"A guy who likes to be anally stimulated isn't a real man". A guy told me this. When I asked why, he said "you as female won't understand". Thoughts?

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NamerOfStars · Accepted Answer

Reality exists objectively, regardless of human perceptions. You know how the moon doesn't cease to exist when you don't look at it? Same thing here.

There's room for legitimate disagreement on what, exactly, constitutes masculinity, but if you've reached the point where you think enjoying or not enjoying a given activity qualifies or disqualifies you, you need to reexamine your whole position.

Glenn603 · Accepted Answer

I'm very new to any sort of anal play but for me it feels absolutely amazing when I touch my prostate and I can usually cum about six times in a row while doing it and obviously that's without touching my penis at all, although I would never let anybody else insert their finger in there.
Doing this definitely doesn't make anybody less of a man.

Smoke-n-Growls · Accepted Answer

Lol, he's closet homo and trying to pass by spewing homophobia everywhere. Also, he's a guy who uses "female" - that's the biggest incel red flag ever.

smokeyshaman · Answer

Total BS. Who is he to say what makes a 'real man'. Plenty of straight guys enjoy anal stimulation, and I hear orgasam from the prostate is supposed to be a whole different expérience to the usual male orgasam. Im betting this guy was one of those matcho 'hey bro' kinda guys right? 🤣

Shortman70 · Answer

Somebody has a gay fantasy, sounds like. To each his own. Do it don't do it, what you like is totally up to you. Don't judge people until you try, mite be the best thing you ever tried. Or maybe he's trying to keep it a secret.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Yeah wrong on so many counts. Also he managed to belittle you at the same time. Most girls I know would have lamped him with that last statement lol.

normalice · Answer

It means that he, personally, knows he would love to take it in the ass but is denying himself that pleasure because he believes that would make him voluntarily subservient which is something he further believes no real man should do.

DonkeyDan · Answer

Sounds like a homophobic guy, afraid his gayness will come out if he experiences pleasure beyond the norm, his loss.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

I'm not much for having my ass stimulated either, but it's not really a manliness thing. Girls are designed to want things stuffed inside them; men aren't. I think that's probably what he meant.

Browneye57 · Answer

Some do. Some don't. So what.  Your little guy is either gay, homo-phobic, or just doesn't like butt-play. Pay him no mind.

Made4sex · Answer

That is a guy taking a very close minded and judgmental view of sex and love in general. There is a reason the nerves around the anus are also connected to an orgasum. And it is funny because I am pretty sure that that connection is only in males.

noohair · Answer

Sexual identity crisis. He is not sure he is hetero.

Twalli · Answer

The human asshole has a lot of nerve endings, so if done correctly it feels good for everyone

EQisKEY · Answer

All butt stuff is gay.. I don't even like when I see the word "anal" on porn sites... Sasha Grey said it best in one of her classics, when the jabroni flipped her over and tried sticking it her ass... She was all... "O yea? That's how you like it? You wanna fuck me like a faggot?" 🤣🤣🤣

abc--123 · Answer

Nothing wrong with a guy liking anal stimulation

jirwin7979 · Answer

each person is diffrent there are those that welcome it me for instance

hakangirer · Answer

gay?

Anonymous · Answer

I don't see what's wrong with a prostate orgasm, it's great even though it might seem taboo. If it's done right, even though it's not normal sex with pussy it can be erotic and fun.