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Should you tell a guy you’re nervous before you have sex for the first time with him or is that weird?

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I’m not a virgin but every time I sleep with someone new I get super nervous that I almost don’t want to continue seeing them because it eventually leads to sex and I get so nervous. When I was younger I didn’t care at all but now I’m 27 and it’s crazy how nervous I get. I’ve been seeing someone and I know we will eventually sleep together soon so was wondering if it would be weird if I told him how nervous I am… he’s also 17 years older than me so I’m beyond nervous for a lot of reasons. Please help.
Should you tell a guy you’re nervous before you have sex for the first time with him or is that weird?
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