My boyfriend wants me to wear a school girl outfit in bed but the thought of doing so makes me uncomfortable. How do I talk to him about this?

[Boss_Bjtch]

[SueShe]

That is a big issue because those guys that want and sometimes coerce their girlfriend to dress as schoolgirls are toxic people.

We all associate the picture of a school girl as a child, thus a minor and that is where the problem lies. Your boyfriend has this kink or fetish to have sex with a child and there is a name for that type of sexual deviance. Even though you are not a child anymore, the thought of him having sexual intercourse with someone dressed as a minor is enough to create a conflict because such kind of sexual acts are reprehensible.

The only way to get out of this situation is to talk sense into your boyfriend and tell him that you don't agree because of the conflict you see. If he fails to understand, then he is not the right person for you.

[Boss_Bjtch]

Thanks for the advice!

[IveGotNoName]

I'm guessing he's in his thirties or late twenties. I understand why you are uncomfortable about this, you are both supposed to be mature adults, and he wants you to essentially dress like a child, explain to him why it makes you uncomfortable. Tell him you don't want to do it, and if he doesn't accept that, I would be sort of perplexed.

[Boss_Bjtch]

My boyfriend is in his early 30’s. How did you guess?

[IveGotNoName]

Just thought that maybe he was around your age, but he could have been older or younger I guess, just took a chance

[Cro_Laura]

Be open to him. Tell him how you feel about it.

[Boss_Bjtch]

Do you think I should do it?

[Cro_Laura]

Dress up as school girl. No if you don't feel comfortable I don't think so. Talking to him? Yes. He needs to understand how you truly feel about it and that you can't do stuff like thay cuz your uncomfortable with it.

[ushagomez]

In a small cute high pitched voice?

[rachel776]

i do it makes them happy. i won't do extreme or gross stuff in fact i'll just get rid of the guy cuz they'll never stop pestering about it

[Anonymous]

Be open about it with him and tell h that you don't feel comfortable you can also suggest something else that might be a substitute that might work for both of you.

[Boss_Bjtch]

I am willing to wear almost anything else