Guys, do you dislike it when women cum first during sex?

Usually i come first and then the guy takes over and cums. Is this boring? I feel like i dissapointed a guy when i did this because it feels common. I wanted to rock his world but it ended up being Mediocre
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  • I'd say that's the way it should be since guys for the majority only can orgasm once. Also it's way more difficult to continue having sex as a guy after orgasm.

    So while I understand you want him to feel amazing you would probably miss out on your own orgasm if he cums first. Of course if you want he can help you in other ways too and if you want that you should discuss this with your partner. Tell him that you would like him to cum first.

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  • No because that's my goal but it is also to make it all about you and take you on that fine line of orgasm and not and I'll pull you over that line on the orgasm side and then I'll push you back over on the other side teasing you for a while because of what I want you to come I want you to orgasm once or twice right then and there and hopefully the third time we're going to do it together

Most Helpful Girl

  • I don't know why a guy would dislike that. I cum first and multiple times with my boyfriend. Fortunately, when girls orgasm, that doesn't mean the sex is over. My boyfriend can usually feel when I orgasm and it just turns him on more.

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  • The woman having an orgasm first is the best way!

  • No I prefer her to cum first because it eases the tension I have with sex.

  • Whenever I'm with a woman particularly while performing oral I always finish her off first, I get so turned on watching her cum.
    Obviously it's pretty much over if I cum first because I have quite a lot of mess to clean up

  • Not at all, it's our role to make you cum first, I take pride in making a girl cum before I do, means I'm doing it right.

  • No, that's perfect. If I'm having intercourse then after a couple of minutes I can pretty much finish at will. If she is capable of climaxing from intercourse, I can delay my own climax until she does, then finish myself soon after.

    • I hopped on him like a bunny and came in a few minutes then he took over and went really slow while making eye contact with me. I felt like he was showing me how to properly have sex because u just went fast while licking his neck and he took the time to look into my eyes

    • ** I just went fast

  • Absolutely not, means I'm doing my job correctly. I prefer that she cums before me, hopefully multiple times.

  • Never had sex, but I would want to make her cum first tbh

  • Aren’t ladies supposed to cum out first, I do oral with my lady and she cums out a few time before I unload mine, I never want to cum out first

  • Hell, no! Cum as early and as often as you want! As long as you let me cum, too.

  • No not at all as a matter fact I prefer it, I make sure my woman gets off first all the time very rarely do I ever get off first

  • He's most thrilled if you do. Any guy worth his salt gets his woman off first - the orgasm is more elusive for her, and once he comes it's over. :)
    And if you're just not going to get there, then just tell him so and ask him to get there. It's about give and take.

  • Girls can cum dozens of times in a day.
    I hope she cums before me

  • Not at all! It makes us feel that much better and confident and then the pressure is off us lol!

  • No. my Ex always came before me, often times multiple times. Only problem is when they quit or dry up.

  • It’s better for them to do that so I can gauge myself when to do it as well

  • It is what it is, but women tend to be able to keep going, right?

  • I prefer my girl cumming first!

  • Not at all, just give a little sign when you're orgasming.

  • Yeah that should fucking turn me on like a mother fucker that means she's got room for more organsms. That are also let me be able to cum multiple times

  • I would hope that you would cum multiple times by the time that I cum.

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