Men shouldn't cum first?

In my opinion, they shouldn't. Women should cum first because if we cum wen can keep going but if the guy cums then sex is over or a pause is needed for him to recharge. 🙄 To be honest, any man that really appreciates a woman should want her to cum before him and would look for ward to make her cum in first place. He will cum, he won't leave without his prize, just make it fun, don't rush it.
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  • This is why every man should learn to eat pussy and love doing it. Myself, there's nothing else I'd rather be doing. For myself, eating pussy is better than intercourse, better than getting a blowjob, better than anything. I love feeling her squirm and having her thighs tighten around my head, hearing her soft moans. It's the first thing I do to a woman when we get together, after foreplay of course. But I can't wait to get between those legs. But in so doing she always cums first because I've become pretty damn good at it over the years. After that we can have intercourse if she likes. But not until I worship that tasty nectar she's got between her legs. This solves the problem.

    • True, i haven't been with men who trully loved eating pussy and its a shame and unfair bc I love sucking dick. Also, I would love to have sex with a man on his 40s... y'all know how to take care of a woman and tend to be less selfish 🤤

    • I don't know that most of us have the stamina for a 21 year old. That's the one downside of older men from your perspective. Most of us would give it a try though if we're honest. But seriously, men your own age should step up and learn to be more givers than receivers. You shouldn't have to go back a generation to get what you need.

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  • some women are one and done too lol. but i agree that women should always cum first and second and at least 3rd before i even pull my 9”long 🍆 out so for my big dick to fit and feel good i gotta get her pussy full, open and wet lol fore play is very important for women who are based sexually on tension buildup and release paying full attention to her reactions to understand what areas are either pleasing with the right pressure and Rhythm, too intense, or not stimulating at all lol. so yes men should enjoy making women cum by any means needed so i completely agree.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I want him to cum first. When i know he's cumming, i instantly cum. And i like a man who can cum again and again. I've met many who recharged within 5 mins or less and could still fo several rounds. My kinda man

  • I agree especially if it’s love making a man should allow a woman to cum first especially for pleasure and stimulation. I will cum with a guy and it’s great if he can let me cum first.

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  • Oh,, I totally agree with you!!! Me, I love being completly submissive to a woman. I love it when she uses me to achieve multiple orgasms. I love it when I have to ask for permission to cum. That way she can have as many orgasms as she wants before allowing me to cum. I like it when she decides when and where.

  • I agree. The man's job is to take care of the woman and make sure she's satisfied before he cums. Men need to focus on the women's needs at the beginning of the encounter, and not wait until the end - especially if they aren't able to last very long.

  • Okay, what are you doing to cum faster? If you're so determined to see it through in this one specific way (PIV is not the only form of sex), what positive actions are you taking to make that happen? Or are you just putting all the onus on him to do things differently?

  • Yeah, that’s one valid way to have sex. If a woman comes first, she’s also more likely to have more orgasms later, which is amazing.

    Just remember that not all sex is about orgasms and people love different things. Let’s just discuss what we like and need.

    When I’m with a new girl and we didn’t discuss in detail what she needs, I will plan to get her come first. That usually guarantees a nice time. But the best sex comes when you know each other and what we both want.

  • I agree. Sadly more women care more about pleasing their man than their self. :(

  • I think just go with the flow - as long as you are both totally into each other, I don't care who cums first. Actually I very often find we cum together :)

  • I totally agree. In my experience once they cum they tend to lose desire.

  • If you're close enough and like he person enough, this isn't really a problem fron either side... i mean its literally proof that you just caused the person massive amounts of pleasure. As long as nobody is selfish about it I don't know how its a problem for either person to finish early

  • I agree totally, I have always been one to give her an orgasm first, and try to give her several before I allow myself to cum. Besides, It allows me the pleasure of giving her lots of oral which I love to do!

  • if he comes first just because he can't hold it, i think that just makes me feel even better lmao as long as he does something else to make you cum i think its fine

  • I strictly agree with what you think.
    And it's also the fact.

  • i like when a guy cums fast and then we do it slow the second time

    • Yea I usually can’t wait to long it feels so good I cum quick , but after that your right the second time nice and slow with a lot of forplay and eating her pussy till she’s horny and I can last a lot longer and give her a lot more pleasure love to see my women happy then I cum xtra hard the second time usually when she cums I can’t hold back hearing her cum but everyone is different nice to also hear a womens view on these things

  • I always try to get the girl to cum first...

  • It’s So HARD Not To CUM First & if she’s really foxy the juices explode out of my sausage.

  • And I couldn't agree more with you.

    It actually takes me a long time to be able to cum from oral. Even at that, I do greatly enjoy it so much better when she does it softly and very slowly.

    As for with intercourse, Quickies are fun at times, though most of the time we do that very slowly as well. And often when I do get very close, we will stop with the thrusting, her using only her muscles to cause stimulation, or we will change positions.

  • Yes I agree! I would rather her cum many times before I cum! I know I did my job if she would cum before me! Than I can fill her with my hot load of cum!!

  • It depends. If my partner can climax from intercourse them I will delay climax until she is finished. If she is unable to climax from intercourse, but needs more direct stimulation, then I will finish first and then gives her whatever she needs -- manual, portal, or maybe a vibrator.

  • Real men make sure their partner is satisfied before finishing.

  • Why, I always wanted to get tag team, Mmmm ;)

  • I always tried to eat her pussy first, then tongue fuck her, and then with my penis.

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