Do you watching porn can scar you?

[Anonymous]

I think it can--- especially if you're a virgin and you have no sexual experience

[btbc92]

Firstly, let's make this very clear that pornography is a perversion, is mind rape, and is programming. It doesn't matter if you a virgin or not. Experienced or not, it is strictly pervertedness and wickedness. It is not sex, it is damaging to your mind and how you view yourself, others, and the opposite sex. It can ruin your marriage because marriage is about having sex. Sex should be pure and of innocent intent of the heart that can only be enjoyed by married couples. Porn ruins that innocent towards sex and it can damage your sexuality as a human being.

You also have to remember that not everybody is sensitive or easy to be desensitized to it. It is not an adult thing, nor it is just forbidden for children and underage to dabble it. It shouldn't be at ALL. It is truly sad how people don't realize the dangerous things it can do to impact them. Some do not care at all, others get sexually abused by this by their own partners or who they're dating, or even when married. You become harsh on yourself and who you're with because you're trying to imitate what is there. Not only that, what gets recorded in your mind becomes hard for you to unsee that. There are spiritual ramifications, marital consequences, and the list continues. What makes it worse, is people get addicted to it and cannot have any self-control. Best to avoid it, and run from men who do.

[Jayplays900]

You can watch porn and also be aware that it is all bullshit.

[btbc92]

@Jayplays900 No you cannot. Because every time you see a person you say you love. You're not showing her you. You showing her who you want to be in pornography. That's not love. That's your trying to show her a performance. You're just going to subconsciously do what you already saw. Or brain records things we react to. So unless you are made of steel, no, you cannot without not being tempted to perform what you saw. THAT is what makes it damaging.

[btbc92]

Because you're not showing her you, the real you. You are showing her another man. And this is why most women, married women especially end up cheating too. Not just because you prefer porn over her, but because she sees no point in returning to your bedroom. But then, you'll call her a whore.

[DonkeyDan]

I guess there are some people who might be traumatised by it but not everyone is going to have that reaction, I certainly wasn't traumatised by it and it didn't effect me in any way. Although back in my youth it wasn't everywhere on tap like it is today, and it was a bit special to get to see it, no internet back then to see it whenever you wanted to.

[Wise4myage]

I definitely think it can if a person becomes so obsessed it turns into an addiction.

[Luckycharms12]

Porn is faking it and annoying. Real sex with person you care about will be great