What are guys views on ladies sleeping on the first night?

[Anonymous]

We definitely vibed with each other the first night! We were talking watching tv which then turned to cuddles and then yeah after that we did the deed lol. But after that night we never stopped talking to each-other, like haven’t went a day without talking. Mind you I also went a away for a trip and was gone for 2 weeks and still communicated the whole time. Im not a for everybody type of girl, I don’t throw myself out there I carry myself well and have been told this. My question is would guys take a girl serious if she had sex the first night or is it more like a test? I was horny as well so I was down lol definitely didn’t do it just because he wanted too. It was both ways. But anyway we hang a lot, he has introduced me to his friends. Has invited me out to an outing. Just what are guys thoughts?

[Anonymous]

I might be a special case but I’m sure there are some who can sympathize so I’ll post my own experience. I’m terrified of being cheated on or just being cuckolded. So I’m kinda intimidated by girls who move quick and know what they want. Ironically though that tends to be the only kind of girl who I get with. So I have had many occasions where I left a good girl behind because I thought she might be too loose and quick on hookups. My self esteem is too low to just assume I’m a special occasion even if it’s true. Not saying that’s gonna happen, but I’m sure there are others who might feel that way too.

[VikingWarLord]

If she doesn't sleep with me the first night, I don't even talk to her again.
SEXUAL CHEMISTRY is the most important thing and this is how I TEST to see if we have it. I can always go a first round with a b! tch, but if she doesn't get me hard for a second round in the next 30 minutes to hour after I cum the first time, then there's no real chemistry there

[summiter]

Sure I would hand or date a girl that had sex with me the first night. Stuff happens and it is not like you forced him to have sex! Howe was the sex anyway? Did you two go for round 2 or 3?

[Asker]

The connection was definitely there!!!

[summiter]

Enjoy the great orgasms!!!

[Asker]

Do you think I could ask the guy I’m seeing if I am his only sexual partner? We’re about a month in, so still fresh but I would like to know, and if so how should I say it.

[summiter]

I would bring up the subject. Maybe start by telling him that you have not had sex with anyone but him and then ask if he wants to be exclusive. It is good to know early on.

[DonkeyDan]

It's not something that I'd want to happen on a first date if the intention was for a relationship. If it's just a hookup FB or friends with benefits situation then yeah of course that fine and kind of expected.

[Ironic_Method]

My wife and I slept together in the first 2 hours of meeting. Been happily together for 6 years now.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't judge her for it and have kept dating girls after first or second date sex.