Taken people!! Do you get tempted by attractive people?

[Милашка]

I can't understand how it is possible to lust after another person when you love your spouse?
I can only desire one person. That is my husband. If my husband dies or divorces me I will end up celibate for the rest of my life because I won't be able to force myself to have sex with another man as it is disgusting to me. But why should I force myself to do something I don't want right? Therefore I will end up with no sexual partner.

[ohshee]

Well I think there's times that all of us have felt that way in a moment but never say never because all it would take is for the right guy with the Right Touch to totally melt you and get you so turned on did you would want it even though you said no right now I understand that I respect that but I know for a fact that it can be done

[kyleelyn199723]

No I don’t. I actually had a co worker point out a cute new guy at my job and I literally said to her “eh I have a boyfriend, I shouldn’t be looking at other men that way” she was shocked. She was like “you are allowed to look even if you are taken” no thanks. There’s no reason to be looking at other men if you are proud of who you have

[Anonymous]

We're a poly couple in an open relationship, so it's quite normal.

[Rangers]

No, not even a little bit. Sure, I can say a girl is attractive when I see one but if we're talking about cheating or "trading" not a fiber in my body has any interest in any of that.

[boggboss]

No im not tempted um still attracted to other people but I'm happy with who I am with

[exitseven]

I look but I am not tempted. Sorry ladies.

[JosyJosy]

Nopes

[Browneye57]

Love is not exclusive honey. Not everyone thinks like you.

[Милашка]

I know. Not everyone can love like I do.

[Browneye57]

It has nothing to do with 'love'. Sorry. You're a bit confuzzled.

[Милашка]

then why do I desire only him

[Browneye57]

It's fine. It's better that way, you won't be lured away by another. Just know that there is no cardinal rule that one can only love one other person. Love is about GIVING, not what you get. It's not uncommon to love other people in your life.

[Twalli]

They don't tempt me because I am in a relationship, but I still find them attractive and might consider them if I was single

[FireFox001]

No. When I love someone, I am in for good.

[Djaay]

NO I don't. I already have one.

[REDHOTLINE]

Dont speak about the future...
And yes if she is beautiful and sexy she can get tempt to me

[Милашка]

I can speak about the future because no other man turns me on.

[REDHOTLINE]

Only now... Coz now you are crush you husband and you are new married. Years by years your mind will be change

[Милашка]

how?

[REDHOTLINE]

You will see.. In this universe everyting change by the time.

[Joshua0213]

Nsh i might find them attractive but don't plan on doing anything with them

[CuriousAZ]

Might fantasize but wouldntdo it

[Anonymous]

I can't understand how anyone can be immune. to temptation. The trick is to ignore it.

[Милашка]

I am even disgusted by the idea of having sex with anyone else

[Opinion Owner]

Just out of curiosity, how would you react if "your" man were to smile at an attractive woman?

[Милашка]

why would he? Sounds creepy. He's not a creep.

[Opinion Owner]

It's a guy thing in general, and I did say "if". If you don't feel like answering that's ok too. Silence is also an answer.

[Милашка]

I would think they know each other

[Anonymous]

I understand ur views but unfortunately some people just can’t control their hormones and that takes over.

[Милашка]

but why do my hormones revolve around only my husband?

[Opinion Owner]

Ha I don’t know.