How do you f*** a cup but can’t f*** your wife?

So hubby was able to go out in the woods in his truck and do a semen sample to check his sperm but can’t get it up when we go out in the woods in his truck and try. I don’t understand. I realize I’m mad and not being supportive right now but I just can’t see any reason why. I don’t understand. Why does he get so nervous doing stuff? I don’t get it
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  • Wow you are still married to him and he still can’t get it up? Have you cheated on him yet lol How you going this long not getting your world rocked , He had plenty of time to get his shit fixed , Sounds like there is more going on then just ED , I don’t want to sound mean but It sounds like he isn’t sexually attracted to you, He probably has some weird fetish or kink that turns him on for him to be able to jizz in a cup with no problem , so he isn’t telling You something , you honestly should really reconsider staying in a marriage with someone that can’t please you , it’s ok to love someone and to let them go , doesn’t mean you have to be with them if you aren’t being fulfilled , it’s not fair to you to be sexually deprived , if he really valued you he would of did what he had to do to rock your world , You honestly gave him plenty of time so it’s ok for you to throw in the towel on this one and move on , you being frustrated and sexually deprived is not good for your health , being stressed out that your man can’t satisfy you is not good for you , you are only hurting
    Yourself by standing by him , life is too short to not be satisfied , so it’s ok for you to move on cuz honestly moving on is probably going to be your best option at this time , shit happens and life goes on , you should never feel deprived in a relationship. You are a human and you have feelings and wants also , so if that’s not being fulfilled it’s time to move on , I know it sounds selfish but really it isn’t , it’s selfish that your man hasn’t got this shit fixed after all this time and selfish of him to tell you to wait around , you got to put your foot down on this one and move on. You are only hurting yourself

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  • I think that it's because you intimidate and dominate him, ignoring his feelings. I've read some of your other questions, and, to me, it sounds like you can be so demanding of him that you toe the line of being verbally abusive.

    If your profile picture is really of you, he's a very lucky man to have such a beautiful wife. But you've got to show some kindness when you run the show.

    Okay, I'm going to say something perverted here. When is the last time that you took his penis out or you asked him to take it out, and you just sat together, watching TV (or a fire in the hearth) and you just slowly played with it and touched it and loved it? Remember, the little guy pretty much is a "Mini Me." How we feel about our penises is how we feel about ourselves. Stop rushing. Quiet your biological clock's alarm. Just enjoy each other without applying pressure.

    • I tried to but cannot DM you. Please feel free to reach out.

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  • Damn, the tree must have a better crotch than you.

    How do you f*** a cup but can’t f*** your wife?
    • Girl 😂😂😂😂

    • Tree has an FP

    • And I bet there has been a guy that tried to put his dick in it!

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  • You need to be able to set your emotions aside (and NOT get angry no matter what), and have an open, no-judgement conversation with him, or you have no chance of ever getting an answer. If you judge him and get angry with him in the moment - even if you don't mean it - he's never going to open up to you and tell you the truth. You wouldn't in his position.

  • Just because he was able to cum into a cup doesn't mean he was erect. People who have ED are still able to produce semen and orgasm

  • Why did he go in the woods to do that? Is there a semen test facility under a tree out there? Why didn't you grab his dick and get the sample yourself? I would rather have my wife do the deed than me doing it. Much more fun!

  • Fear of intimacy?
    he's affraid of something.

    What was his experience with his mother at a young age?
    And why isn't he out here asking these questions?

  • My first question is, why did he go into the woods in his truck to produce a semen sample? I mean, can't he do that at home?

    Anyway, I wonder what his medical issues are. If he needs his semen checked, perhaps there are some underlying medical issues that need to be addressed.

  • Why are you going in his truck to the woods to fuck?
    Getting angry with him is a guaranteed way to make things worse.

  • How long have you been married? How long has it been like this? Any children?

  • Ummm thats new

  • My suggestion to mention to him, to see a therapist on your marriage and sex life almost any therapist could sit down and help you figure things out

  • Just suck him hard and fuck his cock anyways

  • I can't say, I would have no issues with you though, so it's not you. It must be something he is going through.

  • Maybe because he has a wife who gives him shit for it.

  • Maybe anxiety or something, should try couples counseling or communicate

  • Have you guys looked into marriage counseling and/or consulting with a doctor about erectile dysfunction medication?

  • What does ejaculating has to do with having a quality erection?

    Sometimes my johnson don't get up as much and I still manage to cum.😳🙆

    • Now, seriously. It was always like that? Or something that you noticed overtime? I suggest couple therapy with a certified sexologist.

  • Just remember , it is not you! this is all shit that is in his head. And metal stuff is easily made sense of. You are a good woman, being mad is natural, but be understanding. Encourage him to get help.

  • I'm sorry you guys are having problems. Do you argue and fight a lot? Performance anxiety? Maybe he's worried about satisfying you or something else. Talk to each other, see what's going on. I wish you the best of luck.

  • Wow, sorry about that. That is a question for a professional therapist.

  • You're simply not making him comfortable in that situation. That's the only change there.

  • Well, if you got that kind of attitude with him, no wonder he can't get it up.

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