Does anything turn you on that you're ashamed of? If so what is it (Anon if you want)?

[Avcfhcic]

[ZDoes]

I'm favorite-ing this question and following. Brilliant.

To the point.
I recently discovered I've a thing for pee. Didn't know I had it. Was surfing on porn hub and came across a scene. And there it was, tripped trigger. Had no clue. Wasn't expecting it. Never had anything but the obligatory expected mild revulsion to the idea of it. But there it was golden rain from above and it's turning me on. Have been able to engage in a little experimentation and it's an in the moment kind of kink. Fun in moderation.
Can't really say I'm ashamed of it though. I've had my "not the only one" moment. And shame is such a slimey tool of manipulative intent generally used by people without the guts to go there, contempt prior to investigation.
Remember guilt and shame are different. The former an emotion of self assessment involving behavior and teaching tool regarding self regulation.
The later: the imposition of another's judgment about you.
Shame must be accepted by you in order to be effective. Fear of being unaccepted by the institution or individual constitutes the bulk of the motivation for accepting this judgment of another. It is always completely optional 100%. You are never required to accept the shame thrust upon you by outside influence. This atrocious tool has ruined lives. And is often used in the name of love. I highly recommend that you steer clear and as far away from those that rely upon it for control of others as is humanly possible. They cannot be trusted because these people and institutions will do unto you " for your own good". As if they actually had a say in what "your good" is or looks like or the activities involved in what's "good" for you. The only ones to ever have that actual right were your parents. So I'd ask you... how old are you? Remember this the next time someone trys to shame you.

[Cnlngler]

Yeah, painful anal.. I watch painful anal videos and they turn me on but I would do to my wife because I don't like to hurt her or pushing something that she doesn't enjoy.

[Avcfhcic]

Painal I've watched and it's weirdly good. But anal in general is a turn on for me too!

[Anonymous]

To be fair it's not that I'm ashamed to admit it but rather extremely worried and nervous to admit what I'm into as I've had guys in the past call me an absolute freak and not in a good way. Then even when I do find a guy who's open to those things I'm too scared to then suggest any extreme curiosities out there that I have as I don't really want to be called really negative things by someone I like/care about.

[Avcfhcic]

The guy you're with shouldn't make you feel like that, and you should feel able to open up! What is it you're into? If you want you can message me and I'll give my opinion!

[Red_Arrow]

You are anonymous here. We have no idea who you are, So feel free to tell us about it.

[Opinion Owner]

The initial guy who called me that was about the kinks that I personally view as lighter. I've been reading up on some phycology and I do believe my past is part of it, since I was beaten a lot when I was younger. Sounds a bit strange but hang with me here. But I love pain and sex hair pulled being bitten (shoulder, boobs, inner thigh, ass) fingers digging into me hips, ass, shoulders. Nipples lightly twisted - hell maybe even hard but has to be during actual sex same with any hard bites). Gosh it makes me so hot whenever that's happened. Same with being blindfolded and cuffed to the bed though the only time that's happened it wasn't hard enough for me, I want to be teased so much that I'm almost delirious with desire. I want to try whipping and paddles. I want to bed and be denied my happy ending I want to be bad and be spanked. Hell I want to try a collar and have a leash and be made to pleasure him (though that would be bedroom only). I want to play with heat and melted wax and ice, seems like a fun way to spice things up. I even want to role play and act out various scenes cowboy, police, fireman, I'll even give the postman a whirl and of course I'd be more than happy to reciprocate. I'm weird, with a trusted partner with a few years under our belt, I would like to try swinging. There's something to be said about being in the same room and watching your lover fuck another lady while getting fucked by that lady's partner.

[Avcfhcic]

Well was not expecting all that lol. To be honest I understand the pain and sex correlation, I've heard a lot on that so i don't think that's anything to be ashamed of, it kind of makes some sense because it intensifies your pleasure. The role play and sub role also isn't anything I haven't heard, you just need a guy who wants to be a dom in the relationship. But you should always feel comfortable around the right guy to open up on these things!

[Opinion Owner]

Well you did say to bring it all out there I've got like 101 things I wanna try and loads of things that I wanna do that I've probably never even thought of. Occasionally I'd like the chance to switch it too I would love to face sit a guy and essentially force him to eat me out lol but I would need the confidence for that and that's not something I have. I'd much rather be lying on the bed or I would love to be standing up as I've never done that before. Plus I would love to cuff a guy and make him delirious with pleasure. So would like a guys whose a slight switch but most guys I meet are too vanilla, which is slight annoying lol

[Avcfhcic]

I'm all up for that switching part 😂 facesitting is a dream of mine. Its good you're open though so that if the guy is into stuff you might also want to do it too! You'll find him 🙂

[Opinion Owner]

Open... Not so much I just input little things into somewhat dirty talk and when I've gaged the response to that I slowly turn the dial up kinky street. Like I said I've never told anyone irl the last three paragraphs, well any men before me and my mates has talked about roleplay before but the rest is a secret. Most guys don't listen when I tell them my likes and turn ons, like slowly dragging your finger tips up and down my hips and the more into the session we are the more firmer the touch. Its like one of my biggest turn ons, but yeah most guys ignore me or do it once and never try again.

[Avcfhcic]

I suppose you have to respect some men don't want to do things like you might not want to do what they want. Personally giving pain is something I'd hesitate to do but I'd try for a girls pleasure. Feel free to chat with me anytime, like I have some weirder things lol, but you just need the right guy to open up with and explore your world of excitement!

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I totally get that I'm not so much into humiliation, although I have gotten turned on watching it but I don't think I'd want to do it 🤔 I'd be happy to just be bitten a few times (not enough to bleed). But last time it happened whenever I bent my leg to far eg going up the stairs. All I could think about was his head down there and every little jolt of pain brought me back to what we did together and I was so hot I couldn't concentrate the whole 2-3 days thereafter

[Avcfhcic]

Well it's nice you've experienced some of what you wanted! I hope you find the guy that's willing to go on that journey with you, the right person will allow you to open up and possibility try things for you. Ever want a chat feel free to message me!

[Charliefretz329]

Biting is hot! It feels so good especially on my cock! I know what you mean

[Hanrej]

Your fantasies are quite normal. 😊

[PoliteSpeaker]

Sounds pretty normal to me.

[ZDoes]

Fear. It's a killer. It kills growth, exploration, discovery. And it always kills a good time. It's my fondest wish for you that you find a playmate that you can completely trust. Sadly not many are worthy I know that personal experience. But I also know if I'm personal experience that when you find the right person who can nurture and protect your inner freak there are amazing wonderful experiences that await you. Sad part about it is if you're not willing to share the wonderful weird freakiness that is you you're not likely to be able to find the perfect partner because how will they know

[ZDoes]

And sweetheart when you find the right one you won't have to worry about him calling you names putting down or belittling you or humiliating you unless that is specifically part of one of your turn-ons. I personally feel that especially here in America we've endured the repression and suppression of natural sexual inclination as examples by our Puritan forefathers long enough it's time for Americans as a whole to let their freak flag fly. And that being said I'm really hoping and wanting you to feel comfortable and sharing with me anonymously if you choose you're kinks. I'm curious and I promise not to judge. And just as an offer I'll share with you one of my things because of the nature. Of it. I found that when my last girlfriend night started swinging I really really get a huge huge turn on by watching other men nails the person I care about. There's nothing like having her sucking on my cock while she's getting rammed from behind your head bouncing garage roll back in her head just incredible incredible turn on. And I'm hoping that that's not going to be the last time I get to experience that. I personally relish the idea and the job of creating a space for a woman to let her freak flag fly a safe place where she can let loose. And I'm not afraid of sharing the most important people that's what she desires. She does however have to be willing to allow me the same opportunities for exploration. When I'm in I committed relationship like that, absolute dedication to the unit that we make is Paramount and is required for deep trust which creates the safe space for exploration. So I invite you please talk to me privately send me a private message anonymously if you like but I'd like to continue this conversation and a manner with which we can communicate freely

[normalice]

Math. I used to masturbate a lot while i was studying to stay awake. But now any time i do math i get aroused.

[PoliteSpeaker]

Marriage. Feel free to destroy me below.

[humanearth]

Pegging
Lingerie
Big titties and a big ass

[convo_king89]

I get off seeing a girl in her regular cotton panties.

[Charliefretz329]

I’ve been ashamed of my kink to have a girl cut my penis off. Or bite it off…

[PoliteSpeaker]

:O Damn dude that is hardcore.

[Charliefretz329]

I know

[CuriousAZ]

Sometimes fantasize about sucking a cock, swallowing. And gettiing pegged. But i never act on it. Married over 40;years to a sexy gal. Faithful.

[humanearth]

I can agree to that as well

[Seppel]

Yes ballbusting

[Avcfhcic]

My balls shrivelled at the thought. Ouch 😂

[BlackManIsGod]

Hentai

[Amur8711]

I love all this you like, I be so down with trying this stuff!

[Anonymous]

Women shitting and pissing is a massive turn on for me

[Anonymous]

Giant women. Like 50 feet to Godzilla sized.

Macrophilia, is what it's called.

[PoliteSpeaker]

Never heard that one before. Why are you ashamed of it though?

[Opinion Owner]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qolmz4FlnZ0

[Anonymous]

Having my girlfriend take charge and doing submissive things like licking her toes or letting her handcuff me.

[Avcfhcic]

Nothing wrong with being a sub. I'd like a girl to be in control of her pleasure

[Anonymous]

I'm into some of the more extreme degradation like ass worship and wouldn't mind it dirty. I've even often fantasize about being trained to become a human toilet for a partner.

[Avcfhcic]

I've shared that too

[Anonymous]

Fucking a lady boy in the ass while wanking her cock off

[Anonymous]

Freaky guys turn me on usually not the innocent ones tbh.

[Speedoboy2029]

For me it's my big cock that scares me

[Anonymous]

I like being on the bottom with another guy even though I like girls and pussy and would only fall in love with a woman but I get some kind of satisfaction like woman does from taking it up my butt for a long time. Most people think that's taboo.

[Anonymous]

18 year old dick

[Anonymous]

Big dicks

[Anonymous]

Anal play for her.

[Avcfhcic]

Wdym for her?

[Opinion Owner]

Because I'm not into receiving, but I'll give her Anal play.

[Avcfhcic]

So anally penetrating her turns you on?

[Opinion Owner]

And giving her oral anal play.

[Avcfhcic]

Don't see why you're ashamed. They are 2 things I really want to do!

[Opinion Owner]

Well it depends on finding the right girl.

[Avcfhcic]

True. I'll settle for just finding a girl in general😂

[Opinion Owner]

Good plan.

[Opinion Owner]

Anything you are ashamed of?

[Avcfhcic]

Of course, however I can't reply anonymously lol. Close to yours but actually something to be ashamed of

[Opinion Owner]

That's ok.