How to fulfill my horniness in an LDR?

[Anonymous]

I’m in an LDR and I get super horny at night sometimes and really crave my man. I crave to see his dick and hear his sexy voice, but he’s unfortunately asleep during that time. How do I fulfill this horniness of mine without him? Masturbating alone isn’t enough sometimes..

Please don’t recommend talking to other guys. We are engaged and will live together next year, but til then I need options LOL. Masturbating by myself sucks and doesn’t satisfy me anymore. He deleted snap so all of his sexy pics and videos are
temporarily gone for now.

[PenkWing]

I feel your pain. When I know someone in person, sexting and cam play is never enough. But they are some of the only options.

Consider: setting virtual sex dates at times that work for both of you; exchanging steamy stories, if you are into writing erotica; sharing interests (porn that both of you like, interesting kinks, and so on); talking A LOT about your desire and what you would like to do with the other, as these will be precious mental images when you are masturbating by yourself.

Some people like to get a dick replica (Clone-a-Willy and similar) to use to feel physically closer to the other people, while other find it silly. But that trick and other similar ones can work to fill (pun intended) some of your physical needs in a way that feels closer.

More than everything, be explicit about it. Ask for more videos and pictures and keep them safe on your phone. Send hot content yourself and ask him for favorite poses and acts. And so on.

[Asker]

Ooo I really like the clone idea!! Thank you for responding!

[Anonymous]

Read this article.
www.learnsextherapy.com/.../how-to-manage-sexual-desire-in-long-distance-relationships

[summiter]

When a girlfriend of mine was away for the summer during college we often had Skype or Facetime sex. It was kinda fun to watch each other get naked and have a great orgasm. Try it!

[Asker]

That sounds so fun

[Almost10inch4funlol]

there’s toys for you both that can be controlled by the other person lol it could be interesting for you

[bubbakong2006]

Rub his cock hard and start riding it he will wake up and won’t mind

[Sam_The_Savage]

Than rent a dick for your tiny horny pussy

[Asker]

Nah, I wanna stay loyal to my man

[Sam_The_Savage]

Than stop asking stupid question

[Asker]

Your solution is to cheat, yet my question is stupid 😂😂

[Sam_The_Savage]

Cheating is smart play. It's not any stupid cup of tea.

[Ironic_Method]

Have him record videos for you. Thats what my wife did when we were LDR.

[Asker]

How do I request this? I’ve asked before and he always says he will, but rarely gets around to sending me anything.

[Ironic_Method]

I just told her that I'm a sexual person and I want to do what we can to satisfy our needs while LD. We cammed a bit, but then work got really busy for me so I just asked her to record stuff to send to me when she could. She sent me a video of her masturbating or deepthroating her dildo every day and that was plenty. Tell your man it's important to you! Be a priority.

[Asker]

I’m really sexual too. I’ve FaceTimed him whilst sucking a dick lollipop and he really enjoyed it and came every time. I mailed him some pussy pops and he still has yet to send me a video of him using it, but tbh I haven’t asked him to. I don’t like being pushy when it comes to sexual stuff because it makes me feel pathetic lol. So maybe I should take your advice and tell him it’s really important to me. It’s just hard if I have to ask more than once.

[Ironic_Method]

It is hard, but it's both of your jobs to make sure both of your needs are met! Gotta have that talk and get this resolved before you're unhappy.

[Jamie05rhs]

Um, ask him to send you more sexy photos?

Or maybe just coordinate your schedules so you can talk when you're both free.

[Wise4myage]

Masturbate a lot and have play with each other on video and cam.

[kellytheman]

Get a sex toy or use some long things to get you ful filling horniness filled.

[Twalli]

Have you tried masturbating with watch other on video call. If he's okay you can wn record a zoom call of him masturbating

[DanTheMan1995Xx]

Does mastication to porn not turn you on?

[Ìneedyourteengirl]

Then do it together and go get a like remote controlled panties or vibrating dildo and he can control it

[abc--123]

Video call him

[Asker]

He’s sleeping :/ 6 hour time difference

[Seppel]

I never experienced masturbation is not enough

[Asker]

It’s different when you’re older and in a committed relationship, but can’t be with that person physically as often as you would like.

[Seppel]

Maybe you are right. I never had a big sex drive

[Asker]

I didn’t at your age either, it skyrocketed for me around age 23 lol.

[Seppel]

Ok interesting. I thought most guys are realy horny while Young and it gets lower when older

[Zygum]

Use sex tools

[Justaguy30]

I'd say by a nice dildo or vibratory. Since you don't wanna fuck another man you could watch porn or just deal with solo masturbation.

[jenny_demarkis]

I agree with that and it might stimulate your man

[Justaguy30]

@jenny_demarkis yeah except her man is sleeping when she does this

[jenny_demarkis]

Well i woke up more than one man with some magic

[Justaguy30]

@jenny_demarkis lol. Nice

[fundesertguy]

Well unfortunately if he is not available at the times you are really horny and masturbation isn't quite doing it for you but you want to be satisfied, that really only leaves one thing and that would be having a guy friend who doesn't know you in real life and who knows discretion is tantamount and you and that guy via online chat or whatever can help satisfy each other

[Anonymous]

Vibrator with pillow masturbation

[Asker]

Grinding on a long pillow has been my go to lol

[Opinion Owner]

And do it make u better? Lol

[Asker]

Sometimes, not always

[Opinion Owner]

Do you tried sexting?

[Asker]

We have

[Anonymous]

U have any toys?

[Asker]

I do, but I can’t cum from most toys. The vibrations are too strong and make it hard for me to cum lol

[Opinion Owner]

Hmm 🤔 ok. Darn. Lol.