Do you think this woman is a pedophile?

[JessieBellll]

I know a woman on here who doesn't mind female pedophiles and likes it, but hates male pedophiles. I confronted her and she blocked me.

[drakethibault1]

Yes, I have heard previously, of some criminal cases female teachers molesting their students.
I think that woman wants to justify herself, maybe.

[Better_off_here]

She is not looking too good in my book.

[JessieBellll]

I agree

[meetkitty123]

I don't know you didn't really give us much to go on.
What age difference are we talking about?
There are different laws for age of consent and how many years are permitted between the two people
Anyone breaking age of consent laws and age gap laws are in the wrong
pedophiles are wrong no matter what gender they aim for or what gender they themselves are.

[JessieBellll]

She was talking about adults with underage teens, under age of consent

[Exxon]

Looks like some of you know who she is. yet i don't know who you talking about, i'm new here so can not tell anything.

[loves2learn]

Not enough info

[JessieBellll]

What info do you need

[loves2learn]

Did she engage in a sexual relationship with a minor under the age of consent?

[JessieBellll]

They don't have to do that to be a pedophile

[loves2learn]

Did she openly claim to be sexually attracted to children?

[JessieBellll]

No but she called the pedophile having sex with the kid a cougar. That suggests yes

[loves2learn]

She is not a pedophile. She is an enabler of pedophilia and paraphilia. pe·do·phile /ˈpedəˌfīl/ a person who is sexually attracted to children.

[JessieBellll]

That she is attracted to underage boys I mean

[JessieBellll]

Okay maybe you are right

[loves2learn]

Hmmm? You said she is attracted to boys under the age of 13?

[loves2learn]

Ok. Cool. Thanks. :)

[JessieBellll]

Underage boys, not necessarily under 13

[loves2learn]

Then, by definition, not a pedophile. If she acts on her attraction to boys under the legal age of consent but older than 13 she could be convicted of statutory rape.

[loves2learn]

Pedophilia (alternatively spelt paedophilia) is a psychiatric disorder in which an adult or older adolescent experiences a primary or exclusive sexual attraction to prepubescent children. Although girls typically begin the process of puberty at age 10 or 11, and boys at age 11 or 12, criteria for pedophilia extend the cut-off point for prepubescence to age 13. A person must be at least 16 years old, and at least five years older than the prepubescent child, for the attraction to be diagnosed as pedophilia.

[JessieBellll]

Doesn't matter because most people would consider her a pedophile. Media too

[loves2learn]

That is unfortunate because it waters down the term. She is definitely not a saint, but also not a pedophile.

[JessieBellll]

It's not unfortunate, it's what they deserve

[Shortman70]

I was sexually active with an older women when I was 13-14. She was married. I didn't look at her as a pedophile but more if a teacher. She taught me things about cunnilingus, telling me how to pleasure a female. At that age I had an average size penis. She taught me techniques to make a woman orgasm even tho I wasn't the size of a baby arm holding an apple. She showed me what to expect from a blowjob. She taught me that it wasn't just about my orgasm but the experience of emotions and pleasure, not just the penetration but the whole physical experience. It seems to be different for women than men, but most men are just there to get what they want then out the door they go. It also seems more traumatic from a man. But I was also raised in a time when your emotions didn't mean as much as they do now. The sticks and stones will break my bones but words will never hurt me. Not like now when they give you a pat in the back every few mins and tell you that you're a winner because you showed up. That's my opinion, take it or leave it.

[JessieBellll]

This woman clearly uses you just like any man would. I don't see how your response relates to my question. It seems you are just trying to promote pedophilia here which is not ok

[Shortman70]

I realize now what was happening to me back then. Mostly what I was trying to say that society looks at the sexes different. If a man would've done those things he would still be in jail. As a young boy it's kinda like a right of passage to have sex with an older woman. It's still just as wrong for the woman to do. Maybe she does hate herself and takes it out on the male phedofile. Maybe there's a difference in the victomology that she prefers. I don't know how she justified the difference. She still needs to be punished and get some kind of counseling, although they say those types of people cannot be fixed (for lack of better word) or changed. My abuser passed away awhile before I came to the realization if what happened and that it was wrong, but then part of me embraces the things that she taught me and how it's help in my future experiences. So you see I'm still confused by the dbl standards that are present.

[JessieBellll]

Did anyone know? She would have went to prison if reported these days like a man would

[Shortman70]

No nobody else knew about it. And I never said anything to my parents. I didn't have a lot a friend's and girls weren't interested cause I wasn't cute enough or my parents weren't well off, so I guess I considered her a friend and a girlfriend. I'm almost sure her husband had to know but that's all.

[JessieBellll]

Her husband knew That's even more fucked up and creepy. They would definitely go to prison both

[ScotishLegend]

It is quite odd

[Anon621]

I'm not sure if she's a pedophile or maybe she's biased with flawed logic I would probably say the second option

[DaveToo]

Those with pedophilia leanings don't want to have to justify those leanings to anyone.

[I_Am_Sazerac]

No, I doubt she's a pedophile, but she is an idiot nevertheless, and a sexist one at that. Or probably just a neckbeard pretending to be a woman during a mass troll attempt.

[Twalli]

Based on what you know she isn't

[Deserter]

Yes...

[TheAfrikan]

She is just crazy minded for sure.

[BlackManIsGod]

who is it? report them

[Anonymous]

What has she said that makes u think she's a pedo?

[JessieBellll]

She complimented the pedophile and her reaction

[Opinion Owner]

Can u post the link I'm curious

[Anonymous]

Sounds Gay too. Glad she blocked you because you know now what she is.

[JessieBellll]

It still annoys me

[Opinion Owner]

There is lots going on behind the computer curtain, dear. I have noticed this lots.