Is it normal to think another men are beautiful or I'm turning gay?

I was watching UFC fights and I started looking at the fighters muscles and I thought it was beautiful. Now I'm ashamed, I'm scared thinking I probably became gay. I don't think that I did anything that could make me gay, I don't have gay friends, I don't hug men (even my father), I only watch lesbian and solo-female porn so I won't look at others guy dick, what's wrong with me? Should I go to the church or a psychiatrist?
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Superb Opinion

  • Don't do anything.

    You're fine.
    It's normal to appreciate beautiful people and things. You can find a man attractive and not be gay.

    And even if you were, big fuckin whoop. Be you.

    It's sad men have been raised (consciously or not) to think that recognizing beauty in their peers is something negative.

    Not even days ago here some guy asked the question "when was the last time you complimented a guy" and men always seem to ask questions like "why doesn't anyone like me or think I'm handsome".

    Men can find men attractive - and they can be gay, straight, or anywhere else on the LGBTQ or straight spectrums.

    Beauty is beauty.
    To appreciate it is human and right.

    Whether being gay is a problem or not, guess that depends on you. But frankly, as a member of the LGBTQ community myself, I don't see a problem with it and neither should you.

    So you saw a pretty boy. Enjoy, smile, and enjoy the rest of your day.

Most Helpful Girl

  • First off, you need to chill. Don't be so insecure with your own sexuality.

    It's perfectly fine and normal to appreciate looking at someone, it doesn't change your sexuality.

    Being around gay people doesn't turn you, gay, either, it's not an "infection"

    If you're still into and attracted to women, at most you can be bisexual. But that really doesn't sound like the case.

Most Helpful Guys

  • As a guy we can appreciate the male form in a way that isn't gay, just because I might look at the guy in the gym and think to myself wow hrs ripped and has a great body isn't something that gay. I just have an appreciation for the work he's put into his body and that he must be proud of it. O can look at someone like Brad Pitt and think to myself he's an attractive guy and it still not be gay. Stop getting hung up on your thoughts about what is right and wrong and how a thought can be gay or not, just appreciate the sights you find enjoyable.

  • I think plenty of guys are handsome and charming but the difference is, and why I know I'm not gay, is that I wanna be them so that I can make ladies cream their underwear. I don't wanna have sex with them. That's gross.

    • I wanna be young Jude Law and just turn down women left and right nicely while teasing and flirting and leaving their panties soaked:
      Is it normal to think another men are beautiful or I'm turning gay?
      What a handsome guy with devilish charm! I would totally abuse that if I had that while single.

    • Girl: How are you? Jude Law: I can be as good as you want me to be. Girl: [Cream her panties] I say that shit and the girl gets weirded out. But if I was Jude Law, I think I can say that sort of stuff. I can just say dumb stuff probably like, "Ooga booby, you hot!" and then the girl is like, "OMG, Jude Law said I'm hot! [cream panties]"

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  • Oh bother. So why is it you are scared you are gay because you thought someone’s physique was attractive?

  • Nothing is wrong with you. I think it is ok to admire a hot body on another guy. It does not mean you want to have sex with him! Do you think of guys or girls when you jerk off?

  • Cringe