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How do I handle pressure from my boyfriend and wanting to cum in me?

He says we are a couple and he should go bare now.
How do I handle pressure from my boyfriend and wanting to cum in me?
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  • And that's when you say I agree. Then you say oh wait a minute. You own your own house right you have a good job you have a nice car you pay for your insurance. You have $250,000 in the bank because when you come in me and I get pregnant that's what we need 2 raise our baby. So until you have all that you're going to have to wear mr. Condon because without that you can't come in me. You have to understand you're the boss not him you have to understand that your body you have to understand if you have a baby it's your baby because the odds are been proven maybe only 25% of guys are going to stick around and then they get even less after that. You have to understand this to it's your responsibility make him understand if he doesn't understand you're going to have to teach teach him because otherwise he doesn't give a fuck all he wants to do is come inside you that's all he cares about you have a baby you're going to have a whole lot of things to care about and he's not going to be there sorry to blow your bubble but I'm just being honest with you

Most Helpful Guy

  • Wow he sounds like a smart well rounded idiot. Anyone in your family have a infant? Have him spend a weekend changing shitty diapers. Not sleeping. Realizing he's nothing anymore because his life is now that if a father and you two would be responsible for a new life.
    So unless he's ready to lace up his big boy boots and become a man and a father rather than a boy that he is and your ready for motherhood, which neither of you are in my opinion. Think about this long term is it worth 15 mins of sex for the serious responsibilities that may come of it.
    You two are young still. And not to be a realist who's to say that once you go unprotected and a pregnancy occurs that you two may not even be together anymore.
    No one can stop your choice but think about it logically and intelligently

Most Helpful Girls

  • Because you asked this question, I'm assuming you either don't want him to cum in you or you are scared. He wants to do it because of the amazing feeling for him... hence the pressure.
    If you don't want him to cum in you, tell him no. That's it.
    If you are worried... just make sure you are taking your birth control consistently and you both can also get tested for diseases. Then it's cool to let him cum in you.

  • Guys always want to cum in their girlfriends. However, it’s your body so if you’re not comfortable with that, you’re just going to have to stand up for yourself and tell him. Tell him to keep wearing that condom or pulling out…or whatever you guys are doing now until you are ok with it and you’ll let him know when that is. Sometimes you just have to demand respect.

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  • That kind of pressure is a huge red flag and it’s unlikely to make you happier to accept the thing. Let him know it. It’s not just a “no”. It’s a “don’t be scary, let me decide on my own”.

    If he doesn’t understand your discomfort, it could be a good reason to break the relationship. It is a gigantic red flag.

  • He can say anything he wants to, but its your pussy and your rules. If he keeps pressuring you, move on to a guy who respects your feelings.

  • Tell him how excited you are to have a baby with him and see how fast he backs off

  • Get him to have an STD test, also unless you are on birth control, then don’t let him.

    STD check, birth control and maybe then.

    it’s your choice, from the sound of it though, dump him sounds a bit too demanding and controlling.

  • Not a chance. Do you want to be an unwed mommy at a young age or get an std? No condom means no sex.
    Don't let him talk you into the pullout method it does not work. Precum van have sperm in it.

  • Well, what is the concern? I mean, you can take birth control medication, right?

  • Well first of all you need to have your own acceptable birth control in place secondly you need to fully trust him. Ie he isn't a cheater as far as you know or believe. Then it's up to you if you want to go bare. It's a more natural and care free sex life. But never cave on pressure, only do it if you want.

  • Well if it is something you are considering not only do you need to look at birth control and both get tested for STDs

  • Are you on contraception? Do you trust that he is not seeing anyone else? How long have you been together?

  • You should tell him that it's your body and that you don't want to go bare. That when you get pregnant, he will walk away and you will be stuck raising a child by yourself so we will continue to use a rubber

  • Let him know he can expect 18 years of child support and to pay maternity expenses. Tell him there will be no abortion.

  • Ha! He wants to entrap you! Fuck him! It's time to move on NOW before he ruins your life. Seriously! It's only if it's something YOU want. But just know what the concequences are!

  • Well, it's your pussy!! If you don't want cum in it, that's all there should be to it!! Otherwise, get on the pill.
    My ex-fiance never used anything and we fucked a few times a week for well over a year before I knocked her up!

  • Just laugh and say "no."

  • You should both get tested before you stop wearing condoms, just to be safe

  • He looks like a total tool.

  • Are you on birth control? If not tell him he better be ready to be a supportive father and/or pay child support.

    Don’t give into this shit. Unless you are already on effective birth control you are playing Russian roulette. If you do get pregnant don’t think that an abortion is “effective birth control”.

    I hate morons like this. I never bare backed it UNLESS I was already in a devoted relationship and I knew my girlfriend was on BC (and trusted her.). Does that 1 minute of extra pleasure worth 18 years of responsibility or a painful decision to kill a fetus? Ask him that.

  • Are you on birth control? If not, then just say no.

  • Depends on if you’re ready to be a single mom

  • Are you on birth control?
    Do you have somewhat regular periods?
    If you do become pregnant can you handle a child?
    How long have you been dating?

    The above is the information I need to answer this question

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