Is being a virgin but using sex toys off putting?

I’ve never had sex with anyone before but I have done other things so I’m not tight like I was when I first ever penetration, if that makes sense?
I fear that guys would think I’m weird and be put off that I’ve like used sex toys before every having had sex
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  • I did the same thing before I lost my virginity, the first time I used a sex toy I thought it really hurt, the first time I had sex, I thought it was amazing! ssoyou keep doing you, and the guy who I had sex with knew all of this and thought it was awesome!

  • Nah I used a lot of toys before I had sex the first time. You’re allowed to please yourself remember that.

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  • Being a virgin doesn't mean you have no sexual urges. You've found a way to satisfy them. Good for you.

  • Using toys is fine, most girls get friendly with hair brush handle, deodorant can, curling tongs etc well before they do with a guy.

    also your pussy will stay pretty much the same, it does not suddenly get huge and loose.

    it does not work like that, you won’t be getting loose.

  • I think every girl uses toys or objects before being penetrated by a guy!

  • No, it's attractive. It tells me she's a woman who has a strong sex drive but just hasn't met an attractive partner.

  • No it's pretty normal, girls will use whatever they can find, the end of a hairbrush for example. Don't worry about it, they had no idea how tight you were before

    • What do you have? What type of toy

  • Sex toys won't loosen ur vag, but yeah it's kinda weird

    • What’s weird

    • Being a virgin but having a bunch of toys

    • Well I don’t have a bunch. I’ve just been too scared to sleep with someone and I get attached and then hurt. Every guys I’ve dated or been with has always been awful so having sex with them wouldn’t have helped with anything so I just avoided sleeping with anyone but at the end of the day I’m still human and get insanely horny

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  • Biogically virginity is about the hymen.. Spiritually it is about purity.

    Toys have robbed you of both.
    There is still hope though.

    • That’s not what virginity is. My hymen broke when I did ballet. You’re not educated well enough about the woman’s body then to say that. Virginity has nothing to do with the hymen.

    • Okay. But you didn't answer about the purity? Personally though, I feel you are robbing yourself of the best. Masturbation is not healthy. Also God can give you someone perfect and even if He doesn't, the self control to be the boss of your hormones is refreshing.

    • How is it not healthy?

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  • I don't see anything wrong with it

  • Men don't care

  • Any guy that's weirded out by you enjoy things sexual but maintaining your virginity won't be fun and seems boring.

  • Vaginas aren't rubberbands that go loose. It's like learning to do the splits. Just cause you can do the splits doesn't mean you can't stand anymore. Tightness is a question of muscle. You're supposed to use those muscles.

  • Not at all and I love using toys on her while making out.

  • Nah. Thats kinda hot.

  • No, of course not.

  • You mean as opposed to masturbating without toys? Or what do you mean? Is this specifically about sex toys or about masturbation in general?

    • Maybe read the whole thing again slowly

    • Maybe shut the fuck up. I did read your whole dumb thing, it still makes no sense. But hey, go ahead and be this spineless little loser who only cares what guys supposedly want her to be. Have fun with that. And with you sexual frustration LOL

  • Not at all

  • No absolutely not off putting

  • Nope not a turn off

  • Not for most people I don't think.

  • Nope

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