How do I know if I am in love, lust or simply want attention/touch?

[Anonymous]

[ohshee]

This is what I love about the internet you have the Whole World in Your Hands with your device you can talk about it with people but you almost have to go through the experience because each one of those have a portion of all the other ones in it so let's play pretend I could show you in all the different ways that I would love you by the way I treat you talk to you and bond with you there's a bond that is just totally unreal.
At the same time let's play pretend again if we met each other and we're both horny there is a passion and energy desire Within Me the way that I like to touch and I like to make a girl feel and I still have to have that Bond and I could bond and bring you in so close and so tight that you would think that it's love and I think that part of it is a question of love because that's just who I am this is where people mess up because when you touch somebody with your energy when you touch somebody in the matter that I would touch you it just melts there's a meltdown and what that is and what I mean is there's two energies the bond together it's the most beautiful feeling in this world and when this happens people I think that that's love because it's so intense but it's just two energies bonding so I mean there's a lot more things about love there's over five hundred billion different types of love and truly you have to experience all of them almost but true love from your partner is unconditionally is always there for you is your best friend conductive into your eyes and let you speak and let you say how you feel without one word and then to energy touching becoming one that is the most beautiful feeling in this world and you have to know the difference just wanting to have sex Carpet One more things involved with the love part

[Asker]

Great answer. I think I have lust more than love. I crave his physical touch and romantic relationship with him. But I recently found out he's married. I got heartbroken but annoyed AF at the same time. Also he's 38 so I don't think he'll like me back. It feels risky to give him flirty hints because he might end up loathing me for being a bad girl.

[ohshee]

I think that just totally sucks that I would even do that because sooner or later you're going to find out that he's married she's going to find out that he's having an affair and then everybody screwed well I would think it was lust to for me when I first start going out with somebody it is because I liked him for sure that there is a lust there is a sexual connection and that connection is beautiful I don't care how you touch where you touch what you touch with there's going to be a meltdown and that would be my goal is to make you so you shiver you shake uncontrollably. What is so very easily for that last to turn into friendship like Bond and even love when you have a when lust is involved there's excitement there's energy use Joy there's passion and then you can fill that with every inch of your being to your Center core it's absolutely beautiful there's an intense Nest that is just unreal and to be honest I love that feeling I strive for that. But at the same time I don't want to go out with a married woman so I would have to hang it up right then and there and start all over again

[Anonymous]

Are you thinking about what you want him to do to you tonight, or are you thinking about what you want him to do with you for the rest of your life? Do you think more about him pulling down your panties or pulling down your barriers to emotional intimacy?

[Asker]

Both

[Opinion Owner]

Have you and this guy ever had a date? What's the history?

[Asker]

No date unfortunately. He's my driver :( I don't want to risk his career so I'm suffering silently hoping that I will move on.

[Opinion Owner]

Okay, so you "know" him, but not in the way that you get to know people when you have been dating for awhile. Isn't this guy married? Overwhelming odds are that you are just horny af. You probably need new batteries and a few hours with your vibrator.

[Asker]

Yeah you're right. I don't know why I'm being a fucking retarded crybaby when I'm not able to touch him and hug him.

[Opinion Owner]

Sometimes, what you can't have is what you want the most.

[Asker]

I don't know if he likes me or not. Maybe he's keeping his distance. I gotta move on. But then he looks at me sometimes. So confusing.

[Opinion Owner]

He's married. Off limits!

[PrettyPriya]

Love is something that is built towards. Love isn’t something you simply get/have, you earn it.

Maybe you are just looking for physical contact.

[Asker]

I have this bad habit. Initially I get lust, crave physical touch then I get emotionally attached and start caring a lot for that person.

[PrettyPriya]

There is nothing wrong with caring for someone. Just shows your personality! You are obviously a caring person. Lust is easy, it is the love that is hard. 😉

[PrettyPriya]

Thank you kindly for mhg 🙏❤️

[Asker]

<3 <3

[Carolus]

It doesn’t matter, in most cases love, infatuation and lust are closely inter-linked. Love irrespective of the type is a creation of the mind. Some can be infatuated and it ends to be love, others driven by lust (mostly male) and ends up to be love. Weigh your risks and go for it strategically. When it comes to relationships, lowering your expectations equates to lower disappointments. Being too careful isn’t a guaranteed success.

[Jlegacy]

Love, today, has several definitions but love is of God. Love is clean. Love would put God's word above feelings or hormones. Lust won't. If you want the so to be right with God, it is love. If not, it is lust and what else.

[FilmGuy93]

Do you have anything bad to say about the person you're eying up? If not; it's infatuation or horniess.

[Jamie05rhs]

All of that is irrelevant. You told us that he's married. Forget about him!

[Asker]

Yeah I'm nearly moving on. I won't lie but yes I am towards letting it go.

[Jamie05rhs]

Okay. That's good.

[Wise4myage]

Love takes a long time to develop and it doesn't happen overnight. Lust means you want it right now.

[SamFromFL]

If you have doubts it’s likely you just want to be touched

[Asker]

Yeah I want to be touched but suddenly I'm sulking about not being able to get him. I miss him, drop a few tears as well. I don't know why I got so emotional about him.

[SamFromFL]

It’s normal to get emotional especially if you two have been intimate. You are missing those feelings and emotions

[In_Trance]

Give it time

[Pterodon]

Time will tell

[Maybe-Your-Neighbor]

He only wants sex

[Bklynbadboy12]

Answer that question and Ill tell you if its love or lust. Was the something that just came out of nowhere when you met this person

[Asker]

At first I didn't noticed him much. I just noticed his eyes. Then I saw his sincere behavior, but one day I sat next to him when he was driving, I suddenly felt so romantic and that's how it started. I fantasize about him but today i got mad because he's married so he won't like me and our relationship will be POINTLESS.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Its definitely just. So what are you gonna do now

[Asker]

Continue what I'm exactly doing, keeping it hidden. But still attract him indirectly.

[Bklynbadboy12]

So let say he is attracted to you what will you do

[Asker]

Have a secret relationship with him, kiss him, hold his hands, caress him, touch his chest. Then in bed if I feel really out of control.

[Asker]

But I don't think he is. He might be keeping his distance but I get confused when he sometimes look at me.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Wow! Okay

[jimmy2]

Lets find out

[Bandon94853]

you will know when your in love because you will love all there mistakes and at the end of the day when ur all alone if u think about this person and there qualities like there laugh or smile and you miss that then id say ur in love