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Help me please with this?

Okay so I do not think this is common and therefor a little weird. But i am 19 years old and i realized how i get very upset and almost jealous and angry (!) at seeing pregnant woman and woman who get a baby. I do wanna have a baby so badly too and somehow feel competition because I wanna be the ONLY woman who is pregnant. I know very weird? But i also feel like i have an exteme breeding and pregnancy fetish. My biggest fear in life is ending up without an husband and childless!! Also just getting to see a newborn makes me go crazy because i wanna be the one holding it and touching it. It looks so incredibly cute the tiny body and hands and feets that i almost need to cry.
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Superb Opinion

  • You need to get a job taking care of children (not alone, but with experienced caregivers). That will give you plenty of experience with the realities of children (which is good and bad, like most things in life), and will help relieve some of the pressure that you're feeling.

    Having children is fine, but that doesn't make you a MOM, so get a job where you can learn how to be a good mom, so you can be prepared for the time when you DO have a child of your own.

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  • Hard to relate to being a dude, but probably not super uncommon for women. It's a natural biological drive... our existence sorta depends on it!

    But obviously you don't want it to become an unhealthy obsession. Might be a good idea to talk to a professional... a therapist or counselor or whatever. Just talking things out with the help of a pro can make a big difference without much effort.

    • No i can't open up about this to therapist who i hardly know but thank you

    • I would feel very uncomfortable but thank you

    • That's why they're "professionals" - it's not like talking to the chick cutting your hair or the dude serving you breadsticks at olive garden. Just an idea though, there's definitely other ways to deal.

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  • Yea that is a fetish. But its fine we all have them at some point. Honestly tho their will come a time when you find someone whose for you and you get to have kids

  • What kind of help are you wanting?

    • Just tell me your opinion and what has crossed your mind while teading this?

    • Well are you in a relationship? Do you have a job that would effectively provide for you and a baby if you were to be a single mom? I like breast milk, especially from the source. I wonder about what your family life was like as a kid. Do all of those things make you horny?

    • Unfortunately not have never had a boyfriend but i really eish i had one but i probably never ever will

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  • You're 19, you have time

  • And I caught a bunch of shit for posting about women lying about using birth control.

  • You need to meditation yourself, make sure that one day you must be a mother don't worry about it. Now it the time to lead your teenage age and enjoy yourself. 👌🤘

    • I will never sadly that would be too much of an privilege i do not deserve

    • I do not deserve this luck and being happy i dont it would be like winning in the lottery why would i deserve my drram becoming true?

    • You are just 19, you have lots of time to birth a baby, just control your mind, to become a mama is not a matter of jock, first prepared yourself and focus on your future. Hope for your best 👍💯.

  • Doesn't sound all that uncommon.

    • A lot of girls your age start having a strong desire to have a baby. especially if they see friends starting to have them.

  • Ohhh baby its allright slow down

  • being a mother is a natural desire in women, find a good man to marry

  • Baby love, how can I help you?

    • Are you calling me baby love or is the phenomenon so called baby love lol?

    • Baby love

    • didn't you got my question?

  • You have the baby fever bad. Either it will subside once you have your first child to a more manageable level or you'll end up like the Duggers with 25 kids. Your best bet is to find someone who is either Catholic or Mormon and marry him. They tend to want larger families.

  • Hi I feel exactly the same when I see a pregnant woman and I just wish I could get a girlfriend and start a family just to have a child of our own


    Dm me if you want?

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