Sounds to me like she just doesn’t have much of a sex drive. It may not be you. Some women struggle with sexuality due to depression or anxiety, low self-esteem, poor body image, or prior sexual abuse or assault. It could even be a hormonal issue. If she’s affectionate with hugs and kisses, then she must like you. It’s probably time to sit down with her and discuss the issue in a calm non-judgmental way. You’ve been together over a year, so communication should not be awkward. Just tell her what you’ve noticed and how it makes you feel and see what her response is. She’s the only one who can help you understand this.
I debated on giving an opinion as I hate delivering bad news.
Sounds like she has lost interest. If she doesn’t initiate intimacy every, that is a bad sign.
its not like there is no interest from her side, she hugs me a lot, kisses me a lot , says that she loves and actually show that with her action, but when it comes to bed stuff, she just doesn't show anything, it was like that since day 1 but i only noticed that lately
Ok, thank you for the clarification. Whew, this puts my mind at ease a bit. May I ask something personal? Is she using birth control? I will explain after I see your response. Don’t feel obligated to share that information.
she doesn't use any kind of birth control, we didn't even use condom a single time, we are rellying on pull-out method and so far it worked xD. anyway, i asked her should we use condom for just in case, but she doesn't want because sex is better, i agree.
From your conversation with @PrettyPriya is does sound like she just isn't a sexual person and just has a low libido. I have dated 2 girls just the same. The choice you have to make is are you ok with that or not.
i guess you are right, i will have to deal with that
It's her. If she's refusing you return you should what it and find a partner that wants you.
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i didn't bring that up yet, i dont know how she will react. i mean i don't want her to think that i am with her only because of sex. i mean sex isn't most important thing in relationship, but it is important.
Blood its your relationship any worrys should should be able to talk to your partner about this is not even about sex its intimacy its completely reasonable
Maybe she's asexual
once we talked about exes, and she even told me of how much they had sex, so i guess she isn't asexual. i wouldn't feel that way if she didn't told me those stuff.
Oh then i guess she lost interest or maybe she was never interested physically
No she is like that so you'll have to find someone else. The sad thing is someday she'll find someone she is wild in bed with.
ask her
Sounds like it's been easy for you to get a girlfriend for most of your life
how did you assume that xd
Just a guess based on how young you sound
I think she have a problem
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