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Serious: Were you ever molested growing up?

I was molested by my dad growing up. If you're afraid to talk about it you can PM me.
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  • Yes, technically, 3 times, at least twice by the same guy. The first two times, he enticed me up into his room under false pretenses and made me pull down my pants, lie on his bed and play with his dick while he played with mine. I'm told he also got my little brother and one of my ex-sisters, too. I was 13 or 14 so my brother would've been 11, 12 or 13 and my sister would've been 9 or 10, my other sister would've only been 6 or 7.
    The third time, I was always sleeping on this antique wicker swing we had on the front porch during the Summer. Heat rises so, it was always too hot to sleep in my room on the third floor. One night, a few hours after I'd fallen asleep, I felt something bump one of the two chains above my head.. It reverberates through the swing and it started to wake me up and I figured I should take a look to see what it was. I was VERY sleepy and could barely open my eyes but, when I looked, there was some guy standing there at the head of the swing beating off on my front porch!! Still too sleepy/groggy to do anything about iit, I tried to wake up and just as I did, he blew his load onto the wall behind the swing, pulled up his pants, jumped over the railling and dashed off around the corner of the house before I could even make out what exactly was going on! I remember this guy being a bit corpulent, just like the other guy, and having a kind of Ish Kabibble hair cut, but longer and I remember he was wearing a white shirt. For years, I thought it was another neighbor who was a few years older than me because he ran off in the direction of that guys house but, the more I thought about it over the decades, the more plausible it was that it was the first guy, Norbert Carr.

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  • No, but my mom touched me inappropriately literally thousands of times when I was little, especially when she was drunk and she tried to forcefully kiss me on the lips, but I fought back and stopped her. She'd inappropriately run her hands up my legs when I was in shorts on the bed and ignoring me when I told her to stop and used the absolute retarded retort of "how are you gonna have a girlfriend?" I wish I could say that she isn't that retarded, but sadly she was and still is.

    When I'd finally had enough, I swatted her hands away, she'd hit me numerous times in the head and face.

    When I was 13, she was doing it again, sexually harassing me constantly every weekend and when I called her on it, she'd just play the victim and call me names or use the same retarded girlfriend comment.

    Finally, I'd had it the night after and i grabbed her wrist and told her I'd break it if she didn't stop. She tried to slap me with her other hand but I blocked it and I threw her glasses off, still holding her wrist. I got up and pushed her outside my room, held her wrist against the frame, and slammed the door onto her wrist several times. Looking back, I should've kept slamming it until her wrist fell off.

    After that, she never ever touched me sexually ever again!😊

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  • I'm sorry to hear about that. I hope you're better now, though the scars always stay back.
    Yes I was molested when I was 13 by a father and his son who stayed in my neighborhood. Our families were pretty close and I was there after my school to hangout, the mother had gone out to the supermarket, and I was left alone with them for sometime. The most terrible hour of my life. Now I am better enough and past it to be vocal about it without fear.

    • I’m glas you’re doing better

  • Yeah, I was molested by my paternal grandfather when I was a little kid

    • It's so common.

    • Unfortunately, my husband was molested and raped by to different people when he was 5 -6

    • Its crazy how often it happens.

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  • Yes not rape though but molested fondled etc by family and a stranger while at church 13yrs old... That man definitely attempted rape but I got away.
    Raped as an adult unfortunately though.

    • How did it happen?

  • @succubus_girl really sorry to hear that.

    it is unfortunately all to common and often not mentioned until older.

    I spent about 8 years at a counselling centre and abuse was one of the most common reasons for counselling. It is also something that is often genderless with both being equally involved.

  • 2 girls in the college locker room showers accosted & molested me. :(

    • What happened?

    • @Justaguy30 Held on a full nelson by one girl while the other girl forcibly touched my privates.

    • Oh dang.

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  • Yes I was unfortunately

    • what happened

    • PM me? Chat about it?

  • Raped, by my older brothers girlfriend. But all that's way past me, and it doesn't bother me much any more.

  • Yes I was by My mom’s girlfriend that was in her late 30’s , that use to pretty much babysit me and I was friends with her daughter as well , she told me if I told my parents that things will get bad , I was like 9/10 years old , I never told my parents cuz I was scared but I also enjoyed it as well crazy to say , She ended up passing away when I was 16 and then I confessed to my parents on what happened

  • Had an older cousin (10 or 12) having me feel her asshole when I was (5-7). I never thought of molestation, but it got me shipped out to Phoenix Ariz. when my dad's housekeeper, caught me feeling and playing with my 'buddy''" asshole, next to his house. How stupid was the housekeeper? What a moron.

  • Never experienced it myself, but my ex did. I'm sorry you had to go through that

    • what happened to your ex

    • I'll explain in dms, would rather not talk about it here out of respect for her.

  • Almost. Thankfully I wasn't, but the threat of it persisted for most of my time growing up.

    • If you need to talk, I'm here hon

    • thank you

    • Of course hon 💜

  • Mercifully no. Unfortunately I've got too many friends who can't say the same.

    The ones my age have (mostly) dealt with it. I have a friend whose daughter was a few years ago. The law has failed miserably. They know exactly who, where and when. They even arrested the fucker. The trial got postponed repeatedly. For 8 years so far. The little girl is 11 now.

    He was involved in a car crash leaving a hearing in a stolen car. The recovery time delayed the trial yet again and after he was recovered his family had the gall to try and get the charges dropped because he'd "suffered enough".

    Wrong.

    I'm generally a forgiving guy. I know the details about the girl, the trial etc except one. My friend refuses to tell me his name. Because despite my normally forgiving nature she knows I'd take my time. I'd really enjoy feeding him his own balls.

  • Yes. I was molested by two people when I was 5. It happened at least 2 times that I remember, but being so young I wonder if some of my memories around the experiences were blocked out or lost. It's possible it happened more than twice

  • No. Biological dad or step dad?

    • biological

  • Almost every girl that came around me initiated sex and fondled my privates. And thankfully God saved me from what could have ruined my life.
    I was like 13 and there was a 10ish year old girl always around me. I fondled her breast bowing to sexual curiousity. Thank God it never went deeper than that.

    Her guardian advised me to change friends and thankfully God did it for me.

  • I have

    • What happened?

    • Can you PM me about it?

    • @jackwhittier you are inactive -_-

  • Never.

    • I'm sorry it happened to you. I hope you're okay.

    • i'm okay now, thank you so much for asking :)

    • And I hope the bastard is in jail

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  • Yup.

    • Can you PM me about it?

    • @JackWhittier Why?

  • No, it has always been consensual 😜

  • Neighbor kid, a few of the older girls in the neighborhood and and old man walking through the neighborhood that pulled me into a public restroom.

    • What happened?

    • My grandpa molested my mom and aunt and beat the shyt out of my grandma if she tried to protect them. My oldest brother was gangraped when he was 12. Another brother was sodomized by his teacher. Another brother was kidnapped and taken to an empty parking lot in a van but he was already carrying a knife so he shoved the knife hilt deep in one guys chest and escaped. I think every female on my mom's side and a few males were raped or molested except for my 2 sisters. I won't have anything to do with that whole side of the family. We live in another state.

  • I am sorry to hear about your dad molesting you, I sometimes don't understand why people who should be loving and protecting you can treat you incredibly lackluster.

  • Messaged you!

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