Do you watch porn with your boyfriend/ girlfriend. Husband/wife?

[Titlover01]

[Sangita93]

Naturally everybody is curious about how other people - somebody is enjoying sex, and have hidden desire to watch them enjoying sex. Watching porn is usually a part to satisfy this curiosity and desire.

Yes I do watch them occasionally with my husband and read erotica together, but never watch them alone. It is a part of Happy and Healthy Sex-life In our Marriage.

Actually porn is a very wide term and can refer to all kinds of sexual fetishes that come and go but today, porn is getting more and more closer to reality. Whether it is healthy to watch porn together or not depends on what they like to watch. If they are setting wrong expectations through porn or are using it as a visual stimulant because they find reality grimmer, it may not be the best thing to do. Watching porn together always led to opening of the conversation that made us understand our sexual interests better. Initially we both were hesitating on thought of watching them and asking to watch porn was embarrassing to voice out our choices. We had started with something easy and small – pictures in anatomy textbooks because it was not something outrageous, and then book on KAMSUTRA on web for different sexual position. Now we both understand what we liked and disliked.

Occasionally we are using them as a part of foreplay and it always helps us to get in the mood more easily and it follows into amazing sex for both. Every year two or three times we take a break from it for months to keep away from habit-forming.

Our occasional watching porn together opens the door to bringing up other novel ideas and so it is usually a learning lesson and fun, so now we do not shy and do not have any pressure to say the right things. There is no such thing as “one size fits all”, but we try to get on the same page about what kind of porn would be enjoyable for both of us. Usually we watch porn with an element of romance. Being familiar with each other’s likes and dislikes it helps us to find material that we both are into. The key to enjoying porn with life partner is to focus more on him (or me for him). Our words and actions are the main focus of our excitement and desire.

Focusing on the intimacy and romance of the moment is the key to connecting with each other while we watch porn. To make it sexy, we play with each other’s body parts and make out along the way, stay connected and in tune with each other, but we never compare our self with porn stars on the screen. One more key to pleasure in watching porn with life partner ultimately comes down to one thing: “honesty”. It helps us to open the door of open communication and it also leads to greater relationship satisfaction.

[QueenTaly]

It's fun to

[Titlover01]

Oh I’m sure it is. I’ve always wanted to do it

[summiter]

My wife and I watch it from time to time. We both get naked first and it always leads to a lot of great sex!

[DonkeyDan]

I have done, it all depends if they are into it or not.

[Shreya_bj_Shiry]

Sometimes

[Titlover01]

Good girl.

[Titlover01]

What is your favorite category?

[qwert1234]

One of my ex, yes.
The last one was grossed out by it.

[es20490446e]

Nope.

[Andres77]

Not often but we do look for inspiration on occasion.

[Twalli]

We've only done it occasionally, usually we have sex

[Sampan2017]

No alone

[Anonymous]

Yes, regularly.

[Anonymous]

We do all the time.

[Anonymous]

Once in a while

[YalancıBahar]

Which types topics do you like?