We have been together 1 year and 2 months now, and we had sex a lot of times. But every time we had sex, it was me who initiated it by touching her or kissing or something, and every time she refuses it and the beginning but then she just plays along. I am already sick of her never initiating it. I stopped touching her and do anything sexual just to see how she will react. We didn't have sex for more than 3 weeks now. Is it me or?