Can you marry someone just because they are good in bed?

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  • From a biological point of view, in generally girls don't have sex drive as like men. Girls get horny but women's horniness is totally different than men horniness. When men feel instinctive urge, desire, craving for sex, sexual intimacy, oral sex, another women body it’s call men horniness. But women don't feel it. Women's horniness means **desire to orgasm**. The urge to have sex with men, desire, craving for sex, sexual intimacy, craving for men body is totally absent in their horniness. You can compare it to urge to pee. It's just a physical itch. But there is no mental, psychological urge, desire, craving for sex, sexual intimacy, men body. That's why you often see women are totally indifferent to sex, sexual intimacy because women can get horny but women don’t feel desire to have sex, craving for sex.


    That's the difference between men horniness and women's horniness. Women often say they get horny often. But their horniness means nothing, it’s just acknowledging something itching. That’s it.
    If you drink less water in the hot day you will get the same itch in your lower belly, that's why women can't recognise it.




    Even you often see guys always check out women, stare at women, watch porn, see nude photos of women but women are totally disinterested in this chapter/section. It’s because women only lust after their husband, boyfriend or familiar person. You know this is a long term process.


    Until women get their boyfriend, husband or a familiar person their brain don't even know there is such a thing like lust. I am saying, seeing random men whom they never met before does nothing for women, it’s like seeing shoes, bus, dolls etc. Totally indifferent glance. So, don't waste time to know the fiction that women lust after men body.
    It’s just a fiction.

    • Lols... I hope you're just trolling!

    • It’s fact.

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  • I think with the way I tend to work, good in bed will tend to strongly imply that we're good everywhere else. It's not always true but more often than not. Well, I tend to think "good in bed" is like there's a "soul connection" there.

    So that's an especially complicated question to me since I can't imagine someone being good in bed who isn't good anywhere else. If we are talking about sexual technique though, like some stereotypical pornstar that I don't get along with outside the bedroom, then hell no. But I won't even think she's good in bed.

    • Apologies if my answer sounds cheesy. But I'm a very holistic type. I don't get it when girls on here ask like, "Guys, what's your favorite eye/skin/hair color?" I'm like, "What does the rest of her look like, and beyond that, how does she act like?" I'm *extremely* holistic that way. So I am not trying to be politically correct or anything. So it's really hard for me to imagine a girl who I consider good in bed (which is different from what the rest of society might consider good in bed, and very unrelated to her skills), who isn't like a kindred spirit everywhere else.

    • But you know, I might be confused for someone who only cares about personalities over her looks or emotional connections or whatnot. No, that's not it! It's like I once fell for a girl when we slept together on a third date and we barely knew each other, and I thought she was amazing in bed. But then we were like kindred spirits in the bedroom and everywhere else over time. My wife was also like that and we slept together on the first date. So sometimes there's a sense like you just talk to a person early on, or sleep with them early on like they are kindred spirits everywhere else (if talking, maybe they are kindred spirits in sex and hanging out), and if sex, in talking and hanging out). And they often are. But maybe my idea of "good in bed" is tied to girls who seem like kindred spirits and have a good possibility of actually being one.

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  • No. There has to be compatibility and chemistry to marry that person. I have to be able to live with that person so it doesn't make a difference whether he's good in bed

  • I chose "I can't" cuz for a relationship (let alone marriage) dood gotta do way lots more than have moves like Jagger to make it with me in life.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • No sex, even good sex is not enough to sustain any relationship, much less a marriage

    • I was just thinking about this. Or more so the words "For better or for worse" But no one seems to actually mean that. Anyway I agree.

    • @PoliteSpeaker The for better or worse is for when you're married. Choosing to marry someone based off sex only is something quite different. That's not how you pick a life partner. Yes you definitely want a partner you enjoy having sex with, the sex is good but that can't be the only thing, only reason

  • I'm a virgin waiting for the right woman so, no.
    Having said that, I would never marry someone before having sex with her. But if the sex is incredibly then that's a hell of a fucking plus for me.

  • Of course not.

  • Some have tried to with me. I’ve turned it all down. Marriage is an illusion.

  • Being good in bed is a definate requirement however many other requirements have to be with this one.

  • Not gonna do it again for sure.

  • Well there is nothing stopping you. Your POV is right, It's just a bad idea, relationships need to be built on friendship, trust, common interests and more that a physical or sexual attraction otherwise the relationship is destined to fail.

  • If its ONLY no, sex dont pay the bills and doesn't bring food to the table.

  • Mmmmm

    Give examples of what you mean?

    I don't like her personality,
    I think she is unattractive,
    we have nothing in common,
    we don't get along,
    we hardly spend time together...

    describe a situation for why I am even dating her if "Bed" is the only thing I like about her?

    I'd have to imagine I like her and find her attractive to even get that far with her and if our intimate time is that amazing I'm sure I'd really be sold on her.

  • Nope. I don't care if you're literally the personification of orgasm giving, I don't do the whole marriage shit.

    • committed relationships? cohabitation? or just straight up polyamorous?

    • Consensual non monogamy, open relationship

    • ah okay gotcha

  • Those that said yes. Ask them again in 30 years...

    • Lol😀😀

    • The results are in. Joshua when it comes to 5 month old baby Sarah... you are *NOT* the father.

    • Hehehe. Lmao😀 I saw someone who married someone because he was good in bed and so far, she has no regrets.

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  • Those that do, wonder if they would leave said person if something happened, such as a car accident that prevented sex. Would they divorce them?

  • Not at all

  • I wouldn't. I'd need some kind of emotinal connection, probably even before we ever fucked!!

  • Oh hell no. It's just a bonus for me.

  • Sex is only a piece of the puzzle.

  • You have to talk to the person you marry and have common ground and whatnot. If you have kind of a sex only relationship because the only thing you like about them is their sexual prowess, you're going to miss out on basically everything that makes a marriage a marriage.

  • No, because sex alone, even if it's good, cannot sustain a relationship for years down the road; a spouse should have other qualities too.

  • No i take relationships waaay more seriously than that

  • But if you have nothing in common and you fight all the time it won’t last

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