What would you do if your girlfriend/wife won‘t give you a blowjob?

[Anonymous]

would you break up? i don‘t want to do it because i find it extremely disgusting

[MrOracle]

If she felt like you do, that would probably be the end. But if she had a more legitimate reason, then I'd be okay with it.

I've been in this exact situation myself. The girl had really bad TMJ, where if she opened her mouth too wide or chewed too hard, the tendons that held her jaw would pop and she'd get lock jaw, and it was painful for her. That happened a few times to her just from trying to eat something - she couldn't eat an ice cream cone without a spoon.

In her case, it's not that she was UNWILLING to give BJs, it's that she was UNABLE. And she felt really bad about it, and felt that she needed to make up for it (even though I told her it wasn't necessary), and so she was willing to enthusiastically do virtually ANYTHING ELSE, at any time, day or night. As such, I had no complaints.

But a girl who is just unwilling? That's a turn-off. And I'd guess that most women would be similarly turned off if a guy she was dating wouldn't eat her out because he felt that doing so was "extremely disgusting" - and I wouldn't blame her for feeling that way either.

[ohshee]

It's not her job to allow me to stick my cock in her mouth she doesn't want that there's probably a good reason well maybe LOL look I wouldn't put a cock in my mouth either and I wouldn't let anybody come in my mouth either do I enjoy eating pussy and I enjoy making the biggest fucking mess possible but what I really like is to make love to her and to make her get off as many times as I possibly can that is my job I don't have to worry about no blow job as long as I can make her come a couple times every time we have sex and do it the way I want to so I can make it even better I'm a happy camper

[Katie1964]

If the wife in my relationship wouldn't give Hubby a BJ, I would have to look myself in the mirror and ask what the hell is wrong with me.

[liel443]

I feel the distinction between wife and girlfriend makes a huge difference in the situation at hand. You need to clarify the situation.

[Cryptoanonne]

Lol fuck blowjobs. Theyre overrated as hell and if your gonna leave someone over them thats the dumbest shit ever

[Asker]

True

[MrCommodore]

Nothing, stick to things she is happy to do, im not a fan of blow jobs.

[summiter]

Don't do anything you don't want to including bjs. I would not break up. After all we can still have great sex! Guys love handjobs... do they gross you out also?

[Asker]

No thats okay i just dont want it in my mouth

[spartan55]

I wouldn't break up with her because I would never be with her to begin with.

[normalice]

If she is interested in neither anal nor blowjobs, we aren't compatible. If she doesn't do blowjobs but is an anal queen it could work, though.

[AndyOh]

Then don't do it.
Some guys love a blowjob, so you might have to search a bit to find a guy who does not want or care for one.
On the other side of that, I dated a girl who did not want me to go down on her because she felt it was disgusting. I love it. After a year we broke up, and I think part of it was me and what I wanted but was missing.

[DonkeyDan]

It's not a deal-breaker but I'd find it hard being in a relationship with someone who wasn't prepared to. As long as she is happy for me not to go down on her it would be ok I guess. Really depends how everything else is in the relationship.

[boggboss]

Meh I would moss it but oh well

[Kaneki05]

That would be 100% okay with me, longs if she's not a hypocrite if i chose not to eat her out.
Fair is fair.

[Miristheiss]

Ever? Yes, based on the way you describe it, it would be a break up.

Sorry my love... I find your body and the though of having to touch it EXTREMELY DISGUSTING.
Yeah, I think I'll go find a girl who is attracted to me and has desire for my body... not one who finds it disgusting.

[Asker]

Touching it and having it in your mouth are different things

[Miristheiss]

Only to you. I want to kiss and eat my girl up from head to toe. I find her attractive. I like having people I find attractive in my mouth... kisses and everything. It turns me on. It is very intimate. The mouth is intimate... hence it is why you usually only eat up those you are into and desire. You want to "eat them up". If touching someone with your mouth isn't exciting and intimate to you... you don't find them attractive... you aren't into them... or you have sexual sexual hang up or disconnect that will rule you out as a sexual partner for a large chunk of the population.

[Asker]

Thats your opinion i really just dont want it in my mouth everything else is okay

[HighValue]

As long as there is still frequent sex and I get to go down on her often then it is okay.

[Dargil]

That's not grounds for divorce but if you need it, the girl friend can go. And she needs to be told.

[FunkyMonkee]

Fuck her!! It wouldn't matter to me at all!! I've never been interested in getting a blow job and, so far, never have!

[MeauxJoMan]

that depends on the guy, i personally don't care. Its not a deal breaker. I have heard some guys talk about just that and i always have to hold back a laugh. For some crazy reason, the guy talking about usually looks fresh from the trailer park.

[FilmGuy93]

I would just not ask her to suck me off. If she doesn't want to give head, that's okay.

[rcljr]

Go get one somewhere else.

[JClone55]

I wouldn't care. I like going down on a woman better anyway. Not that I don't enjoy a good blowjob, but I could survive without them.

[Browneye57]

So, you lied about your age huh? We know you're really 12. Reported.

[Asker]

im 23😤

[Browneye57]

I'm sorry. If you don't like blowjobs just say no. It's just one item on the sex buffet, and it's not even the main course. You likely won't like butt-sex either.

[VikingWarLord]

I'd definitely cheat and get a b! tch on the side who would suck my big cock. If you saw how big I am, you'd understand why I like watching a b! tch go down there and put both hands on it while she tries to deep throat it and GAG!

[BarryLiverstone]

I would break up if she refused after lots of discussion. Just shows she isn’t willing to meet my needs and means she will not meet other needs as well.