Are there anyone like me who lost there virginity to an escort was it good?

[mattissebfan5]

She was one of the nicest people I've ever met

[InventorofWarp]

No. I'm still a virgin at 24, almost 25, and don't really have a problem with it. Especially not when so many guys my age seem to have cheated on/with girls and treat sex like it's just some thing with no weight or fun anymore.
Frankly I have nothing against escorts but I would never hire one for my first time, or any time really, and I think it's kind of a sad thing to end up losing virginity to one just to get it over with. That doesn't sound like a nice "first time" story and isn't with someone who loves or respects you as a person but rather just a job. I know someone who did that when he was 17 and he flat-out told me he wished he'd have done it like me and just held out and waited for something special.

Having said all that, it's not my life or experience. My opinion is just that.

[mattissebfan5]

I understand what your saying but I don't regret it one bit I have mental illness so I never thought I'd be able to have sex so i did it last year and it was good for multiple reasons 1 both knew what was going to happen 2 I was extremely nervous and she calmed me down 3 You don't have a relationship on the line if it dosen't go as expected 4 what better way than with someone who knows exactly what she's doing

[InventorofWarp]

I guess to each their own. I'm a high-functioning autistic myself but, it is what it is. If you're at peace with the choice and don't regret it, I guess that's more than I can say for some of the choices I've made in my life.

[mattissebfan5]

Sorry to here about autism I don't regret it everyone is different you have to know what you want and for me I was glad that I could lose my virginity and I was very happy to do it because for a long time I was like what if I never have sex and now that I've had it I no longer feel that of course I want sex still but it dosen't make me wonder if I'll ever have sex to give an example I'm someone who never thought I would hire a escort I'm a very shy person normally but I was glad I decided too

[boggboss]

Ofc she was nice lol she was doing a job that pays well to be nice

[mattissebfan5]

Not necessarily she could tell I was very nervous and calmed me down she was so kind hearted she was so nice

[boggboss]

Lol you clearly don't understand how to do good business in in her best intrest to ensure its a amazing time for u so u would either recommend her or become a recurring client

[mattissebfan5]

I understand that but I have mental illness and she was very sweet anyway

[boggboss]

Its not a bad thing that she was nice just understand she was nice because her job relies on her being nice the same way she treated u she will treat every other client dont confuse the feelings of her being nice because she liked you with her being a good business women

[mattissebfan5]

I know it she was doing her job but even after that she messaged me the next day asked how I was and even on Instagram I've messaged her and she asked how my mum was when I told her that she has neck issues

[boggboss]

That is nice of her but again don't mix feelings with business man it will just cause u heart ache

[mattissebfan5]

I never did I was completely fine I knew that

[boggboss]

Then sweet 👍🏽

[Titli1995]

That is not a reason to judge. If you enjoy it that's a good thing.

[DonkeyDan]

No I lost it the traditional way underage drunk and at a party.

[Archerer]

Great way to do it.

[mattissebfan5]

So did you

[Archerer]

I did not

[mattissebfan5]

Ok that's fine

[moviedude714]

One of my friends from middle school did something like that and he says no regrets

[disgustingweebtrash]

Nope. But more power to you, King. I hope you enjoyed yourself.

[mattissebfan5]

Yeah it was great thanks

[disgustingweebtrash]

You have q body that has the potential for this


Build yourself and become the prime version of you

[mattissebfan5]

Sorry what is a Q body

[disgustingweebtrash]

I meant to say "a body" but put q body instead Workout and become the greater version of yourself

[mattissebfan5]

Ok i get it

[EnglishEuropean]

If by escort you mean a prostitute, then yes. And it was strictly business.

[EaterPeter]

I think I did. Tons of fun.

[mattissebfan5]

You think?