Would you do #BDSM with your partner if they asked you to?

yes
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it depends
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no i’m vanilla
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  • Yes, and I have but sex to me is sweet, tender with teasing and biting, caressing, licking maybe chocking a little.
    when you start with Bondage where does it end?
    One of my exes liked bondage to the point they would be hitting each other and it became too much..
    I don't feel right causing my partner pain, not when there's love involved... I rather walk away and let her find someone else.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Yes. I’m into bdsm myself. My partner would likely already know before asking. I’ve only ever played as a dominant and I don’t think I can play a different role, so maybe it depends on the nature of the request.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yes, but I'd have to make sure my partner actually knew wtf it means and how to do it safely. I've been in situations before where the "Dom" was inexperienced/thought he knew what he was doing and what it meant but he ended up using it as an excuse to be abusive.

  • I was actually the one who pushed to do BDSM and he was the one who was initially hesitant about it. We both love it now though

    • What kind of BDSM do you like?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I mean, I do already, so, of course. I mostly only date girls who are into it to begin with.

  • I'd do it to her but wouldn't let her do it to me.

  • Mhmm definitely

  • Actually it’s the other way round with me at moment.

    I've had a history of BDSM partners and this is my first vanilla partner in years.

    she knows my past and I am leaving it to her to find her level, if she does not, then it’s fine.

  • Been there.
    Done that.

  • yes.

  • I'm not vanilla enough to answer this question.

  • im very dominate, But im just really rough, I dont hurt others or degrade them.

  • love it!

  • Hmm basic stuff like handcuffs or rope, etc.

    but nothing extreme.

  • depand what they want to do

  • BDSM yes, Vanilla nope.

  • I doubt it will be everything you thought or hoped it would be.

  • I'm already a BDSM Dom. look me up on Fetlife VikingMaverick

  • Not really my thing no

  • What exactly is it

    • bondage, submission, dominance, sadism, and machoism

    • But is the other person really in pain or is it just kind of like playing around like soft little pain like pinching

  • We already do BDSM often

  • Yes and have.

  • B, maybe some light stuff.

  • I am into BDSM anyway, as a Dom.

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