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Are you staying virgin by choice, like waiting for a worthy partner to do it? I'm curious
@pleasestopthis Absolutely. I knew I wanted to be a husband when I was 9 and told myself I'd wait for my girl. I remember reading the quote by Plato for the first time "soulmates are one soul in two bodies separated at birth" and thinking how beautiful that is that I want to find mine.True that I was FAR from popular in school and girls weren't exactly lining up to be with me and I had really bad social skills from that in my late teens-early 20s but I also found myself easily befriending people in their 30s-40s since I was a teenager and I've had plenty of women offer me casual sex, including pornstars in Montreal and other models in Toronto.I can't even wrap my head around the concept of casual sex and how someone could do it and I have zero interest in being with someone who doesn't want to get to know me, like me or want to be with me.I want to be able to give my woman the most possible which includes my own sense of moral (and sexual) integrity and innocence and have her never have to question my loyalty. And I've never cheated on or with anyone.It does kind of suck insofar as most women I meet see my physique, size and tattoos and instantly seem to assume I'm just some easy lay or something and that doesn't feel great but, at least one woman will get to know she's the one who got me and knows everything about me and gets my purity ring. I have a few other surprises for her one day.
Kind of like male prisoners. They are deprived of sex. And if they don't respond by raping other prisoners, no problem. But if they are inclined to do so, big problem.
Here in Japan, we have problems with sexual molesters like those on the train (we call chikan) and peeping toms like guys who get under sewer drain to look up women's skirts. And they're practically all grown men who are virgins. So I kind of distrust grown men who are virgins, but not if they show me that they can function in a very healthy and civilized way around people. But I distrust the weirdo virgin types.
... I don't think they would be such weirdos if they had healthy sex life.
Orthodox priests at least have the right to marriage and sex. Probably why you don't hear as much about pedophilia from them
@t-8900 I suspected that at least in my ruder opinion. Well, this is one of my ruder opinions in general but I think sometimes guys, not girls as much, who go for long periods of time without experiencing sex can become social deviants. That is not to say all are, and far from it. I see a man who abstains from sex and seems to have healthy relationships with men and women and I find no fault in his virginity. But I see one who is a virgin saying the most perverted things to me in private and acting all weird around people and I think they're like a junkie suffering severe withdrawal symptoms... although maybe it's so much sex as intimacy. I don't know.
* [...] it's [not] so much sex as intimacy [...]
@t-8900 I had this one acquaintance though. He's married now and all normal now. But back in my mid-20s, he was so weird! He was older than me in his early 30s and his idea of making moves on a girl is barely talking to her while trying to rest his head on her shoulder or even lap saying, "I'm so lonely. Can you comfort me?" only for the girls to push him away and say, "Get off of me!" And his social media profile (Mixi -- Japanese version) read like, "I love Star Wars and I'm the loneliest guy on the planet." And beyond, that, we would hang out sometimes together with mutual friends and he'd shout to me, "Please teach me nampa [how to catch girls]!" And I'm like, "WTF? This guy is socially clueless."And maybe I'm confusing the chicken for the egg. Maybe it wasn't that he was so weird because he was a virgin, but a virgin because he was so socially weird.But actually, he finally got a girlfriend... FINALLY! And it's like all of us who knew him were able to breathe a sigh of relief. And actually he became reasonably normal after that, no longer sexually harassing women left and right and being like, "I'm so lonely, I'm so lonely."
@GoldenAxer a sexless life isn't normal, messes with the mind. men can think clearly and rationally of they actually get sex. Otherwise you get Elliot Rogers
@t-8900 I suspect that's at least true of some, if not most, men. And it's why I don't trust like a 30-year old virgin that much unless he displays a particularly healthy way of interacting socially.
Why are there two of these?
Ya and there are guys that like to masturbate but hate sex or can not like both.
Like I said…. magichttps://youtu.be/451m6-oil94
Why are there two of these? Inquiring minds want to know.
It's their strength not straight
Absolutely! I wish more people understood this.
Most people just follow brain deteriorating trends that lead them down the path of someone else's miserable lifestyle resulted by a series of idiotic choices caused by the suffering of mankind which are self consciously projected onto society to make them feel better.
True, very true!
Not necessarily. Some people haven't found someone they feel comfortable with sleeping with yet (and some have different values when it comes to sex, and are not interested in causal sex), some don't put themselves out there much and therefore don't meet many people, and some may simply not be interested in sex.
@aWes0MeNeSs thats cool I'm talking about the majority of time. Women like successful men, successful men can get laid