What’s your favorite way to initiate sex?

I'll get naked and start touching myself, it doesn't take long for a guy to notice, or I'll go up to him whisper in his ear that I'm wet and craving him! Interested to see everyone opinions.
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  • Wait til she gets home from work and has had a little time to wind down, have food, get all those other needs met and destress a little on her own, then leave a little love note somewhere (ideally the counter-top) for when she goes back to read.
    As she's there come up behind her, shirt already off but pants still on so there's just enough to see but a lot left to show... slowly wrap my arms around while gently kissing the back of her neck and playing with her hair, work my way down to her back and her shoulders, squeezing and playing with her tits and stomach and moving my hands down to her thighs and groin to touch her and get her lightly moaning. Then bringing my hands around to her rear and up for massaging her back and shoulders and finally removing her shirt. Kiss and massage all over her back a bit more frantically, cap that off by grabbing her jawline softly in one hand and pulling her back to plant a passionate kiss over her shoulder before forcing her back down to the counter-top so she gets just enough to want more and know who's in charge. Continue on and then spin her around so she still knows who's dominant. Continue on her chest and stomach and neck and begin making out, now undoing her bra and licking and sucking and kissing her tits. Slowly working down to undo her pants and remove her panties. Go back up the length of her body to make her think you're about to get ready to fuck her only to work your way back down to her groin and start giving her some wicked head.
    After being done with that, then, if she wants more, it can be time to undo your own pants, turn her back around and force her against the counter-top for a good pounding complete with all the ear-biting, neck-biting, sparse kisses, hair-pulling, spanking and light choking that could be desired. Make sure to control her legs, but only her thighs and push one of them up at some point for a better angle and so she knows she's still yours but enabling her to still have some degree of control over her own hips.

    By the time she gets to the bedroom for some far more kinky or even just missionary/riding sex, she's had 1-4 orgasms.

    • That's what I'm talking about guys take notes lol

    • Lol, the irony to this. I'm a virgin still waiting for the right girl.

  • i would get a motel room for us

    i would put you on your knees unzip & put my cock in your face & tell you to suck it

    • Damn I wish I knew who you were that's super hot

    • @tiptoetamm pm me

    • I can't I don't know who you are

Most Helpful Girls

  • All I have to do is roll over toward my husband and put my hand on his arm. Everything is considered an invitation. Otherwise, I just reach right for the goods.

  • make out with him rub his cock if he gets hard he gets a blowjob

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  • Usually by kissing and rubbing his body

  • My former girlfriend would put out a container of Astroglide... That was one way that I knew she was in the mood... LOL

    • Omg that's so great

  • First I type out a detailed proposal outlining all the details and constraints of the act, it must be at least 5 pages long and meets all legal requirements.

    Then I will submit that proposal to her via email, requesting a response in 2-4 business days. If the proposal is agreed upon we will sign a legally binding contract Infront of a legal witness, then the contract will be forwarded to both our parents for safe keeping.

    After confirming that they have received the correct document, I tell her Ma'am my anaconda wants, and we proceed to ugly make out.

  • Opening the Venmo app.

    What’s your favorite way to initiate sex?
  • I take different approaches depending on my connection to the woman and their personality.


    If they like it seductive and sexy then I would rub their back and whisper something in their ear smooth but sexy.
    If they want me to be more aggressive and sexy then I just take off my shirt and approach them directly with my intentions clear.


    To be honest I don’t have a specific way, I enjoy being creative and unique with my approaches

    • That's awesome good for you

    • Your style is also awesome, thanks!

  • Usually starts with a massage, or I'll come up and hug her from behind and press my hard dick into her back and kiss her neck. Failing that drop my pants and put my dick in her face 😂

  • OK, damn, that's kinda hot.
    I guess I usually start with kissing, that becomes more and more passionate until we are making love.

  • Strip tease if together or sexy text/pic if meeting up later.

  • I have no need to initiate, because maximum time he initiated the sex. But if I want to initiate then I just hug him, kiss him and rub his penis and he is starting to erect.

  • I’d ask if they would be willing to get down and dirty with me. Only once that’s agreed upon can any sort of initiation begin.

  • C'MERE, BITCH!! I wanna fuck you!!
    Or, Honey, it's time for your medicine!

    • 🤣🤣🤣

  • Send me a pm pls, we chatted last week. You’re awesome

  • After I get good and hard I push my swollen member into the small of her back. She always gets the message.

  • Slap him lightly in the head with a strapon or just putting on his leash is fun too….

  • Start making out with her while unbuttoning her shirt or putting my hand under it.

  • It's often coming up behind her, rubbing one shoulder, nuzzling her neck, hot breath, a nibble on her neck while the other hand cups and caresses her breasts as my hips pin her to the kitchen counter/bathroom sink/washer or the car as we were about to unload groceries...

    Just to get the simmer going...

    The whole thing is good but "initiating sex" starts at 3:20.

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/ZR_w1i202A4
    • That's hot

    • A deaf newlywed couple are in bed and they realize that with the lights off they need a way to communicate to the other if they do or don't want sex. The wife starts with "if you want sex rub your dick on my thigh, if you don't then kiss my shoulder and roll over." The husband replies "if you want sex tug on my cock twice, if you don't tug on my cock about 200 times."

    • Hahahahaha how great

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  • Yep that would do it for me! When I initiate its usually involving kissing, stroking her skin, running my hands all over her body (grazing and teasing her boobs and nipples) running me hand over legs and rubbing her pussy and clit and making it hot and heavy.

  • It starts with cuddling, kissing and then massaging.

  • I guess I’m lame because I just let him start it everytime I guess I’m too slow 😂

    • Believe me your man will be puddy in your hands if you start it just go up to him and give him a bj you'll get whatever you want lol

    • No lie lol

    • Yeah I’ll start it next time he’s just too fast lol

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