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Do u think its ok for a 16yo girl to have a 46yo boyfriend?

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  • As long as she uses 'common sense' protective measures regarding pregnancy and STD's... she must understand for BOTH of you, its a 'prestige' experience of MUTUAL use and there is a durational 'arc' ... NOT a lifetime commitment.

    For him, on the +, he hopefully will bring her GOOD physical & experiential experiences FAR in advance of her years to 'jade' and 'wisen' her. For HIM she's one hellova Hebephilic 'thrill ride' prestige... as saucy 'Arm Candy'.

    Eventually if the friendship wanes, he looks for 'fresh meat' to boost his waning Ego and she now 'worldly-wisened'... moves on... to potential genuine lasting relations borne of MUTUAL interests closer to her chronological age.

    She NOW possesses the real world insights & skills that 'pollyanna' Mommy & Daddy thought too 'naughty' to teach her in her early teens about the REAL World.

    Do u think its ok for a 16yo girl to have a 46yo boyfriend?

    Generally, those who're 'insightful'... can see this 'wisening' when you look deeply into her eyes. <3 ;)

    • Maybe for a 24 year old, but a 16 year old is waaaaay too young. This is statutory rape we are talking about. Having enough wherewithal and ability to make basic adult decisions like paying rent, drinking alcohol and the like is the most bare minimum prerequisite one could ask for before attempting to "gain wisdom" in that way.

    • @224466881010 Here, we must remember NOT to project the societal prejudicial 'norms' as of a 3rd party judgement upon what IS at least initially, a PRIVATE 'negotiation' between just TWO ageless Sentiences, presently controlling engendered 'meat suits' of differing physical maturity through which they experience and express their choices. I reference the real world case of Lina Medina of Peru in 1958, impregnated at 4 years 7 months of age who despite intense interrogation steadfastly REFUSED to identify her Lover. Her son, delivered by Caesarian section, was raised as her little brother. In those days and in that part of the world, forensic genetic DNA typing was FAR less available. Their societal observers are UNINVITED interlopers... imposing THEIR beliefs by threats of use of subsequent punitive sanctions from discovery. Hence, the overcast of the 'forbidden', ... the exciting 'naughtiness' of potential discovery~

    • No. Absolutely not ok. I'm just as interested in speculating and philosophizing the nature of the universe as you and I'm sorry, but you can't just abstract-away the fact that it's wrong to sexually interact with children and teenagers or chalk it up to just a completely arbitrary set of "societal prejudices" that aren't helpful here. There are very good reasons not to do so. Look at how much rationalization you had to go through to try to sweep the concept of "informed consent" under the rug. The huge objection and fear I have with your idea is that if you just say "we are all just abstract spiritual beings and age is just a construct" you make it ok to literally violate vulnerable people. Children and teens are fundamentally not fully aware of what is happening in reality and are often unable to defend themselves physically and against psychological/emotional manipulation and these events fuck up their minds sometimes for their whole life. And while we are at the "spiritual abstraction" game, wouldn't it then be justifiable to "free you from your earthly shackles" or "free you from your earthly possessions"? I have spoken to countless victims of sexual assaults in my lifetime and some of them have had severe negative impacts from those events even 60 years later. It took them that long to overcome their trauma. It's real and it causes enormous pain and suffering. There is also plenty of clinical and academic research to support this as well. It's not trivial. Not to mention that it's also physically dangerous. When teens and god-forbid children give birth, the health risks are substantially higher. Why can't people just fuck adults their age? Believing that children can give anything approximating consent in sexual interactions with fully developed adults is psychotic.

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  • Hell no! That is far too wide of an age gap. A 16 year old's life is just beginning, a 46 year old's life has already seen their trials and errors and they are pretty set in their ways. I'm 46 (my age on here is wrong and have not had a chance to fix it yet) and there is no way I would date any woman younger than 30. I had lived my live and done all the things I wanted to do by time I was 32. I am at a stage in life where I just want to settle in and plant my roots. Somebody who is 16 still has a lot to learn in life and still has a lot of life experiences to achieve before they are ready to get where I am at. 30 is my age limit... unless she is far more wiser beyond her years.

Most Helpful Girls

  • No, though I would put it the other way. It is not ok for someone at 46 to have a girlfriend/boyfriend that is only 16 years old. Taking advantage of that is disgusting and immoral. It is a teenager that is not thinking about consequences in the same was as an adult, so it is not really the fault of the teenager.

  • Well, in most states in US, she's not of legal age to be with a grownup. So it's him who's in trouble...

    I doubt you have much in common, do you?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • No that is called grooming of a minor

  • N ONO NOIts not alright. There's no reason to even ask this. It is wrong the 16 year old is a child and rhe 46 year old is an abusive pervert

  • I’m almost 27 and find younger girls attractive, but there is absolutely no chance I’d be able to relate enough to a 16 year old to want a relationship even if it were legal. Although it’s legal at 16-18 depending on the country, no emotionally mature man is going to seriously date someone that young unless they are extremely emotionally immature. You don’t want to be with someone who got to the age of 46 without maturing emotionally. Don’t give your heart or your body to people without testing them first. By being 46, this guy should have already failed the test. When your brain is fully developed around 25, you can consider going for much older men if that’s really what you’re into, but right now the power balance is way too far off. Just enjoy your life and friendships and learn to be happy with that for now. If you can love yourself you’ll find someone who is good for you when the time is right, and they sure as hell won’t be anywhere close to 46.

  • Absolutely not. A lot of countries are cool with the pedo shit but i ain't about it

  • Another fake pink account. They are having sex and multiplying.

    Do u think its ok for a 16yo girl to have a 46yo boyfriend?

    • Love the pink hair, lol.

    • And how do you exactly know if that's a dude with a fake pink account? You really think there are no pink trolls that really exist?

    • @Aiko_E_Lara A 16 year old girl and a 46 year old man is more of a guy question. IU don't think many 16 year old girls would be interested in a guy old enough to be her father.

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  • Stupid question. Nice try, officer. Even so, I'm sure that you snag a few guys willing to DM you and discuss it to set up a meeting, resulting in their arrest.

  • Oh hell No!!

  • Depending on the state or country in which this occurs, it may be extremely illegal, regardless of the girl's consent.

  • Fuck no. A 16 year old barely even understands reality and adult life, even if they're mature beyond their years. Arguably you don't understand until well into your 20's regardless of what the legal age of adulthood is.

    A 16 year old is just at such an emotional and mental health disadvantage and is vulnerable.

    What's a 46 year old even doing hitting on teenagers? This is a predator, make no mistake. A 46 year old should be ashamed of even trying.

    I mean no disrespect, but go do your homework instead. For real, you'll be much better off. It's hard not to judge immediately, but the probability of this guy not being a total scumbag are comically slim and I even consider myself open minded. Most would say 0% just for trying to hit on a 16 year old.

  • For myself, I think it is ok

    • Same

    • @Justaguy30 nice

  • No. That's a minor and someone well into adulthood.

  • The obvious answer is no a 46 yo boyfriend is old enough to be her father.

    • That would be like a 30 year old man having sex with a 1 year old.

  • Creepy new account, but whatever..
    I would think it was about money for her and young model for him. Whatever makes a person happy I suppose.

    • Agreed. Totally fine tbh.

  • In a Muslim country...

  • Legality aside it seems like some major mental insecurities will be needed by both of them to even consider such a thing. And while they are together neither will be healing that insecurity - just covering it up.

  • I'm gonna have to put a big no on that one

  • It certainly isn't ok.

  • While it's legal it's weird and just wrong, and honestly it would only be about sex, it's unlikely they would have an emotional connection.

  • Very wrong on his part. He can very easily manipulate her with his life experience and authority. We condem this for a reason.

  • No I don't. 21 sure.

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