Hey, I still love gaming and I myself, have an Xbox Series X. I don’t have a relationship, but I only play after the kids’ homework, after they’ve played outside, and once the house is clean. It’s all about setting a game schedule. I know games are very addicting, but when I was married, a schedule was set aside for both our hobbies. Just sit him down, tell him how you feel, and lay out a schedule. If he can’t or won’t agree to it, then I’d suggest speaking to someone you trust or a professional about this. If that fails, then unfortunately, it’s time to move on.
I play games avidly as well, but this guy does sound like an addict, if I had a girl I'd likely stop what I was doing on my PC/Xbox whenever she came over unless she wanted to watch. Try talking to him about it, express that you want to do other things with him
Sounds like he hasn’t completely grown up and puts silly games ahead of his relationship. Tell him how you feel and give him an ultimatum to change. If that doesn’t happen, walk away.
Dont give him ultimatum understand where he is in the game. What is the reward system involved. How distracted is such person.
*You sit him down. And you tell him his addiction is unhealthy and affecting your relationship*
He doesn't love you if he doesn't make time for you.
Sadly men in this age range aren't fully matured yet. A man's brain develops slower and stops at 25 or 26 so really that's when a boy becomes a man biologically speaking if you ask me
@t-8900 lol its not an age thing its a person thing.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I don't understand why guys are like that I just looked at your photo in your profile I think he's blowing it
those games are the mental poison of society. Drug addicted humans...
Make ultimatum... you or the game. hold a sledge hammer over the console. Reality is, he has to choose feeling good (dopamine) or you and learn about relationships and loving and being a man and a father blah blah blah. he might want to stay a kid, but hopefully he chooses well.
You "LOVE" him? Why? What are you getting out of this? It sounds like he has none of the qualities you would like in a boyfriend. He "LOVES" you? How do you know? He mostly ignores you. Where's the love?
He's definitely behaving in an immature way and not being fair to the beautiful, sexy woman that you are by not paying attention to you and satisfying your needs. Perhaps you should consider whether he's worth staying with or finding another guy that doesn't constantly play video games.
Time to go You have no future with him
He's not ready for relationships yet. Not mature enough still in a little boy phase. Was he pampered by his mother a lot?
You need to talk, and if that doesn't work might be time to move on.
You should be more important to him than a game.
Ignore himGo do things on your own. Make him pursue you. See just how much he's willing to work for you.
That's really weird that he wants that more than you.
Dump this guy like a hot rock, you will always be at least second.
Man, I think the dude is wrong for this.
But I'd probably do the exact same thing. Not gonna lie.
Awful, I rip on my friends who piss away the same unappreciated time. Every time they "win" I congratulate them on being a professional loser.
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Cool to game in free time but have to work give you more attention more important if he doesn't he will lose you
Talk to him about how you feel when he is playing video games and voiding you attention.
Be creative and do some sexy things around him that will get his attention on you.
Remember he is a virgin and may not be ready for sex. That is understandable but still you can be romantic with each other such as going to the malls , having dinner together etc.
First, answer this. How did you get into a relationship with him in the first place?
Who initiated things?
My answer would depend on the answer to the above questions
How do you know he's your boyfriend, if you haven't had sex yet?
Seems like you need a new boyfriend
You should be the one to take the lead in starting the sex
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