Yes definitely relax don't be afraid do you say anything or do anything if it hurts tell the person if you're thinking about you they will adjust it and make it more pleasurable for you but once again they should be able to see that in the virgins eyes. And if you like something tell them there's a million different ways to make love have sex fuck screw and your partner to be exploring each one until they find the right Groove that fits because once you find that and explore it then it's time to find another one lol nothing should ever remain the same and should be 10 different every single time and if you're going to have an orgasm screaming LOL is the best way to get through it and don't stop there to how much you like it
Yeah that's good advice and make sure you use some form of birth control and pulling out is not birth control. Just relax and don't worry if it's bad the first time cause usually unless he or she is experienced. Also do oral sex or mutual masturbation before intercourse do you need to pace yourselves before your actually ready.
Lol no pulling out doesn't work that's how my niece arrived lol
That's funny that's what happen to my sister had a daughter and how I got a niece. My sister said her boyfriend always pulled out because he was against wearing a condom.
I would only suggest they don’t wait for marriage, but wait for someone who lets you make the first moves. Someone patient and not in a rush. The first time is the most intimidating for everyone. When you can have the control over pace and progression, etc. the rest is natural.
Great advice hon
🥂 Thank you
These are not mutually exclusive. Also it is far less intimidating with someone you put more effort into vetting enough for marriage
When you meet the one for you, it will be worth all those people you rejected and rejected you : )
Great answer thank you
Ofcc hun
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Tip toe you said it perfectly especially the advice about using a condom every time! I would only add "enjoy the great orgasms"
Absolutely
That sex is over-rated & you're not missing much
That's because they had it with you
You're anxiety is your biggest enemy, stop worrying so much about what the other person's expectations of you are and relax, they are just a person just like you. Try to actually enjoy yourself and don't force things, and for the love of God don't try and pull any moves you've seen on pornos! Keep it simple untill you have your license, then start to experiment.
You said everything I didn't say thank you. Very very true porn is fake everybody
Young guys these day thinking they are fuck experts because they watched a thousand hours of porn😂
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Sex is nothing special after it happens your just like what is that it…
It's true it doesn't live up to the hype in some respects but he'll if it doesn't feel amazing 😂
Waste of my god damn time… I can enjoy myself more with my left hand then women seem to be able to Dow tub their whole bodies lmao
Able to do with… and I’m right handed so there’s that
Nothing really. Just have self respect and women will always notice. Build on self respect, always
Use lots of lube on him and inside you the first time!
Very very good advice I was so sore after my first time lol
Get an older, experienced guy.
Why would you suggest this.
@Buterflybaby they are more fun and know what they are doing and dont become to clingy
Exactly. An older guy will also focus on your pleasure
Don't have sex IF you want to be with one special person forever.
Sex is a very private, intimate thing to be shared. You're giving a piece of yourself forever. The more you have sex, the more emotionally numb you become and start objectifying people more.
There is much more than sex to know about the current person you're dating.
If you're waiting for your special one, it's totally your body, your choice DON'T LET people persuade/shame you to have sex.
If you are committed to it, bring a condom and lube or lotion. When entry happens, take it in baby steps... short pushes and pullbacks so you can stretch and relax.
Take it easy, go slow, and also foreplay is key. Please use a condom for your own mental well-being lol
A virgin boy or a virgin girl?
The first time I got fucked, she just reached down between my legs, grabbed my dick and shoved it in! Lesson: over!
Wow. That shouldn’t happen to anyone like that. Sorry to hear that.
@dustybiker Why not? She wanted it and so did I! We'd just spent the bulk of the previous 6 hours making out HOT & HEAVY!! Nothing to be sorry about but, thanks anyway. :-)
Ah. It’s the wording. Made it sound like a bad thing. Good for you. :)
I think your information is awesome and I agree that people
no matter female or male should be in hurry to lose their virginity
I am the oldest male virgin I just never had sex cause I want a
girl to marry me then we would have sex but some people would
call me a liar but I'm an honest guy but I do like your information
and it was a great post
*Shouldn't be in hurry to lose their virginity
Exactly that's what I said. My advice is only for those emotional and loyal people who are waiting for a special one. Otherwise having casual sex can fuck you up mentally and leave you feeling useless.
@Azura_88 Yeah I agree with you
It won't be as bad as you think.
Yeah it totally comes naturally to you your instincts kick in
Don’t be in a rush, it will happen when it happens.
Exactly
It's fine. The truth is, virginity isn't a condition or a malady that needs to be fixed or cured.
Why are you giving advice to virgins? You scout them out or what?
It was a because I see a lot of virgins on here and they are so worried, I though what the hell why not, and hahaha no they fine me
Yes, so desperate to fit it somehow. The insta news crap of late is appalling. One pink bimbo wanted to PAY a guy to do her. SMH
Yeah I don't know how all these virgins find me they just do lol. And yes very will do just about anything to lose their virginity. Honestly I wish I waited
Take your time. Don't do it just because everyone around you has done it. I would also ask for a medical certificate that he/she is healthy...
Foreplay is still sex... don't rush it.
You should cum a few times before he ever enters you.
Absolutely
Make sure you and your partner are actually tested for everything first before bothering getting into that. Oral can also transfer stds unfortunately so I recommend being as safe as possible
i'd tell them: "first sex does not necessarily mean first full penetration". do it slow. pain doesn't have to be part of that game.
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