Is it irrational to find sex with strangers PHYSICALLY disgusting?

[marish01]

I'm not talking about the moral aspect. I did capitalize PHYSICALLY for a reason.

Is it weird to find the idea of touching/kissing a stranger PHYSICALLY disgusting?

What disgusts me about it
They might be sweaty. They might be fresh out of the toilet. They might smell. They might just have sex with another person.
Even kissing them sounds gross. You don't know where their tongue was minutes ago. Not to mention about oral sex. Another person might have performed oral on them or just has sex.
Or when a woman/man has another one night stand at the same night without taking a bath after the first one.
Guys! Would you not mind "tasting" some saliva and sperm?
Girls! Would you not mind "tasting" some saliva and vagina lube?
Or the idea of having sex without a condom. Bearing a STRANGER man's sperm in you... ewww

I am curious if you could have sex with a woman in whom minutes ago another man exploded or a man who has been in a woman's pussy and ASS.
Would you suck him off without knowing where his dick has been?

[lightbulb27]

it's disgusting and rational. yuck.

but people on drugs aren't thinking. lacking control over emotions leads to all sorts of upheaval... and those hormones are driving the underlying desires... chemical messengers. the emotional training has to apply the boundaries... and may in itself, be where the flaws are.

the sperm doesn't have a brain... but yet it finds it's object of desire, and works til death to find it's way in, where it is sucked in... and consumed in a liquidy mess, to be reborn again! No logic involved... chemistry. Can get really messed up though.

the difference may be in how in control people are emotionally. They aren't thinking rationally. The more damage, the worse it is. I can say I made bad choices I'd not do again, for the wrong emotional reasons. All rooted in emotional flaws... hopelessness, fear, shame, selfishness. Not love, peace joy, self respect, dignity. Be careful what emotions are in control.

[litty]

Yeah, it's pretty alarming what people will do for drugs.

[Jlegacy]

I truly love where your brain is at. These are salient questions which should smarten any casual sex chaser.
Best to find the woman or man from God and get hitched to them. Personally I can't kiss rn a girl another man has kissed. My girl has never kissed a man or even been touched by any man.

[yofuknutz]

My man you have scored

[Jlegacy]

Thanks man and yes. Grateful to God absolutely

[yofuknutz]

Pray to be Jesus a good wife is worth as much as rubles Ruby's or something it's in the Bible.

"Who can find a virtuous wife? For her worth is far above rubies."
Proverbs 31:10 NKJV

https://bible.com/bible/114/pro.31.10.NKJV

[Jlegacy]

Yes her worth is far above rubies. Excellent Chief❤️

[yofuknutz]

Yeah let the bank keep that ruby bulshit, great pussy and a lady is FAR better. U don't want to be EVER in my shoes, why do U think I'm on here.

[Jlegacy]

Your choice man. No qualms.

[yofuknutz]

^^^ every choice seems like gold until until you do foolish things like join this site and then stay on this site and these are all choices as foolish as they might be. Lol 😆 🤣 😂

[Jlegacy]

I won't say being on here is a foolish choice. Depends on what you do in here.

[yofuknutz]

Yeah that's what I think makes a foolish choice being on here

[Jlegacy]

Thanks for the MHO

[Azura_88]

Hell no! It's totally logical, reasonable and only those who are ANIMALS will find it irrational because they're as dirty as pigs.
Before giving an oral, I'll make sure that my future husband has washed his parts, brushed his teeths and has taken a shower.

[Anonymous]

I 100% agree with you

I'm still a virgin, but i perceive sex to be an animalistic invasion of my personhood. As a female, having to assume the passive-vulnerable position disturbs my ego. This is beyond just imagining touching their body fluids.

[yofuknutz]

Where get you from Brooklyn

[purplepoppy]

So basically you've three choices, work colleagues, incest or strangers. Most people lean towards strangers for moral reasons.

[marish01]

Because it is impossible to get to know them before sex?

[yofuknutz]

But you should absolutely get to know them before they start to release bodily fluids into you

[Jamie05rhs]

@marish01 Yes; you get to know them first. But I think @purplepoppy was joking. (I hope.)

[ChrisMaster69]

Nope that’s fairly normal and nothing wrong with your thinking.

[Bobsyoruncle]

Our hostess wrote...

***Or the idea of having sex without a condom. Bearing a STRANGER man's sperm in you... ewww***

That was part of the thrill for BOTH of the women I’ve been married to, lol!

[marish01]

Married. You said married right?

[Bobsyoruncle]

Yes, ‘married’. I would have no interest in marrying a woman who wouldn’t cuckold me. And I have no interest in having intercourse with other women. I’m a cuckold right down to the molecular level, M. My mother cuckold her husband by copulating with his brother. (my biological father) One man’s trash is another man’s treasure.

[sumayathemagi]

If you aren’t sexually attracted to stranger you are demisexual.
Most people are sexually attracted to stranger, basic biology.

[marish01]

I fall in love at first sight

[sumayathemagi]

Love at first sight is a concept. There is only two attraction. Sexual and romantic. If sexual attraction is absent at the first sight then you are demisexual as like majority of women.

[marish01]

So am I demisexual if I fall in love at first sight?

[sumayathemagi]

If you don’t feel sexual attraction at the first sight you are demisexual.

[marish01]

I fall in love. Is that not sexual attraction?

[sumayathemagi]

It’s romantic orientation. There I am romantic asexual. I thought you are educated, you are such a troll.

[EmbraceThePain]

Totally not irrational.


That’s why I always advise getting to know people so they become more than just strangers.


You get to know their habits, mannerisms, cleanliness, etc.

[Aurora1010]

No because you have a right to feel that way and I feel a kind of similar way

[DonkeyDan]

I've never thought of all of those things, I mean I usually get to know them at least as much as to not call them a stranger anymore but one night stands have never been an issue for me.

[20yearsolder]

I guess it depends on the stranger, if I'm physically attracted to her, then no I don't find it disgusting at all

[Cherry234]

I don't blame you. You don't know who those people are. I wouldn't want to have sex with a stranger

[yofuknutz]

The irony with your name pure irony in reference to this conversation

[FR_Ruby]

This should be the normal.

[ADFSDF1996]

For women it’s normal since women aren’t as visual as men are when it comes to physical attraction. Since women are the ones who get pregnant, they aren’t the ones constantly seeking sex.

[marish01]

I'm very visual

[ADFSDF1996]

Does a man showing off his abs get you “excited down there”? If not, then you are probably not as visual as you think.

[marish01]

I appreciate the way it looks

[yofuknutz]

I like your juicy lips

[ADFSDF1996]

@marish01 That doesn’t answer the question. Liking the way someone’s body looks doesn’t imply arousal.

[yofuknutz]

Interesting point he had your there Marsha Marsha

[TurningGraves]

I think that’s what keeps me from being a slut. jkjk

[Gwenhwyfar]

I don’t agree with you but it’s not weird

[marish01]

You don't agree that they might have sex before you minutes ago?

[Gwenhwyfar]

Unlikely they couldn’t get hard again thst fast plus most guys aren’t that successful to get laid twice in one night

[marish01]

Okay an hr ago. They still didn't take a bath. Then let's talk about the guys who are succesful lol Would you go down on them knowing they have had sex before you an hr ago?

[Gwenhwyfar]

If I felt in the mood sure. Vaginal wetness isn’t dirty.

[marish01]

Other women's is fine for you to taste? Are you sure they don't have any VD?

[marish01]

What about anal sex? Maybe he was in her anus? Would you perform oral on him? Or maybe he peed an hr ago? Is that clean for you?

[Gwenhwyfar]

I don’t hook up anymore but tbh when I did the odds of the guy having had sex an hour before were so low I just took my chances.

[Gwenhwyfar]

You’re grossing me out lol But tbh I just didn’t think about this stuff. U need to put it out of your mind and just go have fun. Otherwise ur gonna get a boyfriend and be worrying Did he pee an hour before we did this?

[marish01]

How were you sure you were the first one

[marish01]

Those things gross me out lol. I am curious if I am the only one who thought those things 😄. But I guess sucking your man's dick after he peed can't be grosser than sucking a STRANGER'S dick who was in a woman's pussy or ass an hr ago. You might taste her odor. 🤢

[marish01]

Smell* lol

[Gwenhwyfar]

I wasn’t sure. But then the odds of a guy getting laid twice in one night are so slim (it’s so rare pro athletes put it in their biographies when it happens to them) that I just didn’t worry about it.

[marish01]

Are those odds for women slim too?

[Gwenhwyfar]

Most guys don’t get anal on a regular basis. They sure af don’t get it from me. But seriously. Dw bout this. The odds of a guy getting laid twice in one night are so rare it’ll probably never happen to you. Plus wetness tastes good anyway.

[Gwenhwyfar]

No. A girl can get laid twice in one night if she wants but most don’t want to.

[marish01]

Other women's wetness tastes good? What if they have odor? You can't say men can get twice or not or get anal or not from your own experience. But if a woman can get laid twice then it sucks for men who will sleep with them

[Gwenhwyfar]

True

[VDrago14]

Not at all, it's something that clearly doesn't do it for you and so there is nothing wrong with that

[bubbakong2006]

Yeah actually I would enjoy if she was full of cum from another man nothing like licking that pussy and putting my cock in that cum filled pussy makes us both cum hard

[exitseven]

Everybody had different ideas as to what they like.

[JosyJosy]

No I can see that. It certainly isn't for everyone

[marish01]

I asked this question because articles that talk about the cons of sex with random people they don't mention the physically disgust part

[yofuknutz]

Are the clothes don't want to cause too much controversy they lose sponsorship of money

[yofuknutz]

articles not clothing stupid voice over

[FilmGuy93]

That doesn't sound irrational to me?

[Hangry06]

Most people find it disgusting. Normal

[chriscdi]

Yea it's a big percentage in reason of why I haven't had sex yet, and being in a tropical party city doesn't even out my odds