelor just wanting to get my dick wet.

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