How does it feel like to be sexually desired?

[Anonymous]

I'd really want to know what it feels like to be sexy to someone. I think I can look pretty good if I'm dressed up to go out with friends but we never really go out to meet new people, so I'm not sure if anyone has ever seen me as sexy or attractive really. I have no experience in dating so I'm clueless when it comes to this.

What does it feel like when someone finds you sexy to you guys? Can you sense when someone finds you attractive? Do people treat you a certain way? Does it boost you confidence? I'm hopelessly clueless so I'd love to hear your experiences. Do you like feeling sexy?

[Twalli]

I don't think you can feel if someone finds you sexy. I guess if you find out a guy is hard for you or masturbated to you then you're sexually desired. If you find that out please don't take it as offensive, it mrsnd you're sexually desired

[SamFromFL]

Feeling desired is a great feeling and is motivating. It’s often that look in someone’s eyes or messages they send and you can sense their energy. It’s something you should feel and I enjoy it.

[Asker]

How do I tell when someone's looking at me in that way? I'm super oblivious and if someone has seen me as desirable I definitely haven't noticed it. I just assume people are nice in general so I have no clue.

[SamFromFL]

For the most part guys are less subtle than girls and if a guy desires you he will take action and make it known what he wants to do with you. If someone hasn’t done this yet you may need to work on your body to become more attractive.

[Asker]

In the past 2 years I lost 10 kg and have a bmi of 19 now. I also have an hour glass figure and I feel more confident with my body. I fear that I maybe give off a very shut in vibe as a person though. Maybe my personality is just a bit too shy.

[SamFromFL]

Confidence is attractive to everyone so it you do feel shut in that will have some affect on how others see you. Good job on losing weight as a healthy body is key to being more in demand. Guys are very visual so have you had guy friends give you more compliments or tell you that your body looks better?

[Asker]

One of them noticed that I lost a bit of weight but that's all. Nothing changed about his behavior outside of that one comment. Which is fine of course I don't expect anything else from him. But over all I feel like I might be repelling guys with my body language and shyness

[SamFromFL]

In terms of body language if you are confident it will be more open and you can even flirt with touch. Girls who smile, have open language, and are touchy feely are more attractive as they signal it’s no intrusion to touch them back and pay attention to them. You can observe others do this or watch your friends who get attention. If you want feedback on your look I’ll be honest with you.

[Anonymous]

I don't have to get dressed up to be desired in fact I have to really look dumpy to get guys not to notice me. It gets very tiring but it is always nice to know I have it and can use it any time I want.

[exitseven]

It is pretty friggin awesome, especially if you know you are not that good looking.

[magiusX26]

am a straight guy so would not know how being desired like that feels.

[VikingWarLord]

Show pics of yourself or GTFOH!

We have to see you in order to know if you're sexually attractive

[convo_king89]

Feel good and an confidence/ego booster.

[Caliguy88]

Depends on who. Lol. I hate when people like me I don’t like in return. I feel bad. But when I like someone and they want me, nothing better.

[2021biguy]

I'm sure you would feel special when someone thinks you are sexy :)

[CubaPirate]

The bulge in our pants is often a give away

[kareka]

All girls are sexy
Every girl got her point..
You should know it by the way

[hakangirer]

vetmry nice 😍😍