Help, I don't feel attracted to my girlfriend anymore?

She used to be hot, but now she's aging and gaining weight. I don't feel the urge to have sex with her anymore, but she's a nice person. I want to break up, but she wants to stay together.
Should I just tell her to get better at oral? Good oral goes a long way.
She should get better at oral so I feel some satisfaction.
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She should compromise by getting me a sex doll or making it an open relationship.
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Just break up because you deserve to be happy and satisfied sexually.
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Some women on gag feel that guys with small dicks should compensate by getting better at oral sex, or else the woman deserves better. She should leave him or have an open relationship. If the woman's body is unattractive he's a piece of shit for not loving her as she is. Just as long as everyone understands that a woman can be unattractive, gain weight, lose her looks and be undesirable too. In that case fair is fair and she better get on her knees and get real good at oral or he should dump her.
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  • Absolute asshole. Her body and getting better at oral? Not comparable at all, maybe she's going through something she doesn’t want to be open about, very cocky and egotistical of you to say you’re still attractive but she's not because she gained weight, just wait for the day a girl says she's not into because your unattractive to her and in order to keep her you get better, you’re time is coming you won't look the way you do now. she could be mentally unstable and your possibly her last hope for happiness. Its cruel to even continue this if you don’t like her anymore solemnly ONLY because of her appearance people who are in love care about each other and not what one another looks like or their sexual abilities. You were clearly not in love with her in the first place and she should not be given an ultimatum like that just to keep the relationship. Absolute dick move just leave her alone.

    • This question is just in response to the small dick guy's question where his girlfriends kept leaving him because they want a bigger dick. Most of the women on gag told him to get better at oral if he wants to have value to women, to "Better himself." I'm just showing what horrible advice that is by reversing the roles and making the woman the sexually unattractive one. Now she has to get better at oral or she would have no value. That's obviously triggering to women now, but when it's a small dick guy told to get better at oral nobody cares. I'm exposing hypocrisy. In reality it's the responsibility of both partners in the relationship to be loving, accepting and to find ways to enjoy sex together without disrespect and forcing one to "Get better at oral" to be worth something.

  • You don't really sound like you care about her that much anyway. Might as well break up so she can go find someone that actually wants her.

    • She's too ugly now and she really wants me to stay with her. I mean this really is just an opportunity for her to better herself and learn to give me good oral. Otherwise I gotta cut her loose and find my happiness. She's nice and I do deserve a nice woman. Ugly women and small dick guys have got work to do if they want to be valuable huh?

    • yeaaaahhh like I said, you don't really care about this woman. Do you give her good oral?

    • I'm good looking though, I don't need to do much to keep her. It's like how a woman doesn't have to do much to keep a small dick guy, he just better get good at oral or he's gonna get dumped right? Same thing.

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  • I think you're right. If the roles were reversed no one would argue putting preassure on the man... So go for it.

    What you will find though just like all women that is looking to trade up is that eventually there is no one to trade up to. Those who're better than what you left are either allready taken or learned long ago that the only way to truly reach any kind of height is using others.

  • Honestly I doubt you have a girlfriend. This sounds like you are trying to point out hypocrisy rather that seek help in a relationship

    • You are correct. 🏆

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  • Now, wait. You age as well. We all do. That is one of your reasons for breaking up with her? Because she is getting older?

    • Well I just read another question where the guy has a small dick and his girlfriends keep dumping him. Women here told him to get better at oral sex so he will be valuable basically. Now my girlfriend has no sexual value to me anymore so shouldn't she also get better at oral to make me stay?

    • So you feel she owes it to you to improve on oral in order for you to stay with her? Is that what I am understanding?

    • Yes. I just checked your response to that question from the depressed small dick guy. You said "Oral goes a long, long way. Size isn’t everything. Mostly how you use it." I feel like my girlfriend needs to understand that oral goes a long, long way as you put it. Maybe she needs to better herself like some of the women told that guy.

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  • There WILL come a time when no woman will fancy you. So grow up, grow a pair and stop being a user. Be thankful she still wants you.

    • But wait, whenever guys on gag say that their girlfriend is unhappy about their dick size most of the women here tell him to get good at oral. I'm unhappy with my girlfriend's body so shouldn't she also get good at oral to please me?

    • She isn't a sex machine. If she is happy the way she is, don't force her to change.

    • I'm not attracted to her now, just like the women who don't want the small dick guy. Fair is fair. I feel I deserve a woman who looks better unless my girlfriend can compensate by getting better at her oral skills. Just like the women who told the small dick guy to improve his oral if he wants a girlfriend.

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  • sounds like you already made up your mind before asking this question so just break up with her.

  • You seem to be focusing solely on your needs, and looks like you don't actually care for her at all. I think maybe you should be break up with her but mainly for her benefit not yours.

    • But she's ugly now and she's the one who wants me to stay. I'm trying to help her the same way women on gag help small dick guys stay in relationships. I'm gonna tell her to improve her oral skills because oral is very important.

    • Seriously dude I don't even think you deserve her, if you love her it doesn't matter what she looks like. If you don't love her then it's not fair to stay with her. This isn't the same as a guy not being able to satisfy a woman because he's small, you actually don't love her.

    • The guy who was small kept losing girlfriends. They told him that want a bigger dick. Did they love him? Most women in gag told him to get better at oral. My girlfriend better get better at oral or she's gonna be as lonely as that small dick guy.

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  • The BJ think is irrelevant. If she's a drag dump her ass. Find one you DO like.

  • And you of course look the same if not better than when you got together 😂 let's be honest you don't have a relationship

    • This question is just in response to the small dick guy's question where his girlfriends kept leaving him because they want a bigger dick. Most of the women on gag told him to get better at oral if he wants to have value to women, to "Better himself." I'm just showing what horrible advice that is by reversing the roles and making the woman the sexually unattractive one. Now she has to get better at oral or she would have no value. That's obviously triggering to women now, but when it's a small dick guy told to get better at oral nobody cares. I'm exposing hypocrisy. In reality it's the responsibility of both partners in the relationship to be loving, accepting and to find ways to enjoy sex together without disrespect and forcing one to "Get better at oral" to be worth something.

    • Oh ok so like some kind of social experiment I wouldn't have given that advice to Mr small penis personally

    • Yes, I'm trying to bring attention to this issue the only way you can get attention on gag. By triggering the hypocrites, and getting them into a debate they can't win. It might make them think about how it feels, and remember this question the next time they tell someone to get better at licking someone else's genitals if they want to have relationship. I have nothing against oral sex, but it can quickly turn into degradation if It's used as an ultimatum "Be good at it or I'm leaving" type of thing. I'm glad you're not one of the people giving that advice.

  • She should breakup with you.
    She deserves better.

    • This question is just in response to the small dick guy's question where his girlfriends kept leaving him because they want a bigger dick. Most of the women on gag told him to get better at oral if he wants to have value to women, to "Better himself." I'm just showing what horrible advice that is by reversing the roles and making the woman the sexually unattractive one. Now she has to get better at oral or she would have no value. That's obviously triggering to women now, but when it's a small dick guy told to get better at oral nobody cares. I'm exposing hypocrisy. In reality it's the responsibility of both partners in the relationship to be loving, accepting and to find ways to enjoy sex together without disrespect and forcing one to "Get better at oral" to be worth something.

  • What does oral have to do with it?

    Anyway, you should definitely break up. It's best for the both of you (especially for her).

    • Ah, this is a fake question. My bad.

    • Oral goes a long way apparently, according to women here on gag. The answer to your partner being unattractive or having a small dick is to give them an ultimatum. Get down on your knees and give me good oral or I'm gone.

    • Never heard that before.

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  • Dude, you’re not married to her, you can literally just send a text and be broken up in 15 seconds, depending on how long the text is. If you don’t want to be with her, just end it.

  • Do you ever give her oral for a change?

    • I would if she hadn't gained weight and aged so much. You wouldn't want to go down on her either. It's just like the women who dump their small dick boyfriends because they're unsatisfied. He's being told by women on gag to get good at oral to make them stay. My ugly girlfriend is gonna have to get better at sucking dick if this is gonna work out.

  • Why are all three options for your benefit, but none considers any effort on your part? Option D: work on your issues with body weight and aging; a therapist could work.

    • I read a question earlier about a small dick guy and his girlfriends kept leaving him. None of the women who commented said that those women should have tried to be better and find ways to enjoy his penis as is. All of there advice was for him to eat pussy better. Why should I change myself, my girlfriend should just suck my dick better. Problem solved.

    • That sounds petty and vindictive. Did you make up this scenario just to make a point or is this actually happening to you?

    • It is to make a point because there is hypocrisy and a major double standard here. The advice to get good at oral otherwise you're worthless that's being given to small dick guys is horrible, and the way some women feel that dick size is all there is to good sex is really naive. Women aren't taking enough responsibility in their sexual relationships to be loving and accepting. They're putting way too much pressure on those small dick guys. This question should show them how it feels to be reduced to an object if their looks fade, and they better get good at oral or else they're worthless. It's supposed to hurt and trigger and open their eyes to fact that they should quit telling small dick guys to get good at oral because it's horrible to treat people that way.