Why do girls enjoy sex at the the time but regret it later and when Years go by?

Why do they have sex with guys at the time, often initiate it, get wet, but years later they regret doing it and blame the guy? For being under "pressure " or other reasons.
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  • Because if you don't have sex before marriage, you are considered a prude.
    If you do it because of these reasons, then you are screwed.
    A man says he wants it "classy in the streets, freaky in the sheets."
    Not knowing when it is only a matter of time until a person cheats.
    "Find you them Christian woman in the churches, they're more obedient.", they say.
    Until after all of that, she realizes she was just another easy lay.
    A man has needs, she is being told,
    you better know what you like before getting too old.
    A man who makes promises he can't keep, leaves a woman feeling bitter with his deceit.
    "I would do anything to be with you!", he tells her in their teens,
    now your past 30, and now he wants another one clean.

    The reason why women are like this is that YOU no longer want to wait for marriage to have sex. They believed every word, mixed messages, and lies about a man and have sex especially if she won't put it out before marriage. She does it and now she is unhappy. You lie and say it's about your first time and making memories. Sex doesn't work like that. Sex is enjoyable. It's supposed to be. That is how God made it. But, what did God say in his word: GET MARRIED if you burn with passion. You don't want virgins. You don't want to wait. You tell us you can only love if she has sex with you. It is how you bond, you say. She believes that and now years later and guys later, now she cannot pair bond like her first time, she can't enjoy it the way she wanted, she remembers you like the nightmare you became to her life. Sex is a marriage and marriage is about having sex.

    So if sex is a marriage, she is married to you to death due you two apart. She will always remember how she doesn't have you. Why do you think she regrets it? We are always under pressure. I am a virgin for that reason also. So while it is not about me, I can share my experiences. I can say that is why men didn't want to continue because I said no to have premarital sex and to getting ruined. Now I'm being told nobody wants an old "30" year old woman? You men who think like this, no offense, be if you were just 12 or older, are that dense. Are you waiting for marriage to have sex? Then no offense, don't ask questions like this. It's common sense why. Take responsibility as she needs to take responsibility. If men say they're waiting and actually is, more woman would wait and actually does. Men are not waiting, so women aren't waiting. Women are having sex, and now regret doing it. You get mad because she is not putting out any more, calling her selfish and all sorts of names. How do you expect a woman to feel after all of those lies? Even guys have some regrets. Pay attention to what goes on around you, because life isn't all about you. It's about other people too.

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  • Maybe if he happened to be a jerk afterwards. I don't think you can really like it if you are under pressure

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  • Guilt. Or maybe the guy did pressure them.

  • It's called the hoe phase

  • They change their mind like Monica Lewinsky