Is my sex life over?

[Anonymous]

My husbands never bothered for sex anymore. I have to initiate all the time but he just seems not into it. We're in our 20s and got married 6 months ago. What do I do?

[Browneye57]

Sit down for an adult conversation - and not in the bedroom.
See if you can find out what the hold up is. At your age and stage you should be fucking like rabbits. Something is wrong and you need to do some digging.

Let me make a suggestion...
Fix him a nice dinner, tell him he's the most important thing in your life and that you couldn't bear to live without him, and that you adore him. Then fuck his brains out.
If this doesn't get him to come around he's seeing someone else already.

These three things are the basic needs of men - food, sex, attention/love/respect. If you give him all of these he could need or want he'll remain forever in love and true to you. About half of women get this, the other half either don't believe it, can't be bothered, or simply refuse. And then they wonder why he wanders off looking for a woman who WILL.

And if you don't love and adore him above all else, then you chose poorly and your marriage is over.

[TheorionMage]

. Negotiate an 'open marriage' or join a 'swinger's club'...
often the permissible availability of new alternative friends with benefits partners
and/or witness of YOUR partner with another
rekindles both desire and spousal possessiveness.
Use common sense protective measures! ;)

[On_cloud_wine]

Ughh even more reason marriage is a joke

[TheorionMage]

@On_cloud_wine "Not MY 'circus' ... NOT my monkey!" No Faulty divorce is always an option~ BEEN THERE / DONE THAT.

[Little_Bumblebee]

I agree with @boggboss about this.

Maybe think of getting some counseling.

[Asker]

Thanks

[boggboss]

Speak to him about the issue

[Asker]

He got offended and said he doesn't always need to satisfy me, to go do it myself.

[boggboss]

Then inside of this married to a degree yes your sex life is fucked how where things beforehand

[Asker]

We had sex everywhere and anywhere before we got engaged. After engagement it was like it was a mission/burden

[boggboss]

Then somthing must have changed that he is not saying

[Asker]

Well he won't tell me 😕😕 what should I do?

[boggboss]

Could try for counselling

[IcedLemonade]

Try telling people you found out he's gay.

[Asker]

Do you think that's a possibility? 😳😳

[IcedLemonade]

It's highly likely

[Neosporin]

That’s too bad but at least you have a sex life of some kind maybe you can lend me some

[Asker]

Lol you can borrow him if you'd like

[Neosporin]

I’m not gay ew

[Jamie05rhs]

Hmm. That's pretty odd. I don't know what to tell you.

[joeldalton]

Have you tried talking to him about it?

[Stevefiveo]

Try talking to him and/ or see a marriage counselor. This a major problem and needs to be fixed. Good luck.

[SamFromFL]

It’s not over, but will take work and communication to get it back on track. When did he stop initiating?

[Asker]

As soon as we got married. 6 months ago

[SamFromFL]

Oh so when you were engaged it was frequent as well?

[Asker]

We weren't living together so we saw each other once or twice a week. So at least once a week. Or once a fortnight

[SamFromFL]

It’s common for sex to slow down a bit after getting married but if it stops that’s an issue. You both have sexual needs and because you are married you are there to meet the needs of each other. Just like other needs. Is he fulfilling all the other needs you have or is sex just one example where he’s not stepping up and giving energy?

[CuriousAZ]

Ask him what he needs

[Sampan2017]

He might have outside relationship

[Anonymous]

Damn something isn’t right. Wonder if his sex life or drive has always been low?

[Asker]

He told me about his past. Definitely a high sex drive. He was a man whore lol

[Opinion Owner]

Wow. That’s crazy then.